What is the relevance of telling people what you find do not attractive in guys if you are anonymous? I mean sure people may share some of your opinions on what they do not find attractive but you do not speak for all woman, right?
What I mean is that unless you are giving guys pointers on how to be appealing to you specifically then this is all pointless in which case you are anonymous therefore what exactly is the point? To just rant?
I agree with all of this with one minor difference. I actually like when my boyfriend drives us or drives my car places. Gives me time to check my GaG. Lol.
Ikr when I'm on the road or a long road trip with my girlfriend she loves it & so do I. It's like we're on an adventure standing on the head of the ship pointing out ward as she says "point the way Cpt." What is it with vulnerability being viewed as weakness with women these days wtf. It's like their afraid to be submissive. News flash women are naturally submissive, and stop looking at submissiveness as degrading it has power as well. For you don't agree then why do 90% of women have sex dreams about powerful strong men taking control? It's natural submission, stop fighting it.
@Jujulius unless I'm mistaken, your whole post is about women being naturally submissive., the "power" in it and for us to not fight it. Unless those were just distracting filler words in discussing your road trips. Smh.
That was the point i was making there submissiveness is not a bad thing just emasculating women who hate men. While claiming their feminist when they couldn't give a damn about equality what so ever make submissive behavior appear as weakness when its not its natural & has power to it.
it actually does you trust him enough to allow him to lead you to or escort you to a location. There are plenty of women who will argue every step of the way about where they're going even if its a surprise or how he is driving. Like i said submission isn't always on a high scale of dom/sub. If you ask your boyfriend hey can you pick me up a snack on the way home he is submitting to your request people make that word seem so offensive. Were you being dominate when asking the question? no clearly not but him following your request is submissive.
I think every female has their likes and dislikes about men. things that turn me off about women are:
- Not being true to their feelings. - Staying with a man for comfort reasons i. e ( Good Job etc ). - Egotistical Women whom crave your attention only when they feel rejected by you. (Attention Whores). - Women who smile/Laugh at everything you say.
Surprisingly, i agree with them all... they are turn ons to a certain extent... everything is good in moderation... the above mentioned things were just over the top. I keep 2, 3, and 5 for the homies... every guy knows that.
I suggest you eliminate the highly immature feminist lesbian influences from your life. After that, take a fresh look around you. You are probably in for either along hard road back to reality (and deprogramming) or bound to become a dyke with butch spiked haircut and a swastika tattoo'd on your forehead.
Thanks for preforming spell/grammar check. You are pretty good at it. They need to incorporate you into the next version of spell/grammar check in Internet Explorer.
I know you're kind of "mature" sir, but you should really upgrade to Google Chrome or Firefox if you'd like the best experience. I know change is hard, but you really must get with the times.
* Sir, I know you are very mature Browser selection is one of preference, Firefox and Google chrome both have a large number of security issues with some enhanced features. The enhanced feature spell words correctly - but do not correct language deficiencies such as order of words. My preference is Internet Explorer.
Number 1 is never controlled by the offender. Number 2 Isn't this the opposite of number 1 I'm confused. Number 3 I think everyone does this and if someone does it in a way that bothers you get their goat on something.. they deserve it. Number 4 Is a form of assault tell them so. Number 5 Gender roles, I generally agree. I say be pragmatic rather than dictatorial.
invading personal space uninvited is just a sign of a guy that is bad at reading social cues. The two most confident people can end up in an awkward situation it's just the nature of awkwardness. As for over confidence/ masculinity and estimation of intelligence that's more or less what the receiving party gets to decide. What might seem over confident to you would be perfect for another girl.
actually I mostly see posts from men complaining and stereotyping women "women are golddiggers" "women are sloots" "women only want money" "women don't know what they want" "women are not worth it" "women are dumb" etc Believe me it's awful
but this post isn't complaining about men, even tho I see a lot of people misunderstood it, it's only about women not liking douchbags or extremes in a person, which I doubt you find attractive in a woman either
@10dsw I didn't say gag is bad, I just stated that feminists and mysoginists are just getting really annoying (as in boring) talking about the same stuff over and over again: stereotyping this, stereotyping that, all women are sloots, all men are pigs, I can't get laid now everyone is too picky, I get laid all the time because everyone's a sloot. Honestly is so damn stupid that I can't see anything funny anymore.
