Should I apologize for rushing things? How do I untangle myself from this situation!

[Anonymous]

So I have known this girl for a good 2 months and in the heat of things I believe I have rushed things...

Since first talking to her I have always been a big flirt with her and admitted to her that I have a crush on her (which I most prob shouldn't have said).. Even this past weekend we made out with each other at this party but now I kinda got this feeling that she doesn't want me to get the wrong impression that we are a couple or something and I can feel herself trying to distance herself from me since that night which is driving me nuts!

So ladies what is the best way to approach this? Should I apologize for rushing things cause I don't want her to get the impression that I am madly in love with her which I am afraid is the impression she has of me!

[viva_glow]

Don't apologize.

Just begin to act more aloof the way you think you should. Don't shower her with attention and play it kind of cool. Don't act too attached to her and don't always say yes, and those kinds of things. You need to add an element of mystery. You need to distance yourself a bit so she can have a chance to miss you. If you do these sorts of things, you'll rope her right back in.

If you apologize or even bring such a thing up in conversation, you'll seem insecure about the whole thing. You don't want that. You want to be the cool, collected guy who's got all sorts of priorities in life, and she's not the first.

I assure you that if you follow that sort of agenda, she'll be right there behind you.

Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Just show her that you're cool with the way things are by backing up and giving her a little space. Don't disappear though, just try to match her pace and see what happens.