The being overly confident is a big turnoff along with the over estimated intelligence. Too much of try to hard to portray your masculinity. Let it show by being your natural self. Also invading my personal space, thats gets annoying quickly.
There's a scale with all of them. Awkwardness is fine, but when it gets to the point where you're unable to get to know them, then it makes things fizzle out. (Hey, I'm awkward, too... I recognize our faults.)
@Pyrofox It happens even when it's not an appropriate time or place for night stands so I doubt that. Some people just misinterpret the attraction signals or ignore them
It means when a guy touches too soon. Its too keen and not sexy at all. Usually inexperienced males do this or guys that don't have a lot of sexual attention. Sexual tension is really important.
Obviously but it depends on the mood/situation. Maybe you've been lucky and she's always liked you back so it was fine for you to touch her. But most girls get guys ruining the vibe by touching too much too soon.
Is this all from the same person? lol Jeez, Sounds like u want control even though u claim equality. Relationship is give and take and that includes shortcomings in which all the above can be one. Some people are just type A male or female. * prepares for people in denial*
I would say these things also apply with us guys when it comes to women. Though I would've covered some more indepth things that turn me off about women if I wrote this... Heyyyyy, maybe I will!
lol I don't get why people always do this. When someone says something about that they don't like about the opposite gender, someone from the opposite gender always has to say something like "it's the same way with girls" you even complain about people doing that. Yet... Bunch of hypocrites on this site lmao.
@99percentangel A simple answer. These "retaliations" are from victims of a gender -double-standard. Finding an issue that mirrors a bad experience they had, is seized upon as an opportunity for venting their frustrations. True 99', it's Human Nature not to turn that mirror to reflect themselves. This isn't meant to justify that rational. Just explain it. My comment to them?"BREAKING NEWS... Life is not fair. Get comfortable with that, or die alone as a miserable, bitter, broken, nobody."
But... enough about them. So... what's the other 1 percent?
@99percentangel I have complained about that, but I actually wasn't disagreeing with what she wrote. I was saying that it's pretty much an all-around thing for both guys and girls. Though your gender very commonly does what I've complained about.
@99percentangel Joking? Please note the absence of "lol's". Usernames have meaning, stories, history and scope. Or... they just look cool. I'm leaning on the profound thing... for yours.
Isn't that a tad more interesting than being relegated to a rhetorical question, posed to a non-script assemblage of Human beings... twice?
but let me remind you both.. we all have freedom of speech.. so we can say our opinion... so stop judging each other.. It will create never ending misunderstanding.. nothing less
YES!!! I agree 100% with everything you said. Well done!
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No such thing as over masculine or over confidence in a man , these are things men these days need more of judging by thr manginas out there (they know who they are)
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Lol may as well be a lesbian like someone said. So I'll just have to remember this in certain situations, women want to be treated as equal but then still throw out the "ladies first" bs. I'll remember that if I'm ever in a hostage situation, when the robber ask who wants to die first? "Ladies first!!!" So would it be ok to kick the crap out of a lesbian if she's the butch in the relationship? I most likely wouldn't but she wants to be tested as an equal, dress like a dude.
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Please rephrase this with proper grammar and etiquette please
no no no I agree with him on this. I see it everywhere "I want equality but I still want a guy to pay for me and open doors and pull out a chair" or she is a lesbian, dressed like a dude and acts like a dude and starts a fight like a dude with a dude and then when a guy steps and say lets fight the lesbian goes "are you really going to heat me, I am a girl" really, like wtf so no sweetie he is right
@Belleza2 This is incredibly incorrect and it's getting quite tiring hearing these internet men who've never even touched a girl tell me what I do. Pulling out a chair or opening a door is nothing more than politeness, do you know how many times I've opened a door for a man?
you are not understanding what I am saying here! It is not who opens the door for whom, it is about how feminism came in swooped up this trend if idiocy and now all men are turning against women and saying oh, well so you want equality well then lets see how you feel when I do not bring home the money or how I want her to make more money than me! I do not know how to explain any of this to you other than please get educated on all of this!
sweetie, you are fighting with me over something you have no experience in, stop listening to feminists and actually think for yourself but I am guessing you cannot do that because you choose to believe the things you say over confidence is bad for you, him touching you too, unless you have been through a horrible rape here I do not understand your thinking but thank you I know I lack proper education - this country never gave me any proper education like it did for you! I actually got my education in my country where people actually learn and think!
