The Perks of Dating a Single Woman

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If you have dated a younger girl, then you must have experienced cute little stuff. But have you ever dated a single woman? If you have done that, then you can easily distinguish between the two as there is a huge difference between dating a woman and a younger girl. You can have a lifetime experience by dating a woman as they are very mature and know how to deal with tough situations, they are way more understanding and that is why they understand and react accordingly, they have seen failures, and they do not really care about every little thing, they do not jump into a relationship with any random guy, for the sake of keeping a relationship they do not lose their self- respect and self-esteem, they respect their partner's decision and many other things. Here is the list of the brighter side of dating a single woman:

The Perks of Dating a Single Woman

As mentioned earlier, an older woman is more independent than a younger girl as they are aware of their choices and they know how to deal with different situations. A woman will have her own life, own career and own friends, so if you date a woman you can have your own space and the best part is she won't complain about that.

A woman is less insecure than a girl as they are quite sure that even if her boyfriend/ man leaves her then there are many other better man out there on this planet. She will not spend her entire life thinking about that one man. She does not need a man to lead the rest of her life happily. And she will not be insecure if her boyfriend has other female friends as she is mature enough to understand that.

A single woman is usually very independent both emotionally and financially, and that is why she does not need a man to pay her bills, she can do that all by herself. So if you date a woman, then you do not have to care about paying the bills every time you go out together for shopping or for a dinner date.

Unlike younger female, single women do not do drama! Apparently, there will be some drama when you are in a relationship but comparatively less and easy to deal with.

You can learn a lot if you date single women as they have experienced many ups and downs in life. And these experiences will help you to be a better and mature man.


Simplicity! They are usually very simple, and they do not care about their looks much. They have accepted their flaws and okay with however they look.

They are very conversationalists, and that is why they have a bucket full of things to have a healthy conversation. Unlike younger girls, they are mature and not a chatterbox, and they will not talk random.

She is straightforward, and that is why she won't drop a hint if she is upset with something. She will come straight to you and tell directly whatever the matter is.

So by now, you must have understood that there are a lot of perks for dating single woman as they are the best!

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  • Intuitiongirl
    Generalising as hell. Limited knowledge about societal differences and too huge ego that just tries to present any personal experience as universal law. You are very false about many of this, fella.
    Examples:
    I was NEVER dating anyone unless I was single. What the freaking point is dating multiple people at the same time anyway? Who even does that? Oh yeah!!! - the spoiled westerners who develop adhd at age 9 from all the hyped up consumerism trashy lifestyle in which they learn to just trash a thing / a person / a relationship if they have even slightest flaw. I don't know where you're from but in southeastern Europe where I'm from, we go on dates only with a) someone who we know for a while and who has high prospects of becoming your boyfriend and b) with your actual boyfriend.

    Mistake no2)
    "Younger girls make drama, older women completely opposite"
    In my place, this whole statement is completely opposite just fyi.

    Another flaw:
    "Simplicity! They are usually very simple, and they do not care about their looks much. They have accepted their flaws and okay with however they look."
    Again, might be cultural, but a lady, especially if married (but it doesn't even matter), will have highly expensive clothes and pArfume, lots of real golden and plAtinum jewelry to choose from and quality shoes and purses. The reputation mAtters the most. The husband is seen through her and she is seen through his style. Young girls can wear cheap and even second hand because everyone knows they are just in college or just started working and cannot afford themselves much.

    "They are very conversationalists, and that is why they have a bucket full of things to have a healthy conversation."
    Again totally different here. The older they are the less tact and objectivity and energy for discussions women have while men drastically develop a thing for that as they get older and become less dump. But until they finally mature most women are mindfucked and too tired to outsmart them so thats how arguments begin very easily at age above 30.