But "He could not orgasm fast enough so he must not like me." seems like something new to laugh about, I'm gonna check it xD
@Heera I agree with you. Both today's version of feminism and misogyny is extremely annoying.
The problem is that feminism turns men into mysoginists and mysogyny turns women into feminists. This pushback on the part of both genders just seems psychologically unhealthy to me.
You mentioned how this trend is getting annoying and boring, I propose just taking a laid back approach... just laugh at it. It's much more healthy and at the end of the day you'll be happy not bitter 😃
Absolutely! I hate it when random guys try to push themselves on you. You really hit it home with this list, though I'm generally more ok with awkwardness because I'm fairly awkward in crowds.
Especially the smarty pants part. I went to college of nursing and health professions and my boyfriend has the nerve to tell me that I'm just eye candy cause I can't beat him at jepordy. Lol!!
I don't personally agree with all of these.. I read this thinking so she wants a man that isn't too smart, too masculine, too touchy or too awkward.. well damn no wonder men now a days say they can't figure women out! Lol I am not perfect by no means why the hell would i search for a perfect man with zero flaws. I happen to think some flaws are cute. Be awkward, be witty, be masculine and sexy! That's the guy I would be interested in!
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Everyone seems to get the impression that I don't want a smart guy, and I don't mean to be rude but... can you read? I specifically said guys who over estimate their intelligence, not intelligent people.
You're young, what you want in a guy and what younfind attractive will change as you get older. I didn't realize your age when i posted my response. Guys your age are just trying to figure who they are and who you want them to he so most of them are overly annoying one or another lol most either think they are gods gift to women, or the complete opposite and have zero confidence. They figure it out better when they get a little older and how to balance it all so you you'll be able to find a guy that's a little bit in between of it all. ;)
Yeah I would agree, the female version of 2 to 5 would turn me off - Awkwardness no that would be a bit hypocritical since I am a bit awkward myself.
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Number 2... I haven't met and spoken to a lot of men in my life, but I have seen online (but not met) a guy who thought that he was superior, just because he was fit and was modeling. He who had just the same educational degree and in the same career as I, therefore was more superior, and Mr. Superior was single.
actually it's not, I doubt you'd like those extremes in a woman, just like people don't like extremes in general (this is a fact, everything is about balance) Also, most people are somewhere in between so it's not really being picky
The thing that irritates me about guys most is when they broke. lol thats a joke (sort of). All the things you mentioned are annoying yes. by the way if a guy touches me without my permission Im gonna kick his ass.
I agree with all of these, however the personal space one I don't mind :) Of course, I have my days when I do want some personal space (everyone does), but I love hugs and being in the guy's arms :)
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What is the relevance of telling people what you find do not attractive in guys if you are anonymous? I mean sure people may share some of your opinions on what they do not find attractive but you do not speak for all woman, right?
What I mean is that unless you are giving guys pointers on how to be appealing to you specifically then this is all pointless in which case you are anonymous therefore what exactly is the point? To just rant?
Wow so true. There are a few well known guys here in gag who'd display all of those traits.
Throw in narcissism too because it's a mask for their emotional inadequacy.
Burn! =D
I agree with all of this with one minor difference. I actually like when my boyfriend drives us or drives my car places. Gives me time to check my GaG. Lol.
Ikr when I'm on the road or a long road trip with my girlfriend she loves it & so do I. It's like we're on an adventure standing on the head of the ship pointing out ward as she says "point the way Cpt." What is it with vulnerability being viewed as weakness with women these days wtf. It's like their afraid to be submissive. News flash women are naturally submissive, and stop looking at submissiveness as degrading it has power as well. For you don't agree then why do 90% of women have sex dreams about powerful strong men taking control? It's natural submission, stop fighting it.
@Jujulius while I get what you are saying, I don't view his driving as being dominant vs submissive. I just prefer it.
