Can't MOVE ON EVEN THO AM HEARTBROKEN. IS IT OKAY?

[BlackAfrican]

I don't know if I can find love in here but I need someone to love me and care for me. My boyfriend broke up with me last week and it's been really hard without him cause I love him so much. I am in dire need of more friends, someone to talk to and share my thoughts with.. Is it okay that I can't love someone else even tho he has moved on? I don't know why it's hard for me to forget him?💔😩

Try another guy.

Stay single

[Zarapeachy]

I understand how you may feel. But focus on for a bit... probably the rest of the year. Do not rush into something else with someone else because you will hurt that person since you not over the ex. So relax. Try new things. Be alone and see if you can enjoy your own company. Volunteer at a shelter. Anything. Learn to cook a new skill

[BlackAfrican]

Okay, thank you very much

[mindNsoul]

Your wounds are still fresh I think take some time to heal. Join activities, courses, read, go out. I think one week is too soon to start a new relationship. And it is normal to hurt so bad at the beginning 🌹

[BlackAfrican]

Thank you, I appreciate your opinion

[mindNsoul]

Thanks for the mho. I hope it gets easier with time🌹

[BlackAfrican]

You welcome, thank you too❤️

[zeitgeist057]

You can go either way here. If you find another guy, it’s mostly going to be a rebound guy. Which kind of sucks because that means you’re sort of using somebody who might actually be a cool person but you’re not really emotionally available so they don’t have a chance. But, on the other hand it’s good for you to get out there and move on, at least going through the motions. Staying single Might mean you’re gonna just keep obsessing and focusing on this ex and not really moving on with your life.

To play devils advocate though, staying single is actually the stronger, healthier choice. But not if you’re going to spend all that single time obsessing and fantasizing about this ex of yours. It’s only good to be single and strong and healthy if you’re actually moving on and not thinking about the past.

There really are a ton of people out there that you could fall in love with, that could fall in love with you. Try practicing the five love languages with everyone, strangers and yourself. You will find the love that you send out into the universe will come back to you. But even if it doesn’t, you’re gonna feel good

[BlackAfrican]

Thank you so much, I appreciate

[Unit1]

Yep. Such are heartbreaks. You gave him your heart and he smashed it. That's how you know you shouldn't be with him any longer even if he begs you for forgiveness and even gives you his money.

so yeah. Waste no time - get to dating whenever you're ready. Could be between today or in a year.

[BlackAfrican]

Okay, thanks

[Andytherese]

I think you should stay single until you are ready to love someone else...

[BlackAfrican]

Thank you.. okah

[dudeinohio]

You'll find someone new... don't worry. Just give yourself time to get over the breakup. It does take a bit of time sometimes. Work on you... eventually, you'll be ready to date again.

[BlackAfrican]

Thank you for your opinion ❤️

[dudeinohio]

You are very welcome. If you need a friend, you can pm me. If you want.

[BlackAfrican]

Okay I will do that❤️❤️

[dudeinohio]

Ok, great😊

[Emcalcuadrado0]

Try using sites to find people, but not this. try skout, oasis, meetme, mobifriends, etc

[BlackAfrican]

Thanks

[GreenGold1992]

Stay single for now, you may need more time to recover.

[BlackAfrican]

Okay

[garrysingh638]

stay single for while and work on yourself. Do whatever you want and read good book and go out with friend to have fun at calm place.

[korey182]

i'm not sure, i'm sorry, it's definitely your best judgement

[BlackAfrican]

Okay

[Anonymous]

Beg him back

[BlackAfrican]

😱😱

[beatcoock]

Try another guy

[BlackAfrican]

Okay