    And last but not least, this is ultimate crap- the thing about insecurity. The older a woman gets, less is she convinced she deserves anyone OR she thinks there aren't good enough guys of her age anymore, because if he was something good, why he's still not married after 30+? They also get MUCH more picky the older they are which might seem contradictorial to a guy but that is how it works.. at least here where I am from. FYI.
    Is this still revelant?
  • Your title is misleading. I feel like all men should aim to date single women as opposed to women that involved with other men. You talk about younger girls versus older women. That's probably what your title should've been.
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  • Sociopathvictim
    Not every single woman is how you describe, if I find one how you describe I will give her a chance, but a 23yr old girl has more potential and more likely to fall in love. 30something women put me off with their demand for a serious relationship from the word go and goal to have kids.
    We aren't their bank account!
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    • Finally someone who is honest. I'm considered an "older" woman, but sick of the delusional takes that some men offer who say older women are somehow better. It's all bs. Older women bring the exact same problems as younger women, except with more baggage and older looking bodies.

    • @cherryphi82 thats exactly right, some women have not changed and are simply how they were when they were younger, men aswell. I am your age too and im finding that younger people are more approachable because they want to learn. I am however currently giving an older woman with a 17month old a chance but so far she's only revealed she's deceptive because she attracted me by showing herself as an extrovert and when she talks her interests are introverted (no shit, she has a 17month old, its expected). Im not sure if i should trust her.

    • I couldn't tell you either...

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  • ManOnFire
    It sounds like you mean older women period. To which I can agree they're generally more put together than younger women, yeah. But when you say 'single woman' then the stuff you say doesn't exactly apply. Younger women who are single are often not the same as older women who are single.
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  • Logorithim
    Good points. The type of woman you describe is great.
  • bethshepherd
    A lot of wishful thinking and generalisations here, having spoken to hundreds if not thousands of single women looking to date most would disagree with much of the above. It does not follow that an older one is more secure and confident. Some are very worried about money, cannot get a job, looking for a meal ticket, others are boring or have mental health problems which is why they are single. I have known older women who are single but desperate to get with a man simply because they have not got a car and want him to drive them everywhere or feed her cats when she is away.
    As the alternative to dating single women is to date women in a relationship it is obvious it will be a lot better to date a single woman where you can go to her home, phone her at home, be seen with her and see her a lot without her constantly being too busy with the demands of her real partner or kids or having to cancel when something at home goes wrong, and being hidden away as a nasty secret. The person who wrote this is obviously not English or American as their English is awful, they translate badly.
  • cherryphi82
    Uhm... shouldn't your take have been titled "The perks of dating an older woman"? Because young girls ARE generally single. And, most people date single people. It's generally looked down on for people to date someone who's already taken...#redundancy
    • ovoxo_

      Can you show the perks of dating an older woman

    • ovoxo_

      I want to learn it from you

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  • Eva323
    I think this is a reasonable hypothesis, now you need to follow up with the next step of the scientific method. By that I mean you are talking without any evidence. This is pure anecdote. Some of it might be true but definitely not all and not all the time.
  • Hidden_P
    So by your definition I was a single woman when I was 16 until now.

    I won’t mention I was in a 5 year relationship and currently in a 4year relationship. I don’t want to spoil your categories with actual definitions of the words, that would spoil it!
  • ScaryCool
    I think the only problem is us being in two different places in life, at least financially. I wouldn't mind dating an older woman but I'm still in college. Can't afford to live on my own just yet. So I don't know if I'd even be taken seriously.
    wouldn't want her thinking im looking for a suga-momma either lol
  • lia_98
    i dont understand this stigma around age.. men older are very attractive, if i was 30 something men younger than me might be very attractive... point of the matter is- it just depends on you, whoever you are and whatever preferences you have in mind for a partner
  • Ann242
    girl is to women as boy is to man----it is always more desirable to date a mature individial, irrespective of gender. Every person is different--and they have flaws. no one will meet your little checklist perfectly
  • VaIiant
    Wow, I’ve never seen so many stereotypes rolled into such few words.
  • yucychan
    Shouldn't the title of your take be "The Perks of dating an Older Woman"?
    Young girls could also be single women.
  • MonaLee
    How many single women did you date?;)
    Very good observations :)
  • BrittBratt2416
    well yeah you're suppose to date someone single.. lol
    • Nik1hil