You've completely missed the point
@Jujulius unless I'm mistaken, your whole post is about women being naturally submissive., the "power" in it and for us to not fight it. Unless those were just distracting filler words in discussing your road trips. Smh.
That was the point i was making there submissiveness is not a bad thing just emasculating women who hate men. While claiming their feminist when they couldn't give a damn about equality what so ever make submissive behavior appear as weakness when its not its natural & has power to it.
@Jujulius yeah so again, I got your pont and enjoying my boyfriend driving has nothing to do with
Dom/sub. It's just a preference.
it actually does you trust him enough to allow him to lead you to or escort you to a location. There are plenty of women who will argue every step of the way about where they're going even if its a surprise or how he is driving. Like i said submission isn't always on a high scale of dom/sub. If you ask your boyfriend hey can you pick me up a snack on the way home he is submitting to your request people make that word seem so offensive. Were you being dominate when asking the question? no clearly not but him following your request is submissive.
@Jujulius you've got issues dude.
Lol yeah I'm not taking offense from anyone who can't hold an argument and results to insults typical middle school behavior.
I think every female has their likes and dislikes about men. things that turn me off about women are:
- Not being true to their feelings.
- Staying with a man for comfort reasons i. e ( Good Job etc ).
- Egotistical Women whom crave your attention only when they feel rejected by you. (Attention Whores).
- Women who smile/Laugh at everything you say.
Surprisingly, i agree with them all... they are turn ons to a certain extent...
everything is good in moderation... the above mentioned things were just over the top.
I keep 2, 3, and 5 for the homies... every guy knows that.
I suggest you eliminate the highly immature feminist lesbian influences from your life. After that, take a fresh look around you. You are probably in for either along hard road back to reality (and deprogramming) or bound to become a dyke with butch spiked haircut and a swastika tattoo'd on your forehead.
*a long
*tattooed
Thanks for preforming spell/grammar check. You are pretty good at it. They need to incorporate you into the next version of spell/grammar check in Internet Explorer.
I know you're kind of "mature" sir, but you should really upgrade to Google Chrome or Firefox if you'd like the best experience. I know change is hard, but you really must get with the times.
* Sir, I know you are very mature
Browser selection is one of preference, Firefox and Google chrome both have a large number of security issues with some enhanced features. The enhanced feature spell words correctly - but do not correct language deficiencies such as order of words. My preference is Internet Explorer.
Bitter burned old man comment
@Mscocobutter Not particulary, I am neither bitter nor old. but I did answer the question unlike you.
@Mscocobutter Also, you are typical liberal, ask a question, argue the answer with personal insults because that is ll they are capable of).
If you hadn't noticed, it wasn't a question lmao
It was noticed
Number 1 is never controlled by the offender.
Number 2 Isn't this the opposite of number 1 I'm confused.
Number 3 I think everyone does this and if someone does it in a way that bothers you get their goat on something.. they deserve it.
Number 4 Is a form of assault tell them so.
Number 5 Gender roles, I generally agree. I say be pragmatic rather than dictatorial.
invading personal space uninvited is just a sign of a guy that is bad at reading social cues. The two most confident people can end up in an awkward situation it's just the nature of awkwardness. As for over confidence/ masculinity and estimation of intelligence that's more or less what the receiving party gets to decide. What might seem over confident to you would be perfect for another girl.
Every single time I check this website I swear...
Men this... men that... men suck... men are pigs yada yada
What's wrong with people these days rofl =P
"Is my dick size good enough?"
We deal with that every day. Calm your man tits.
"Calm your man tits."
Perhaps it's time to re-evaluate who you talk to.
actually I mostly see posts from men complaining and stereotyping women "women are golddiggers" "women are sloots" "women only want money" "women don't know what they want" "women are not worth it" "women are dumb" etc Believe me it's awful
but this post isn't complaining about men, even tho I see a lot of people misunderstood it, it's only about women not liking douchbags or extremes in a person, which I doubt you find attractive in a woman either
@Heera Thank you ❤️❤️🙌
@Heera If it's awful then maybe this website just isn't for you!
