Why You Should Have Sex on the First Date (Page 3)

[datgirl]

Lol yaaa.. no thanks.

[JennieF]

Yeah I did a couple of times.

[Anonymous]

I would love all girls to be like you <3.

[Shorty1991]

Lol! She said "if and when" it feels right.

[Opinion Owner]

@Shorty1991 Yup usually if a girls goes out with me it always feels right :P, but sometimes they want to test me some more or are shy think I prejudge if they came sleep first date

[Opinion Owner]

@Shorty1991 Hey but I can wait even for 2 3 date no problem at all lulz

[Shorty1991]

If any guy wanted to sleep with me on a first date, I wouldn't want to see him again. I like a bit more of a challenge, I'm a tease. :)

[Opinion Owner]

@Shorty1991 :D well but you may miss a great guy like that just because he has very high sex drive or feels so attracted to you. Anyway you are right! n the sense that if the guy is stupid enough to not understand if you are so much attracted to him and still wants to sleep with you he loses his chance in the first date ;). Thats a dangerous move, I may ask girls to came over at my place on the first date very rarely maybe 1/10 girls and only some rare girls in which I feel like I have time being with them and feel so familiar and comfortable around them, otherwise I won't ask anything more from first date. Sometimes it just happens that you meet a new girl and it seems like you have known her your entire life

[Shorty1991]

I don't think I could wait for months or years. Lol. But if a guy couldn't wait at least a few weeks until I'm ready. It just means he wasn't worthy and that he had no respect for me.

[Opinion Owner]

@Shorty1991 I agree that is true 90 % of the time except some rare cases in which you will feel very very attracted to him too both emotionally and physically. I told you maybe 1/10 girls or even 1/20 I may feel so good that feels like been knowing them for a long time, maybe such thing can happen to girls too I don't know. Also it depends how much have you talked /texted before the first date, if you know already many things about the guy or he was friend before sex on first date may happen. BUT sex with first date with a complete stranger or guy that you recently meet is total insult to you, I agree 1000% with you if such guy asks that.

[Opinion Owner]

@Shorty1991 what is your height shorty hahah

[Shorty1991]

5ft3 I know its average height, my best friend calls me shorty. Just a nickname. Lol.
What if its someone that you've encountered but never talked to. Like if someone had a crush on you for years but they just manage to pluck up the courage to talk to you recently.

[Opinion Owner]

@Shorty1991 Yeah that is great height for woman not really shortie :P. hm.. if someone talks to me recently like that but I have known for years well it depends. If I have always liked her for personality and look I would be so happy if she talks to me of course, otherwise if I wouldn['t feel attracted at any level I would do my best to reject her without making her feel bad by not showing interes maybe

[Shorty1991]

So you would shag her on a first date if you were attracted to her? But if you weren't you would let her down gently.

[Opinion Owner]

@Shorty1991 I don't know it depends on the chemistry how would i feel that day with her and her reactions towards me. I think maybe invite her to my place abd then keep progressing depending on the situation. If I love a girl even cuddling only kissws are fine in the first dates. It is weird if there is love first feeling is wanting to have hwr need you wqnting her to be good happy feel great protected then afterwards comes sex. Yup if i wasn't interwsted would let her down gently (hate this cuz i am kind hearted and never want to make others to feel bad but there is nothing else to do in such situation)

[Opinion Owner]

Wqnting her near you * typo not need you. I am on mobile.

[Shorty1991]

Lol. Don't worry about the typos I get what your saying.

[Anonymous]

Do you ahhhhh. . . Tinder? :D

[Anonymous]

been there done that doesn't work

[Anonymous]

only sluts fuck on their first date

[anonman32]

I agree, good take.

[Decentguy]

lmao