Oh, a 300 lb. anon hiding behind a silhouette and telling the world why she deserves a perfect man. It's great that GaG users come up with novel ideas like this.
What exactly do you want me to do about my social anxiety/awkwardness? I was born not being able to interact with others as well as most people, and I still can't. Does that automatically make me a creep or something? My social disorder? Gee, thanks.
That is not what she is saying! I'm have General Anxiety Disorder, so I'm not much fun to be around, if you can't stand being told the truth at times, but honestly I was born a bitch so not much I can do about it. ._.
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Guys can't be too masculine or feminine, can't be shy or over confident, can't be sexist or feminist. What are we allowed to be in your mind?
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@EnglishArtsteacher thank you!
I've been complaining about this for literally a decade now. No matter what, a man is considered "weird", "creepy", or "inappropriate."
The being overly confident is a big turnoff along with the over estimated intelligence. Too much of try to hard to portray your masculinity. Let it show by being your natural self. Also invading my personal space, thats gets annoying quickly.
Omg I sooo agree with all of these! Especially the overly cocky one
There's a scale with all of them. Awkwardness is fine, but when it gets to the point where you're unable to get to know them, then it makes things fizzle out. (Hey, I'm awkward, too... I recognize our faults.)
YES to all of these!!!
And here's another one, bad higene. Brush your teeth!!! Take a shower!!! Dont expect kisses when your sweaty from working out!!
4) is funny because some girls start whining about how the guy doesn't approach her enough, lol
There's a difference between approaching and physical touching...
Nope, not in those cases when she says "why doesn't he make a move"
but is not about that, is about when you really gave the guy every signal that you're NOT interested and they keep being touchy and flirty
@Heera IF they are still touchy feely they obviously just want a one night stand. So just leave them to their awkwardness.
@Pyrofox It happens even when it's not an appropriate time or place for night stands so I doubt that. Some people just misinterpret the attraction signals or ignore them
It means when a guy touches too soon.
Its too keen and not sexy at all. Usually inexperienced males do this or guys that don't have a lot of sexual attention.
Sexual tension is really important.
@Mayamoon02 exactly
@Mayamoon02 You may think that's a general rule, but some girls think if the guy isn't touchy then he is uninterested
Obviously but it depends on the mood/situation.
Maybe you've been lucky and she's always liked you back so it was fine for you to touch her.
But most girls get guys ruining the vibe by touching too much too soon.
@Heera Young women don't like it when guys approach them these days. It's a shame, and I think it's generational.
@EnglishArtsteacher that's totally not true, women like it, when they don't is just because they don't like the person approaching them
I know, right?
Sometimes in a crowd, when I'm "accidentally" bumped by a pretty Woman...
... I gotta wonder?
Funniest thing about this is how many guys here actually care about what some random girl on gag gets turned off by.
Number 1 omg yess!!! I will literally walk away mid sentence
Right? Lol
Is this all from the same person? lol Jeez, Sounds like u want control even though u claim equality. Relationship is give and take and that includes shortcomings in which all the above can be one. Some people are just type A male or female.
* prepares for people in denial*
I would say these things also apply with us guys when it comes to women. Though I would've covered some more indepth things that turn me off about women if I wrote this... Heyyyyy, maybe I will!
lol I don't get why people always do this. When someone says something about that they don't like about the opposite gender, someone from the opposite gender always has to say something like "it's the same way with girls" you even complain about people doing that. Yet... Bunch of hypocrites on this site lmao.
@99percentangel not reaally
@99percentangel A simple answer. These "retaliations" are from victims of a gender -double-standard. Finding an issue that mirrors a bad experience they had, is seized upon as an opportunity for venting their frustrations. True 99', it's Human Nature not to turn that mirror to reflect themselves. This isn't meant to justify that rational. Just explain it.
My comment to them?"BREAKING NEWS... Life is not fair. Get comfortable with that, or die alone as a miserable, bitter, broken, nobody."
But... enough about them.
So... what's the other 1 percent?
