Why do a friend go behind your back to talk to your crush?

[Anonymous]

I’m not sure how to confront my “friend” about this, but I’m already distancing myself from her and her sneaky ways. I’ve found out that she tried to sabotage my chances with not one, but two of my crushes when I started talking to them by going behind my back and trying to speak to them too even though she already has a boyfriend. Why would someone do that and should I confront her or just cut her off

[Sleeptalk]

Because she's not your friend. Sounds like she's jealous and doesn't think you deserve attention and she sounds like a bad girlfriend at that

[Asker]

Yes :( she always comments on how “hot” they are then says they’re not even interested in me and then she goes behind my back to talk to them

[ryubeinganonyme]

it depens on you you can or cut it off or confront her. the best is to confront her to ask for her to explain. i had a relatable situation and i confronted her and it went well! but its first of all up to you! good luck hope i helped!