Why Refusing to Date Bisexuals is Either an Insecurity Issue or Bi-phobic (Page 3)
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
38Opinion
I would not date a bisexual person.
I have nothing against them but its not for me.
What offputs you about it?
It's just a big turn off for me. That's all.
Can you give a reason? Like girls making out is gross, etc?
Be as descriptive as you can.
The more descriptive I go the bigger asshole I will look like and I don't want that :D
Look I have nothing against gay/bisexual people. Your life your choice and I won't treat them differently but I would not be with someone like that.
Not because I think its bad but from my part I don't see it as natural. Maybe I am just not open minded enough but I just couldn't accept it in my partner because the idea is weird.
It's okay it's a bias or minor phobia against bisexual behavior. It's just not strong enough to hate them as people.
Scientists find bias against certain races from people who aren't directly racist and don't have a conscious racist thought. It changes how they judge and interact with people of that race compared to others. Most people have at least a moderate bias against African Americans in America over white people, even though they don't think racist thoughts. I even got tested and I have a bias for white people over African Americans and I'm black.
It's a subconscious bias that runs its course before you even make a conscious effort to evaluate the situation. So they way you analyze or judge someone is changed before you even make the judgement.
So people who like black people can actually have biases against them. Just like people who are nice to gays and bisexuals can have biases against them.
In this case the bias effects your opinion about them as relationship partner.
Pretty deep answer :D
Well maybe.. you asked and I answered :D
Lol Its hard enough that men have to compete with other men too and now you're asking us to compete with women too? Sorry bro, call me biphobic but only straight girls for me 😊👌
That's insecurity which I mentioned in the take
I would not date a bisexual woman.
It just wouldn't work, not the type of woman Im interested in.
As if all bisexual women are the same, or even similar in personality?
@Alexzktrafied
I dont care, not what I like
@Alexzktrafied : well they are. They all need to laugh and have a good time with people, usually daily, else they feel bereft and unwanted. That's enough for me.
Personal preference, if someone doesn't want to date a bisexual that's their choice, don't demonise them for it. I understand biphobia is way worse than homophobia as they are treated far worse than homosexuals. But if someone doesn't want to date a bisexual person so be it, they are not harming anyone whilst doing it.
There's still plenty of time for someone else to win the title of "Fuck-Dumbest Thing I Read on the Interwebz Today". So you may not have your crown very long.
My thing issue with dating someone who is Bi is dating the "Bi". The party Bi, they use it as an excuse to be all over everyone at a party and say it isn't cheating when in reality the LGBT community isn't like that in anyway
Hardly immature. You assume people think with their head and not their heart, personally I've dated bisexual women and when it came to taking things to the next level it just didn't feel right.
What made them different from straight girl? Was something about their character that was offputting or was it something to do with the fact that they were bisexual?
Wouldn't biphobia be the irrational fear of two?
It's all the issues bisexuals face put together. The uncomfortableness with someone liking both sexes would also fall under bi-phobia.
How is not wanting to date bisexuals a irrational fear of two?
Oh I thought that was a typo for irrational fear of people liking two sexes. Were you making a joke?
I wasn't making a joke. This phobia thing is getting out of hand.
Phobia means an irrational fear of something, and bi means two. Thus biphobia is the irrational fear of two.
I don't want to date a bi girl, period. If I'm relationship with a girl and she admitted she's bi, I'd dump her within a sec.
Why would you dump her?
Why? It's my preference, you can call me biphobic but I don't really care. Even I don't want girls who experiment either, it's a major turn off.
None of that 80-90% straight, 10-20% gay girl crap!, I want 100% STRAIGHT, very-feminine and strickly dickly girls.
You're free to do what you want. I wasn't sure if you were implying you had a reason that wasn't biphobic, insecurity issues, or a distaste for a sexual orientation's behavior. That's why I asked.
I may be biphobic but the world isn't all sunshine and rainbows.
Haha it's okay
"Bisexuals aren't programmed to cheat, the ones that cheated would've cheated even if they were straight." This made me laugh.
I'm not sure what you mean, it could be in a way you agree with me or you think I contracted myself.
I meant that as being bisexual doesn't mean they are automatically programmed to cheat, the ones that would cheat would've done it even if they were straight. The straight people who don't cheat wouldn't cheat as bisexuals either.
well i'm not dating bisexual men, cause i'm neither bi nor gay xD i don't think it has anything to do with phobia xD
as for women, i don't care if they also like women. i still expect them to be loyal.
I might date a bisexual under the condition if he is not skeptical, has the basic criteria of what I look for in a man, and lastly, he doesn't fit the stereotype of 'bisexuals are more likely to cheat'.
I'm still not dating a bisexual 😛
lol... same XD
@ScottSummers Op is trying to force us to do something he wants. lol
I'm not forcing you, I'm telling you actual reasons you're not dating a bisexual.
How do you know me? How do you know the reason why I wouldn't date a bisexual? You're generalizing based on stereotypes.
These are all the reasons people have told me why the wouldn't, both in person and on the internet. Aside from religious reasons there wasn't another one i heard of. But religious reasons is a form a homophobia.
This take wasn't intended to go off stereotypes. There was another one i forgot to mention in detail. Homophobia in society conditioning us to see gay sex between men as a bad thing and unmasculine. If masculinity has something to do with it, it's still rooted in homophobia.
If you have different reasons then please give them. I'm open to it.
What? I am religious but have nothing against Gay people. I am not attracted to bisexual guys and there is nothing that will change this. I honestly don't care if you have to create terms to try and shame people into doing so but its not going to work. People date who they wanna date and you need to understand that. IT'S CALLED PREFERENCE. Something you can't comprehend.
I am sorry if a girl turned you down because you are bi, but keep looking, I'm sure there are girls out there who would date you.
I'm sorry you're beliefs are attacked and you think I'm trying to shame people into dating me. I automically lose interest in girl if she wouldn't date a bisexual. So why would I try to shame someone like that into dating me?
I don't care who you date or not. But don't try to shame others because they dont share your views
You aren't attacking my beliefs. I'm not a snowflake dude
Don't be a defensive listener and assume I'm trying to shame people into dating bisexuals. Literally only 1 person who disagreed with me did so in a secure manner.
😂😂😂😂
it's about the prevalence of HIV amongst men who fuck men and the nature of the anal tissue and how the disease spreads. spend 100 hours reading medical journals on the topic and report back to me.
Yeah, isn't it weird that homo dudes are still the market leaders in the anal-inflicted-death-sentence? ((Bonus points for folks knowing where that comes from - though a hint is in my avatar...)) Is it just that they're always hot in the balls and gotta be poking somebody?
I will never date a bisexual man. That is a turn of for me.
Seems like the Opinion owner is disliking everyone else's opinions. Not going to say too much, other than it gets to the point where stubbornness plays a big role. The first step to fixing a problem, is to identify that there is a problem...
i dont care what you call me is my preference i dont date bisexual women just straight women
of course they'll fear a bi person would cheat on them! it ain't like we can switch are gender by balling a fe magic words.
''saying a few''
I'd date my dog or my grandfather rather than someone with this severe and disgusting mental defect.
now say this to a bi guy, and see what happens..
why is it wrong for guys to be bi, but not for women?