alright - we are no longer boyfriend/girlfriend but I still cannot help and wonder why
why my boyfriend constantly bad mouth me in front of every single male of of his- like those friends or colleagues in general first time I met them - we talked happily the conversation was pretty good and I got like compliments from them like I'm a very nice girl and looking pretty
pretty soon the next time when I see them (especially those who very close with him) just look me like I am an evil bitch - which I don't understand why
i thought they were just weird or something but it getting serious because its more than that, and those people I only met once or twice and don't even had a proper conversation with them ever
the relationship between me and him was I'm always the one who is on top of the relationship . I'm not sure is that I always show that I don't really need him, cos I'm very happy about myself, and if he is not happy with me, he can just go and I think it will be his lost. because sometimes he argued with me like some very immature stuffs, I just can't be bother to fight with him, when he can't get his own way, bcos I'm very good at just leave it - always turns out he can't hold anymore just surrender and have to admit his own fault - he always not happy about that and said why I have to say sorry? I said to him you don't have to say it if you don't want to - no body force you - just I don't think I did anything wrong, but if you think you were right - you can insisted.
i did talked to him about that situation - he denied that he bad mouth me at his office and in front of his friends - and constantly ask me out to those events with full of his friends and colleagues which I had been couple of times, I already feel they are not friendly but I dun know why - I'm generally very friendly girl and I have lots of friends and I just don't know why what happened to his friends why that hate me so much
later on I kind of found out he talked sh*t to his colleagues and his colleagues wife can't help anymore of his behavior and told me that he talked behind my back - and seems playing the victim games - I just can't help and wonder? why if you hate me so much but keep saying you love me? and want me to see your friends? I always wanted to build up a good relationship with his friends I always ask him to invited them over for dinner or maybe a poker night or something - but it never happens.
i spoke to a male colleague of mine - he said he kind of understand why he behaving like this - because he want to isolate me away from everyone and wanted me to lose confidence of myself , just want me to think that I can only have him - he is the one can only treat me well - and based on what people react like don't like me and I will finally like under control by him
i simply don't understand what his mind thinking - I mean I shouldn't careless now but I just can't help and wonder is that what he really thinking? what's the guys opinion?
thanks a lot :)
why my boyfriend constantly bad mouth me in front of every single male of of his- like those friends or colleagues in general first time I met them - we talked happily the conversation was pretty good and I got like compliments from them like I'm a very nice girl and looking pretty
pretty soon the next time when I see them (especially those who very close with him) just look me like I am an evil bitch - which I don't understand why
i thought they were just weird or something but it getting serious because its more than that, and those people I only met once or twice and don't even had a proper conversation with them ever
the relationship between me and him was I'm always the one who is on top of the relationship . I'm not sure is that I always show that I don't really need him, cos I'm very happy about myself, and if he is not happy with me, he can just go and I think it will be his lost. because sometimes he argued with me like some very immature stuffs, I just can't be bother to fight with him, when he can't get his own way, bcos I'm very good at just leave it - always turns out he can't hold anymore just surrender and have to admit his own fault - he always not happy about that and said why I have to say sorry? I said to him you don't have to say it if you don't want to - no body force you - just I don't think I did anything wrong, but if you think you were right - you can insisted.
i did talked to him about that situation - he denied that he bad mouth me at his office and in front of his friends - and constantly ask me out to those events with full of his friends and colleagues which I had been couple of times, I already feel they are not friendly but I dun know why - I'm generally very friendly girl and I have lots of friends and I just don't know why what happened to his friends why that hate me so much
later on I kind of found out he talked sh*t to his colleagues and his colleagues wife can't help anymore of his behavior and told me that he talked behind my back - and seems playing the victim games - I just can't help and wonder? why if you hate me so much but keep saying you love me? and want me to see your friends? I always wanted to build up a good relationship with his friends I always ask him to invited them over for dinner or maybe a poker night or something - but it never happens.
i spoke to a male colleague of mine - he said he kind of understand why he behaving like this - because he want to isolate me away from everyone and wanted me to lose confidence of myself , just want me to think that I can only have him - he is the one can only treat me well - and based on what people react like don't like me and I will finally like under control by him
i simply don't understand what his mind thinking - I mean I shouldn't careless now but I just can't help and wonder is that what he really thinking? what's the guys opinion?
thanks a lot :)
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