Do you think it's weird that I've had 9 ex boyfriends, but most of them ended, and most of the relationships were unsuccessful?

[TheSimFans]

I know that how i only got trust with my ex-boyfriends. Relationships have been more difficult than good for me. There was only one good relationship I had, but it also ended. My last ex boyfriend did turn into a toxic person and kept blaming my trust issueson some girls in the past. He was one that did have derosspion and coudn't take anymore. Since I didn't want to stay and we broke up by text, I ended it. Being single, I am trying to find guys who are not toxic, abusive, abusers, verbally abusive. i can only date or be in a relationship with a guy with a learning disability. I only seem has anxiety now and also don't want to be used and dump again. two of my ex boyfriend did get back into touch. One of them try to ask me out to be their girlfriend on Instagram and said no your are cheater reply. i was asking if they know any single men or boys. I asked some of my friends as well, but they didn't know any guys that are single. That's why I only do online dating if I can find similar guys. some lasted 6 months or a year. I didn't have any sex since I'm virgin and I don't see the point of having sex and i get uncomfortable by some guys asking questions about it. How would you see me now and understand that i might be picking the same guys but hopeful that i learn the hard lesson now and find someone that is decent guy. The only thing that worries me is when I am accused of cheating and have been accused of cheating my last ex boyfriend. I didn't cheat. I was always loyal to any ex boyfriend that i did have. now i'm single and has very hard to find a new boyfriend and don't what change and did anything wrong or not?

[OfMiceandMen]

I think sometimes younger people forget to take into account their age. The majority of guys in your age bracket are not interested in getting into a full blown relationship and settling down with someone. There are just too many variables in their life. For instance, a better job may come across their plate in another city/town could take them away from you. They may want to travel and experience life which is not conducive to being in a relationship.

So you have to take into account the "nomadic lifestyle" of the people in your age group.

The fact that you have had 9 relationships and nothing solid has come from them, isn't weird, it is just a reflection of where you are in life.

Very few men and women find their soul mate/SO in your 20's bc you are still learning who you are and what you want in an SO - it is the relationship trial period. So don't try to rush things or get frustrated, look at it as something that is necessary to learn who you are. Most of all enjoy the search, bc it can be half the fun.

[TheSimFans]

Having been learning since college when I graduated and didn't meet my soulmate there, I have a learning disability and I am looking for men, but can't seem to find one in the middle of being busy or being lazy. i just want a guy that is in the middle between two, but i dislike tall men since i had bad experience with most them. I prefer shy, short, or average-height men. I am more on the shorter side of average women. Therefore, I can only date men who have learning disabilities, and only my mother puts more restrictions on my dating than my two sisters.

[Berethor]

9 ex boyfriends is quite a lot, and you only 24, but being a virgin is valued by many men.

[SueShe]

I do remember you from previous posts and also that you have a challenge. I do like your smile in your picture and to me, you look like a totally normal lady like everyone else.

It is not weird to have had a number of ex boyfriends, mainly in view of the fact that you are still a virgin. Boys, guys and men seem not to want to understand that sex is not the catalyst to having a good relationship and if they realize that they cannot be intimate with a girl after a few dates, they will automatically drop her. It is the sad truth.

Don't change anything about yourself or the way you perceive a relationship should be. Life is already challenging enough for people without a learning disability, so I presume it makes it more difficult for you to find a guy that does have such a disability. Don't give up on your hopes but above all, don't change who you are. Good luck.

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO and good luck.

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[OddBeMe]

No, I would expect most girls are all over the map on this ratio.

[TheSimFans]

I hasn't been over map. Just be map in stupid england.

[OddBeMe]

I would expect an average England vs America to be…average.

[TheSimFans]

Not always the case. Can find immature people with men & women throughout. Maybe the work is going to be average. People can be very overly placed. I'm not talking about average jokes. I talk about people that don't fit in within a group on average. For people that have a learning disability or learning difficulty.

[OddBeMe]

Those people aren’t “average” by definition. Nothing against them, I’m just into statistics and data. And there’s always a bell curve.

[Batsy01010101]

she cheated on me way to much and i got sick of it