7 Reasons Why I'm Single (Page 4)
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At least you know why, I'm still trying to figure out why I am
Wow. I am 23 and I'm getting married.
Congratulations :)
@xslope Thank you :D
Congratulations.
I have a few friends that are married or getting married.
Thank you. All the best in your life as well :)
Thank you
I have one reason:
I want to be.
because you are a loser, asker
So it sounds like you are OK with it. Fine.
I wish could be sexually liberated as a male.
You are.
Not really, i'm not one of those who's able to have sex on demand. I'm not trying to take anything away from those who do. I want to relate with you and feel good about being single, but your single because you have everything in control and you do what you want when you want to. I'm single because I'm a lesser male.
I agree with this article.
13 Reasons Why.
The guy in number 1 is an asshole. You dodged a bullet. Sex is a very important part of a relationship. Looks like you hit it off, and spent one month happily. Sex should have gotten two of you closer, but because he is an asshole, let him go. You deserve better. He should have been happy that you agreed to share your body and be intimate with him. Also 1 month is not even soon. It's about right. I had sex with my boyfriend of 3 years on 11th day. It changed nothing in his eyes, regarding the respect he has for me.
Exactly, when you have sex should not matter as long as you are secure and have open lines of communication. If the man is so afraid of infidelity, then maybe he should make himself more valuable, or in the very least, take an active roll in keeping the relationship together.
If it were me, as long you showed your desire for me as much as I showed mine for you as a woman, then no way would I feel threatened or turned off by a woman who wants to have sex within the first month of dating. Just the opposite, if I had to do all the initiating to have sex, felt like the only one who tries to make things passionate, then I would have to ask myself, "is this woman really sexually compatible with me?" or better yet, "is she even sexually attracted and just wants the benefits of a LTR?" I would much rather a woman show her interest early in a sexually positive way than to slowly develop into a one-sided dominant/submissive partnership.
Get ya
Great read thanks for sharing
my main reason is number 3
This is sad.
We are all complicated beings
Interesting take
Nice take
Good for you
Good list
Interesting take
#1 is the worst
For the men, yeah. You guys are focusing on that. For clarification, I'm not having sex with everyone and their daddy. Just when I have had casual sex in the past, I did so without the shame that comes with being a woman who engages in sex outside of a relationship.
myTake Owner, there is nothing wrong with casual sex. Some guys don't like the idea of women who experience everything before they do and know what they want out of a sexual relationship. It is like a "Chasing Amy" situation. Honestly, guys such as myself like women who know exactly what gets them off as it makes sex that much more enjoyable.
@freakyzeaky Those type of men need to GROW UP. And if it's such a problem, go get laid. Smh!
I wish it were that easy. hahaha. Me personally, I am introverted and a bit shy. I am also kind of obese (working on that, lost 40 lbs so far), so not the most attractive or ideal person for a ONS. Maybe if I lowered my standards and were a bit more social I could get into a friends with benefits, but I would much rather work on myself, get into fitness, go back to college, and make myself the best possible person for my future wife. Yes, I want a girlfriend and yes I want to get married. I hope I can do so before it is too late to have children, because having a family is my ultimate goal.
There are shy women too, and women who have trouble meeting men or meeting the average man's beauty standards. So we all have our struggles. I know confidence and charm in a man is the same as being gorgeous as a woman, so I suppose, I will have to do the best I can and keep improving.