If You're Constantly Being Rejected, Maybe You Need to Lower Your Standards (Page 3)

[dogfish]

lol these people are not going to listen. they dont seem to want to look at the whole truth. eventually they will lower their standards if it's too unrealistic for them.

[LolaB28]

Yeah, I get rejected a lot so I guess I need to date someone I won't find attractive and end up hurting him because I was never into in the first place.

[Bluemax]

See my response

[NatashaJ]

I think a lot of the issue is also that people don't want to committed to relationships either, or they waiting out on someone out and reject other people that come along and is interested.

[BeccasWorld]

this is ridiculous. attractiveness is such a subjective thing.

[powerwoman]

"because unless we're asexual, physical attraction matters."-- I mean even I generally develop crushes on people I find aesthetically appealing... so yeah. It super matters, no one is safe lol

[curiousnorway]

I've my standards and won't lower them. I would rather be single than being with a partner I'm not attracted to at all. Being single isn't that bad.

[Anonymous]

"Here's a harsh dose of reality:"

"We care about how our partners look"

"maybe you should lower your standards for your own good"

You sound like the typical inexperienced person who comes on sites like this and tries to give "advice", when really the only "knowledge" you have is what your parents taught you about dating.

[SovereignessofVamps]

I think too many people date out of their league too. They'll totally ignore the more avg looking people.

[emraanhashmi]

i want to be 15 again wherein i was ugly as fuck but i didn't care about it. I hate being average now and worrying about it all day.

[John_Doesnt]

The only problem I have is that I'm too sexy. It scares women.

[Octavius]

I'll wait all eternity for my Brad Pitt to come along...

[Anonymous]

I agree with pretty much everything you said only that we shouldn't by any means lower our standards but improve ourselves instead to match the kind of person we are attracted to

[what1234]

Even hair transplant if someone is balding and shaved head doesn't suit him?

[Opinion Owner]

@what1234 if the person considers that as improvement, sure

[what1234]

But same fact that he is after hair transplant isn't dealbreaker for you?

[Opinion Owner]

@what1234 if it looks natural why not? I just don't like it when it looks fake, and that goes for both men and women

[what1234]

It looks natural and very effective, because it's own hair follicites taken from back of the head

[spammydonut]

Preach. This applies to people with terrible personalities as well

[MementoMori_]

I don't really care about physical attraction... as long as she's HOT! :)

[Robin48]

I will never lower my standard to have a female friend or female partner.

[Paul09]

What if you don't know your attractiveness level? I find its also a lot of your talking skills. Like me, my social skills arnt that great. Any way's, I've personally try different types of women.

[Anonymous]

I am a good looking guy but girls don't take a second look at me in my state college because I don't drive a Maserati to school like other kids with rich daddies do, so good look isn't invincible.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Yes, some people need to look at themselves objectively or be alone forever

[spoonman2014]

The sad reality of beauty is that it is a double edged sword.

[Anonymous]

Hypergamy means that men must lower their standards for looks greatly if they want a yes and not have to keep playing the dancing game for women.