Debunking Social Norms: Girls Asking Out Guys (Page 3)

[mattduns]

Nothing wrong with it, Sexy when a woman does it and hot.

[Aud_Queen]

So basically girls can ask guys out. Ok.

[FlutteringFeelings]

That's what I am saying 😭😭😭

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Yup.

[Anonymous]

I'm not used to girls asking me out but thinking about it I think it's a good thing.

[9mfeo]

Why was it even taboo in the first place?

[Unit1]

These are common people my dear. It's best to be a true self.

[9mfeo]

@Unit1 ok i don't see what that has to do with my opinion but thank you for sharing

[Unit1]

Meaning common people commonly (and blindly) follow to whatever has been put to norm. Counting girls asking guys out.

[9mfeo]

@Unit1 thanks for the clarification. Cheers.

[lovelina14]

Maybe i should ask out my crush... :3

[Nice_Guy_Last]

If you want it, you have to take it. Otherwise, you leave the ability to choose in the hands of others.

[Touglyforfemales]

But yet I never see this happening in real life.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

I think that is more of a result of women being afraid to because they assume we don't want them to.

[Touglyforfemales]

True which is not BS if you ask me.

[FlutteringFeelings]

! All these girls and guys are saying "oh it's okay go ahead " and these girls saying they would do it , but in reality if the situation took place right then and there with a crush or someone they are interested , they wouldn't do as they are saying here. This is just a big fairy tale that some person wants to switch up how things always has been. A girl asking a guy out? Seriously? It makes no sense , if the guy doesn't like the girl? She needs to move on socialize with others who will actually be interested in her. There are times a dude notice me first and the way he acts towards me with his interest , I automatically catch feelings and wanting to go further. But a girl asking a guy out? Wow. The world we're living in today is dramatically confused.

[Azara]

what are you talking about?

people dont know if they like each other until they get to know each other. it starts with attraction. if a woman is attracted to a guy and she asks him out it doesn't mean he's not attracted to her. for ex, he could've been thinking of asking her out and she beast him to it. or didn't realize she was in treated so he didn't say anything. or he didn't know her until she approached him.

just bc you force yourself to wait around and like whatever guy asks you out doesn't mean adults can't actually act for themselves.

the point of asking someone out assent just getting to g out with them, its the dignity in knowing you wenmjt for what you wanted ands had the courage to do so. clearly you dont care about that but bc other people do it doesn't mean the world is falling apart.

the only standard you seem to use as to why its horrible is that the guy might not like her--so what? thats life. thats not a reason not to try6. guys ask women out all the time who are not

[Azara]

interested.. doesn't mean they have no right to ask.

and guys who dont want it have problems with their ego and with respecting women as human beings instead of treating them like commodities so those guys are not a catch. im not talking about guys who like asking women out. im talking about guys who specifically dont think women should;d. i like asking guys out but i wouldn't hold it against a guy if he asked me out.

and i HAVE asked guys out, so have my friends so if you guts dont see it you're probably not looking or you hang around women whop ask permission before they do anything;.

#flutter a woman asking a guy out doesn't mean he doesn't like her. thats ridiculous. and most people want to go after people they like. I don't know how you just catch feelings just bc a guy shows interest but that doesn't actually sound safe. the thing about asking people out is you're thinking about what you're doing you're not being caught off guard and you're being discerning as apposed to flattered and

[Azara]

and swept away swayed by your feelings.

anyhow why does it bother you if women ask men out. no ones forcing you to. ... its not your thing but why do you see it as an abomination?

saying 'no way' isn't exactly providing a reason as to why its horrible and 'wrong'

[Anonymous]

Great take, I prefer girls asking us out ;)

[kep79]

If you don't ask him out, you can talk to him.

[Azara]

why not just ask him out. you can still talk to him ;p

[FlutteringFeelings]

Why does asking someone out has to be the big leap. What happened to trying to get to know him? Socializing with him? To see if a relationship would work out.

[tenofthepeaks]

social norms don't exist.

[sometimesilikecheese]

if they don't then why have i never been asked out by a girl

[Anonymous]

Nice take😊