Polls: Break Up & Divorce

Or would you break it off because it would be awkward (because you don't like them in return)?

What would you do in that situation? Is it immature to say no when one's crush asks if you want to do a certain activity together, when your main reason is to avoid solitary interaction with them? Or would having the opportunity to have someone to share your hobby with be enough to distract you from unrequited feelings, and so you'd say yes, as you focus on the activity and not who you do the activity with?

A genie asks you which one you choose. You have to choose either. Or else you get the burning 💩

I'm 40, and recently broke up with my boyfriend (47) of 11 months. We had hundreds of days filled with highs, he is social, charming, has a lot of friends, loves going out, having fun. He was very sweet, romantic and caring during these times. There were red flags that I tried to rationalize- binge drinking multiple times a week, crippling debt from student loans and cc (>200K), no career motivation and health issues that started popping up (probably from drinking). We had 6-7 arguments over the last year, that I thought were heated but never out of control (and always under the influence of alcohol). The next day we'd both apologize and move on. I realized he'd get overwhelmed then, and sometimes even at the smallest disagreement or when I needed to vent (when both were sober). I showed concern about his health and debt and the stupid fights that happened while drinking. Asked him to cut back, but he was super defensive and in denial. Fast forward to the new year, we were going to move in together and he was going to propose. He suddenly started acting disinterested and cold and last week suddenly declares he doesn't want to move in together. I'm taken aback and ask why, and he brings up the fights and that it's too frequent. I ask if he's overwhelmed with all his issues, and he admits he is, but keeps blaming me for the fights. I say I'll work on being more understanding and only bring up stuff while we're both sober and in a calm way, but I can't change the past, only do better in the future. He's reluctant to accept my words and I finally ask in frustration if he wants to break up. He says he doesn't know what wants, but needs time on his own to think. Over the next 3 weeks, I don't hear from him and he ignores my call and texts, forcing me to text and email him an official breakup note. Rationally, I know he's not good for me in his current state, but my heart still loves him. I want to know if a man like this can change. Does he deserve a second chance?

Personally with my ex it would have been better to have never loved at all!

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Just wondering if I dated too soon after my breakup

Just wondering.

Several of my divorced friends seemed to get more desire after a divorce then during Thier previous marriage. Yet after marrying again it went down and their single stye social media pictures stopped.

The photos became more thier family and of course the kids again.

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Yes lesbian let's get that answered!

Yes also I really love her we get along well and everything is perfect and we are planning kids soon! ❤️

But I have always faked it in bed she wants me finishing when she does always or gets emotionally hurt and cries. But well I take longer like 30 minutes or longer. She gets bored and tired so I kinda just make her happy.

Some day this lie will come out and I don't want it to end but also it will crush her!

No not cheating to make myself happy!

No kids just you two!

Some of my friends more coworkers are sale addicts and I wonder how Thier husbands feel about it.

Only answer is that they won't mind cause it makes her happy! She wants me happy!

Guy meets a girl who is on the brink of divorce. She has a teenage daughter. She lives in another country.
Guy and girl travel once every couple of months to see each other.
After six months of knowing each other, guy plans to leave everything and move to be with her.
He gives himself a year to take care of everything.
Do you think he will move and they will be able to stay together?

P. S. Her child and husband are not ok with the divorce.