I'm doing this right now. There a girl I'm supposed to see in another state (I travel back and forth) that just texted me literally an hour ago saying "I just went on a terrible first date, when are you getting here?". That was actually a huge turn off to hear that (I know have put her in "hook up zone" for that comment among other ones).
Ladies I wish it didn't work this way, I really do. But you want CHALLENGE in guy. You want a guy that is not too available and desired by other women.
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I'd rather be single than being one of many options
If you're single, you should be talking dating as many as you can and find out which one you like best... and honestly, if you think you mean something to someone after a first date, you're naive.
How am I going to able to attract one if I can attract one right now?
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Anonymous
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I catch a lot of shit for dating several at once. I don't see an issue. Life is about me. I feel like what I do when I'm not with them is none of their buisness.
The majority of women aren't "flakes" in the traditional sense, they are just trying to test your value by seeing if your confidence is shaky or if you aren't sought after (she knows you'll make it into a big deal or become clingy). Literally, the best way to deal with the flaking issue is to date multiple women. You won't give much of a shit about the women that flake because you've got other pussy on the grind. They'll perceive your lack of giving a fuck as confidence and value.
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You need to be unemployed to have time for that crap.
No u don't. Where did u get that idea?
I'm doing this right now. There a girl I'm supposed to see in another state (I travel back and forth) that just texted me literally an hour ago saying "I just went on a terrible first date, when are you getting here?". That was actually a huge turn off to hear that (I know have put her in "hook up zone" for that comment among other ones).
Ladies I wish it didn't work this way, I really do. But you want CHALLENGE in guy. You want a guy that is not too available and desired by other women.
I'd rather be single than being one of many options
If you're single, you should be talking dating as many as you can and find out which one you like best... and honestly, if you think you mean something to someone after a first date, you're naive.
I don't talk to more than one girl at a time in terms of dating them. Let alone actually dating more than one girl at a time.
Men flake at about the same rate.
I think very few people in their 20s are really ready to be long-term monogamous.
If I find out the guy I'm dating is also dating multiple girls, it would be over for me.
You have to actually have the time to do that and i imagine a lot of women wouldn't be happy about that even though a lot of woman do it as well.
This is perfectly-fine for casual dating, but obviously the game changes once you have a formal girlfriend.
Let me know ahead of time so I can get the hell out of dodge.
How am I going to able to attract one if I can attract one right now?
I catch a lot of shit for dating several at once. I don't see an issue. Life is about me.
I feel like what I do when I'm not with them is none of their buisness.
I cannot have ONE woman wanting to date me and you are expecting me being able to date multiple? D:
Hahahaha.
What if all the women you are interacting with are all flakes though?
The majority of women aren't "flakes" in the traditional sense, they are just trying to test your value by seeing if your confidence is shaky or if you aren't sought after (she knows you'll make it into a big deal or become clingy). Literally, the best way to deal with the flaking issue is to date multiple women. You won't give much of a shit about the women that flake because you've got other pussy on the grind. They'll perceive your lack of giving a fuck as confidence and value.
Maybe in the very beginning but I would like to focus on one and then maybe they won't play games if they feel I'm into them more if it's true
Don't hate the player, hate the game.
to spread stds and hiv
Alright. I can see and agree with some of this
I agree. Women do the same thing.
Im a male and i dont agree with this at all.