Yea guys and girls do function a bit differently - if your good with both you get a great sense of what each gender likes.
Yea the Vixen and Seductress ones are more sexual and intimate - I usually don't use those until a lot later. They are good to slip in every once and a while if your in the enviornment for it ( like dirty dancing at a club,) but if you put those on to strong he'll think your just wanting sex
Lol yea I was getting so confused when some of the guys who liked me kept asking if I liked another guy. I was like um I don't think so - then they're like why do you flirt so much with him? I was so confused but then I started to realize the little habits I tend to do :P
He he it's not cruel until you start manipulating him - which becomes ridiculously easy if you make it to " vixen " fliriting :P
I can't argue against it, its almost true, obviously you must adapt the flirting to the man.
But with my friends what I have seen more is that the girl ussually goes "aiming to the moon" and for men who doesn't like her but disgust her, so if you dont follow the first rule what you said. Try to figure out if he likes you, you are on a really bad position, and I have seen many many women self-convincing that "the guy liked her but he doesn't know it".
This is a great take... especially for women who are totally clueless, as in TOTALLY clueless! From the male pov, the short version for initial contact... 1) Look your best ...2) Be confident but not egotistical, and slightly vulnerable...3) Pay attention to him genuinely, but not with flattery. The other techniques above are great too. Just wanted to keep it simple for the first seduction :)
Oh it works or a note with a number on it lol. No need to over do it. I would not call it flirting. I call it straight to the point asking out lol. The women who did the straight forward approach got dates with me. The ones that did all of the flirty stuff got nothing. The try-hards= turn off for me. I guess I am the exception the rules lol
Like for example if I am sitting down and a woman starts to talk about a car I am looking at but she is wrong on the stats but is doing it just to talk to me/seduce me and I like her but he knowledge of the car is turning me off. I had something like this happen to me lol. I was all merp to her lol. It was like she swings and she misses lol.
I guess I'm not the typical guy then 'cause most of the stuff towards the end started to sort of..scare me, or rather turn me off. << Being overly flirtatious with sexual signals makes me feel like I'm just going to be used for intercourse with no chance of a relationship. But then again, all of the enticing flirting techniques will have a positive - turn on - effect if I'm already in a relationship with the girl and she chooses to use them. Basically, it depends on the type of guy.
Man I'd never do these 😂😂 for me it's simple. If we both know each other and like each other and feel like we're ready to tie the knot, we will do it. :'v But it was a good read though. My bestie will love this.
But I was wondering, you said you're sometimes flirting without really noticing it yourself right? I mean, if a girl gets a little touchy/physical here and there while talking/dancing, is it always a clear sign of wanting 'something' more?
DishLadyA minute agoThanks for the eye-opening advisement. Some of the stuff is axiomatic signaling I didn't realize was a "green light" to the guy. I've been warned. ;-)
dude approaching men as a woman isn't rocket science. it's litterally like you're a freaking corpse in the middle of the desert trying to approach the vultures xD they will come to you anyway if you want it or not.
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@ManaX
Yea guys and girls do function a bit differently - if your good with both you get a great sense of what each gender likes.
Yea the Vixen and Seductress ones are more sexual and intimate - I usually don't use those until a lot later. They are good to slip in every once and a while if your in the enviornment for it ( like dirty dancing at a club,) but if you put those on to strong he'll think your just wanting sex
Thanks guys glad you find it helpful :D
@ManaX
Lol yea I was getting so confused when some of the guys who liked me kept asking if I liked another guy. I was like um I don't think so - then they're like why do you flirt so much with him? I was so confused but then I started to realize the little habits I tend to do :P
He he it's not cruel until you start manipulating him - which becomes ridiculously easy if you make it to " vixen " fliriting :P
I can't argue against it, its almost true, obviously you must adapt the flirting to the man.
But with my friends what I have seen more is that the girl ussually goes "aiming to the moon" and for men who doesn't like her but disgust her, so if you dont follow the first rule what you said.
Try to figure out if he likes you, you are on a really bad position, and I have seen many many women self-convincing that "the guy liked her but he doesn't know it".
This is a great take... especially for women who are totally clueless, as in TOTALLY clueless! From the male pov, the short version for initial contact... 1) Look your best ...2) Be confident but not egotistical, and slightly vulnerable...3) Pay attention to him genuinely, but not with flattery.
The other techniques above are great too. Just wanted to keep it simple for the first seduction :)
Oh it works or a note with a number on it lol. No need to over do it. I would not call it flirting. I call it straight to the point asking out lol. The women who did the straight forward approach got dates with me. The ones that did all of the flirty stuff got nothing. The try-hards= turn off for me. I guess I am the exception the rules lol
Like for example if I am sitting down and a woman starts to talk about a car I am looking at but she is wrong on the stats but is doing it just to talk to me/seduce me and I like her but he knowledge of the car is turning me off. I had something like this happen to me lol. I was all merp to her lol. It was like she swings and she misses lol.
Men have never been the initiator. What is considered to be the first step, the guy approaching the girl, is in fact the second step.
The first step in 99% of all courtships is the girl signaling her interest in the guy.
I guess I'm not the typical guy then 'cause most of the stuff towards the end started to sort of..scare me, or rather turn me off. << Being overly flirtatious with sexual signals makes me feel like I'm just going to be used for intercourse with no chance of a relationship. But then again, all of the enticing flirting techniques will have a positive - turn on - effect if I'm already in a relationship with the girl and she chooses to use them. Basically, it depends on the type of guy.
Man I'd never do these 😂😂 for me it's simple. If we both know each other and like each other and feel like we're ready to tie the knot, we will do it. :'v But it was a good read though. My bestie will love this.
But I was wondering, you said you're sometimes flirting without really noticing it yourself right? I mean, if a girl gets a little touchy/physical here and there while talking/dancing, is it always a clear sign of wanting 'something' more?
DishLadyA minute agoThanks for the eye-opening advisement. Some of the stuff is axiomatic signaling I didn't realize was a "green light" to the guy. I've been warned. ;-)
If you're tall and handsome enough, the girl will make sure it happens no matter how awkward or even creepy you are.
Yawn. Sounds like it would work on the plebeian men out there.
Thankfully the "environment" doesn't interest me, and I am likely to die ever bitter and ever lonesome.
dude approaching men as a woman isn't rocket science. it's litterally like you're a freaking corpse in the middle of the desert trying to approach the vultures xD they will come to you anyway if you want it or not.
i mean seriously. just mention you're single and you'll be covered in wieners.
There's some nitpicking I suppose we could do, but I think it's within the margin of error for individual variable.
Overall this is actually spooky in it's accuracy. Like, I'm wondering if you're a dude.
This article confirms 0 women have flirted with me. Great 👍🏾 article
Thanks for the eye-opening advisement. Some of the stuff is axiomatic signaling I didn't realize I was a green light. I've been warned. ;-)
Wow, cool article :D I really enjoyed it, the techniques seem really accurate, haven't read anything about flirting this good before
@Myth024
Awe that is the one thing I forgot to put in here, ugh it's kind of important too. Hopefully the techniques are blunt enough though.
True, dam I forgot to mention that :P thought about it, just didn't type it down. too bad you can't edit these things. or can you?