      😂🤣😂 I think this guys is tennis fan and loves Mixed Doubles 😂😂

  • happyhippo
    Really cute take, but very wrong. Sorry, but you need to get better points and arguments for that, cause honestly there's not as much of a difference as you say.
  • Browneye57
    They're all single unless they're married. Duh.
    Your title should have been, 'Dating Girls VS Women'
    And you're right - they're smarter and better with men as they age.
  • Catholicgirl22
    You should you date only single women and only one woman at a time.
  • Aynsof
    The biggest perk of dating a single woman is that she is not already in a relationship...
  • jacquesvol
    My widfe was single when we started dating. So was I.
  • No shit, I thought (monogamous) dating and relationships were all about finding single partners. Thanks for the reassurance.
  • WalterRadio
    There is some advantage to dating a married woman. She has to go home.
  • Elaine_17
    I don't think ALL single woman are like what you described.
  • torken
    lol i see the emphasis isn't on the word single here.

    what about multiple women? :P
  • ovoxo_
    Why would I want to date someone who could care less if I'm not with her since to her there are many better men out there on this planet?

    This take is a giant fail
  • CubsterShura
    Why are you saying 'single woman' though?

    Anyway, older men would still be after the younger girls.

    And also, what's with dudes in the comments section saying that older women, after doing a lot of shit in youth finally settle down? The hell, this is exactly what growth is! You do things, make mistakes, learn lessons, have experiences that's what makes older women mature in the first place. People are stupid. Many people learn from their horrible pasts and they shouldn't be judged for their past.

    But no, let's say they are 'using' men. That way your pathetic ass can at least blame women for the miserable piece of shit that you are. Younger girls cheat, older women use men lol seriously do us women a favor and become a proud homosexual then. But oh wait, you still need the pussy. Now who's using women?

    And older women are too serious, really? If you aren't willing to have a long-term relationship with a woman then don't even approach her.
  • You_Cant_See_Me
    Uhhhhhh. What other kind of woman would I date? An engaged one?
  • Bananaman177
    As opposed to what? Dating a married woman?

    What the fuck are you talking about?
  • DJZest
    What a wonderful Take. Cutely written, but every point mentioned is very true.

    The best part of mature women is their straightforwardness!!
  • Tasos96
    Well I'd be worried if you thought dating a woman in a relationship is a good idea LOL
  • Philyouup
    the perks of dating a single woman... Well number one is " NO Boyfriend or husband with a gun...
  • disgustingweebtrash
    I didn't know dating single women had perks. I best stop chasing married women.
  • BOUNTYGUY9
    love is love we can t help who we fall in love with?
  • Tomblebee
    As oppose to a taken one?
    • MESsage me please

    • Tomblebee

      @Mddennis41 How do you find these ancient threads.. hah.. you'r xp too low to message me yourself? Mk

  • JimRSmith
    Too many stereotypes in here, I'm afraid...
  • RedRobin
    Nice take
  • BillieJean1070
    Hellllo, I'm single :)
  • captainw0ww
    I agree
  • John_Doesnt
    I've only dated married women, so I can't relate.
  • Psycho21924
    Great take
  • clampfan101
    Not exactly how I would put it...
  • Anon-ymous1
    Uh... okay.
  • LegateLanius
    Interesting
  • france1
    i like women
  • CT_CD
    I prefer taken women
  • CoffeeWC
    Great take
  • eternal_aq
    İnteresting
  • Nice222
    Thanks for sharing
  • Anonymous
    Interesting
  • Anonymous
    Good take
  • Anonymous
    Great take, no wonder why i always have crush on mature women
  • Anonymous
    But women with poor judgement are the only ones who will date me...
  • Anonymous
    Plus: women much younger mostly choose older guys for money or because she thinks he won’t cheat. Even bigger problem: these types of girls often DO cheat. You’re 10 years older, buying her stuff and running around to flatter her and she’s scoping that gymbro her own age as a side piece.
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