My take on why I think I’m Incel (Page 2)

[cherryphi82]

You remind me of Raj from the Big Bang Theory...

[myTake Owner]

Precisely one of the points I’m trying to make

[cherryphi82]

That's not a negative... I always thought he was cute.

[cherryphi82]

And didn't Raj have sex with Penny?

[Bluemax]

My sister has a crush on Raj.

And I don't mean she has a crush on Kunal Nayyar. I mean she has a crush on the *character*, Raj.

[Mamamialetmego]

Raj is handsome man but lacks of confidence like you. You are handsome i really mean that. But you lack style and confidence. It's all about style and social skills. Trust me i'm Marketer i know how women mind works. They value man more than you can imagine. They just want to you to be confident little bit. Go out say hi people, talk without purpose. Go talk with girls without end goal. That's how you build confidence by doing over over it's like learning riding bycicle.

[cupidkisses]

you create your own opportunity

[myTake Owner]

I’ve tried but nothing has worked out ever

[xctmnt]

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Good luck bro

[xctmnt]

Also, if you want some harsh feedback, you have big, feminine lips and big eyes. It looks feminine. On top of that, you have gone with longish hair, which makes you look even more feminine. Try changing your look to be more masculine. Get a buzzcut or just short hair. Grow some (neat) stubble. Do martial arts. Cut back on sugar and grains in your diet. These things should make you more appealing to the ladies.

[xctmnt]

Your delicate features can be an asset if you combine them with a more manly hairstyle and the other stuff I mentioned. Hell, models have those kinds of features. Just be aware you have them and don't add to them with e. g. your long hair.

[xctmnt]

Also: Dress more masculine. Clothes that fit (i. e. not loose). Leather or denim jackets. Jeans. Lumberjack-type shirts. Whatever makes you look more mannish.

[xctmnt]

Or just hang out with masculine guys. Like Jason Statham or something.

[myTake Owner]

I used to experiment quite a lot with my hair but I stopped because nothing worked. I like it long. Also I already have tons of fitted clothes I wear but still nothing hapy

[xctmnt]

Cool, it's better to wear it the way you like it.

[myTake Owner]

Yeah man it’s my own style. I don’t fit in I stand out. Obviously not so much because I still dress smart and good but the hair at least gives me the edge. And it actually makes me more confident

[sophieea]

Don't worry bout this.

[myTake Owner]

Well when your 21 and a guy who’s a virgin it’s a bit worrying

[Dchrls78104]

@manni555 So what do you think about a guy who is a virgin at 40? or older?

[myTake Owner]

@Dchrls78104 it’s probably the same but a bit more depressing

[RichiezLion]

@Dchrls78104 I find it extremely difficult to meet women, and it is very depressing. I have had several married ladies flirt lately, but I never get single women to flirt with me any more. I will not have a relationship with a married woman since it is against my morals. It is very lonely and creates sleepless nights wandering how to find and win over someone to be with you. I am not an Incel since I am completely against their view of women. Women are very special and deserver respect. I do not care for all these other movements driving men and women apart, but I hurt when I hear of a woman hurting to the point of tears at times. My problem is that I long for my soul mate that I only just started searching for last couple of years due to taking care of my mom who died of cancer.

[Dchrls78104]

@RichiezLion I feel your pain, bro, cuz I'm suffering the same myself. Sometimes I wonder if I really would die this way or if even trying to get a lady is worth it at all. I'm saying this because in my country, if you date the wrong girl, you could be shot dead!

I feel your pain, bro, and i hope it ends soon for both of us...

[RichiezLion]

@Dchrls78104 Ya, when you get 40 years old and above like us, you start thinking about living the rest of your life alone, and that certainly adds to the depression of not having one there at that time. I wish you the best too brother! May both our paths find the ladies of our dreams.

[Dchrls78104]

@RichiezLion I hope so too. I'm a virgin.

[You_Cant_See_Me]

Do you lack confidence?

[myTake Owner]

I’d say sometimes I do but sometimes I feel good

[You_Cant_See_Me]

Normal.

[Revolver_]

You're hot

[myTake Owner]

Why thank you 😂

[Revolver_]

You're welcome

[RichardBandit]

You look like Justin Biebers dumb brother

[CT_CD]

Great myTake

[Anonymous]

Why do you care?

[myTake Owner]

Well when your 21 and still a virgin it’s a bit worrying

[Opinion Owner]

I never made it to 21 as a virgin, but why is that a such big deal? Don’t worry my dude.

[myTake Owner]

Because for girls in England it’s a huge turn off

[Opinion Owner]

Why? Do you think it’s different for America?

[myTake Owner]

I don’t know I only know about England girls

[Opinion Owner]

How do you know they even care? What have you heard them say about virgins?

[myTake Owner]

I’ve heard loads of times that girls over here don’t want a virgin and I’ve heard it from them saying it face to face to me as well. It could be because it’s uncommon over here

[Opinion Owner]

Virgins are normal everywhere that’s bullshit I have about 3 British friends from college and they seem to have sex a lot it actually seems like British people I’ve met seemed Incel like they aren’t slutty like the girls from my city. Unless the girl is ghetto trash I really doubt she will give a fuck. You are just jumping to that conclusion because you are a virgin there is no country in the world where the women care if there boyfriend was a virgin before them in early 20s unless you are trying to find a one night stand with a ghetto ass sugar mama that has stds and shit. Trust me I’ve never heard a girl talk about that just calling guys virgins as a joke but in reality it’s really not a big deal.

[Opinion Owner]

*seem to NOT have sex a lot” sorry

[Anonymous]

Okayz