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If I'm trying to distance myself from my crush, is it childish to say no to doing a one-on-one activity together that I would otherwise want to do?

Bethany22

What would you do in that situation? Is it immature to say no when one's crush asks if you want to do a certain activity together, when your main reason is to avoid solitary interaction with them? Or would having the opportunity to have someone to share your hobby with be enough to distract you from unrequited feelings, and so you'd say yes, as you focus on the activity and not who you do the activity with?

I'd focus on whether I wanted to do the activity rather than who I'd be doing the activity with, even if it was with my crush who doesn't like me back
I'd focus on the unrequited feelings I'd have to suffer through while doing the activity, and say no, even though we would be doing an activity I'd otherwise want to do
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If I'm trying to distance myself from my crush, is it childish to say no to doing a one-on-one activity together that I would otherwise want to do?
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