I come to this site sometimes to laugh at the latest reasons men are evil :)
Today's reason was the above 5, but a sixth one topped it: "He could not orgasm fast enough so he must not like me."
@10dsw I didn't say gag is bad, I just stated that feminists and mysoginists are just getting really annoying (as in boring) talking about the same stuff over and over again: stereotyping this, stereotyping that, all women are sloots, all men are pigs, I can't get laid now everyone is too picky, I get laid all the time because everyone's a sloot. Honestly is so damn stupid that I can't see anything funny anymore.
But "He could not orgasm fast enough so he must not like me." seems like something new to laugh about, I'm gonna check it xD
@Heera I agree with you. Both today's version of feminism and misogyny is extremely annoying.
The problem is that feminism turns men into mysoginists and mysogyny turns women into feminists. This pushback on the part of both genders just seems psychologically unhealthy to me.
You mentioned how this trend is getting annoying and boring, I propose just taking a laid back approach... just laugh at it. It's much more healthy and at the end of the day you'll be happy not bitter 😃
thanks fot advice!
Okay, that's cool. i think i'd agree with this statement if these were qualities in a woman. (but with over femininity obviously)
Absolutely! I hate it when random guys try to push themselves on you. You really hit it home with this list, though I'm generally more ok with awkwardness because I'm fairly awkward in crowds.
Especially the smarty pants part. I went to college of nursing and health professions and my boyfriend has the nerve to tell me that I'm just eye candy cause I can't beat him at jepordy. Lol!!
Ooh. Move him on. That's a red flag.
good take!!! can't stand over confident and macho guys
I think over confidence is cute tbh. But not ''macho'' or ''girly'' or any gender roles
@E-Nigma true
I don't personally agree with all of these..
I read this thinking so she wants a man that isn't too smart, too masculine, too touchy or too awkward.. well damn no wonder men now a days say they can't figure women out! Lol I am not perfect by no means why the hell would i search for a perfect man with zero flaws. I happen to think some flaws are cute. Be awkward, be witty, be masculine and sexy! That's the guy I would be interested in!
Everyone seems to get the impression that I don't want a smart guy, and I don't mean to be rude but... can you read? I specifically said guys who over estimate their intelligence, not intelligent people.
You're young, what you want in a guy and what younfind attractive will change as you get older. I didn't realize your age when i posted my response. Guys your age are just trying to figure who they are and who you want them to he so most of them are overly annoying one or another lol most either think they are gods gift to women, or the complete opposite and have zero confidence. They figure it out better when they get a little older and how to balance it all so you you'll be able to find a guy that's a little bit in between of it all. ;)
But why are you ignoring what I just said to you... 😂
Okay, not going to argue with you. Best of luck.
Lmfao, Jesus 😂
@ AriesLove. You're on point. Needless to argue with chickenheads like this OP hiding behind an annoymous mask. 👍🏽
@burlen Your profile picture is a drawing and your name isn't on your profile, you're just as anonymous as I am
Yeah I would agree, the female version of 2 to 5 would turn me off - Awkwardness no that would be a bit hypocritical since I am a bit awkward myself.
Number 2... I haven't met and spoken to a lot of men in my life, but I have seen online (but not met) a guy who thought that he was superior, just because he was fit and was modeling. He who had just the same educational degree and in the same career as I, therefore was more superior, and Mr. Superior was single.
"Awkwardness"
"Over confident"
Make up your fucking mind. Oh wait, you're a woman.
It's called not liking extremes
@pooper89
It's called "being picky"
actually it's not, I doubt you'd like those extremes in a woman, just like people don't like extremes in general (this is a fact, everything is about balance) Also, most people are somewhere in between so it's not really being picky
The thing that irritates me about guys most is when they broke. lol thats a joke (sort of). All the things you mentioned are annoying yes. by the way if a guy touches me without my permission Im gonna kick his ass.
finally a mytake that speaks to me
never been one like this before. #killallmen
apparently that really resonated with one girl. kill every man.
I agree with all of these, however the personal space one I don't mind :) Of course, I have my days when I do want some personal space (everyone does), but I love hugs and being in the guy's arms :)