Why is is that my ex boyfriend who I think is narcissistic is mad or avoids me due to me exposing him for cheating with my own cousin and old friend?

[ShateriaNorman1]

My ex boyfriend currently was going around and sending his friends to watch my social media along with telling his friends his side of the story based off on what he did he lied for a year in my face about cheating on me with my own cousin she showed me messages of him flirting with her and him talking inappropriate to her along with him also cheating by dating one of my old friends behind my back and messed around with her months after he tried to talk to my cousin behind my back he seems to feel salty due to me exposing what he did because he’s a snake and he portrayed snake behavior he never admitted or owned up to talking to my cousin behind my back then he tried to manipulate me by lying on my cousin and lying to me to make me and her go against each other because of what he did he’s also very jealous of me and insecure he always find ways to try to bring me down and he even was talking about me to his friends and decided to tell them that what he did was a big deal but not really which was very immature behavior of him so he proceeded to accuse me of spreading rape rumors saying that I so called told everyone that he raped me when I never said that I would never and after he did that he blocked me he literally asked me did I say that and then when I said no I know your making that up he proceeded to accuse me of acting like I didn’t know what he was talking about then he blocked me because I exposed him for what he did typically narcissistic behavior

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6 mo

So in this situation is he ashamed of his actions and behavior? As a narcissist I don’t understand why he feels the need to try to move like he hates me when he’s the one who started all of this nonsense

[Mach40]

I would avoid him at all costs. Its a trap.

[ShateriaNorman1]

I agree as far as in the avoiding part I’ve blocked him and haven’t spoke or seen him every since I exposed him for who he really is and by the way what do you mean by it’s a trap?

[Mach40]

You tube narcissistic trap... And anger... Grey rock.. cheating.. Avoiding... its a must since you are confused... You will be able to understand everything you went just through so it will never happen again. Also understand the danger in his anger so you don't get attacked or worse.

[Mach40]

It seems that your ex-boyfriend's behavior is driven by a combination of guilt, insecurity, and potentially narcissistic traits. Here's a breakdown of what might be happening:

Exposing his infidelity and dishonesty likely made him feel guilty and ashamed of his actions. People who cheat often try to justify their behavior or deflect blame onto others.

His jealousy and attempts to bring you down could stem from his own insecurities. Sometimes, people who engage in hurtful behavior try to diminish others to feel better about themselves.

His manipulation, lying, and attempts to make you and your cousin go against each other are indicative of manipulative behavior, which can be associated with narcissistic traits. Narcissists often lack empathy and may resort to manipulation to protect their self-image.

Accusing you of spreading false rumors is a form of gaslighting, which is a manipulative tactic used to make someone doubt their own reality.

In situations like these, it's essential to prioritize your well-being and focus on healing from the emotional turmoil caused by the relationship. Limit contact with your ex-boyfriend and consider seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist to help process your emotions and navigate the aftermath of the relationship. It's important to remember that you deserve respect and honesty in any relationship, and exposing dishonesty is not a reflection of your behavior but rather a response to his actions.

[Billlewis]

Probably because he knows you're right.

[ShateriaNorman1]

Right about what?

[Billlewis]

In telling the truth about him.