I had a crush on a guy who lives in a different country for about 6 months now.
Every couple months I visit this country and I go to the city A.
He lives in a B city which is about 418 kilometres away from city A.
There are a couple people I know that live in city B (where he lives) and a few very long distance relatives.
I decided I will go to the city B to meet him (we chat on social media occasionally). He agreed.
So I arrived in this country to city A and took a bus to city B. I'm trying to tell myself that I came here because of my long distance relatives and some other people I know but deep down I know that I just wanted to see him.
He made it clear that he is not interested a couple times now.
I feel incredibly pathetic, can't believe I went as far as to travel to see a guy (we've met a couple times before).
Have you ever did anything this crazy?
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I served a beautiful young woman for four years, and she never once let me have any penetrative sex with her. She did let me kiss and lick her feet and butt, and sometimes she used me for 'after date cleanup service', but every weekend I had to clean her house, do her and her boyfriend's laundry, pay for their romantic evening, and then come back on Sunday afternoon to get the place cleaned up again to start the week.
It's not crazy what you did. You did it out of love for him. It's his fault. Don't feel pathetic but be proud that you pulled what few dare do for effort. I can assure you you are a keeper if you went to that extent
Thank you for your kind words which do make the situation better.
I am now 100 percent positive I've got feelings for that person.
This is because when we were talking my voice changed I couldn't recall the simple things. I was nervous and just not myself... Which I think he picked up on.
I can't believe I came and feel very sad amd exhausted.
This is not something I should be doing at my age. If he found out he would probably think I'm insane or just feel bad for me...
I salute you and pray you succeed. If a woman did something like this for me I would surely never let her go :))
You are not insane. If someone said you are insane then you are better off without them
Thank you:) I pray you will find a woman lile that one day.
Altough at that point hope it will be mutual
Do I know you?
You talk like you know me already?
And yes I do want someone who is serious and willing to do what you did. I myself would have done what you did if situation was same.
When did I talk like I knew you, sorry?
Just finished you to find someone like that since you said that you are looking for a woman like that.
Not sure where talking like I know you part came from
Oh haha, yeah deja Vu.
Yeah I am for someone too.
Wishing you the best 🙏. And don't even think you were wrong to do what you did. If someone doesn't like you the way you are really ready to risk everything for him then he is not the one for you.
This life is limited and you can be sure sitting around no one is going to come for you but someone will come to meet you if you are brave.
What you did for your man is better than getting a lottery of million dollars 👍
Hah, thank you!
Take care!