@1derweye fair enough.
lol why must people keep making jokes about my username. It's just a username. 😂😂
@99percentangel I have complained about that, but I actually wasn't disagreeing with what she wrote. I was saying that it's pretty much an all-around thing for both guys and girls. Though your gender very commonly does what I've complained about.
@99percentangel Joking?
Please note the absence of "lol's".
Usernames have meaning, stories, history and scope.
Or... they just look cool.
I'm leaning on the profound thing... for yours.
Isn't that a tad more interesting than being relegated to a rhetorical question, posed to a non-script assemblage of Human beings... twice?
@99percentangel I agree to both of you...
but let me remind you both.. we all have freedom of speech.. so we can say our opinion... so stop judging each other..
It will create never ending misunderstanding.. nothing less
I don't think that is unreasonable at all!! I feel the same way with women.
Technically, everyone tends to overestimate their intelligence.
Nice profile picture!!
@vishna thanks lol
YES!!! I agree 100% with everything you said. Well done!
No such thing as over masculine or over confidence in a man , these are things men these days need more of judging by thr manginas out there (they know who they are)
Lol may as well be a lesbian like someone said. So I'll just have to remember this in certain situations, women want to be treated as equal but then still throw out the "ladies first" bs. I'll remember that if I'm ever in a hostage situation, when the robber ask who wants to die first? "Ladies first!!!" So would it be ok to kick the crap out of a lesbian if she's the butch in the relationship? I most likely wouldn't but she wants to be tested as an equal, dress like a dude.
Please rephrase this with proper grammar and etiquette please
no no no I agree with him on this. I see it everywhere "I want equality but I still want a guy to pay for me and open doors and pull out a chair" or she is a lesbian, dressed like a dude and acts like a dude and starts a fight like a dude with a dude and then when a guy steps and say lets fight the lesbian goes "are you really going to heat me, I am a girl" really, like wtf so no sweetie he is right
Ok sure.
@Belleza2 This is incredibly incorrect and it's getting quite tiring hearing these internet men who've never even touched a girl tell me what I do. Pulling out a chair or opening a door is nothing more than politeness, do you know how many times I've opened a door for a man?
@Belleza2 thank you. I'm not against lesbians that's for sure, but damn as they say, "you can't have your cake and eat it to."
I'm sure I've touched more women than you have men my dear.
You are a 40 year old man using GAG. I doubt it.
I'll let you say as you please, you can't argue w immaturity.
Obviously not lol
you are not understanding what I am saying here! It is not who opens the door for whom, it is about how feminism came in swooped up this trend if idiocy and now all men are turning against women and saying oh, well so you want equality well then lets see how you feel when I do not bring home the money or how I want her to make more money than me! I do not know how to explain any of this to you other than please get educated on all of this!
@Belleza2 can't argue w immaturity!
@Belleza2 Honey, you're education is severely lacking if you believe any of what you are saying
Funny how you call her honey when she's older than you lol
sweetie, you are fighting with me over something you have no experience in, stop listening to feminists and actually think for yourself but I am guessing you cannot do that because you choose to believe the things you say over confidence is bad for you, him touching you too, unless you have been through a horrible rape here I do not understand your thinking but thank you I know I lack proper education - this country never gave me any proper education like it did for you! I actually got my education in my country where people actually learn and think!
How is honey exclusive to an age... 😂😂 You're both fucking morons, done with this shit 😂😂😂
Grow up little girl.
Great response 😂 Get off GAG old man
Lol lol
Oh, a 300 lb. anon hiding behind a silhouette and telling the world why she deserves a perfect man. It's great that GaG users come up with novel ideas like this.
Two men are alpha, two are cucks, and six women are fat and angry.
Are there any guys writing something like this my take. even though I agree with all your points?
For the first one, depends on how awkward. I agree with the rest.
What exactly do you want me to do about my social anxiety/awkwardness? I was born not being able to interact with others as well as most people, and I still can't. Does that automatically make me a creep or something? My social disorder? Gee, thanks.
That is not what she is saying! I'm have General Anxiety Disorder, so I'm not much fun to be around, if you can't stand being told the truth at times, but honestly I was born a bitch so not much I can do about it. ._.
This is answering a lot if questions for me. I'm not like any of these 5 things. Shouldn't it be common sense to treat women as equals?