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True. But the friendzone only benefits the woman. So I think we are equal
This is exactly right. Any girl who ever had a hookup or friends with benefits i would never ever marry ever and id never respect her. Period. She is just pump and dump material.
So just to be clear, it’s ok for you to “pump and dump” her, but she’s basically a piece of trash if she’s ever had a one night stand or slept with a friend? What’s so ironic about that is that maybe she slept with a guy that she really genuinely cared about and saw a future with, but he saw her as a “pump and dump”, so it ended up being a one night stand and now that’s what she will he stuck as? Seems fair.
@maya89 well she shouldn't have slept with him. I mean if i just met a virgin and she hooked up with me id dump her too. Easy girls are not relationship material.
Whats this fair nonsense? Men and women are not different. When women are expected to be 6ft tall and earn 6 figures then they can complain men aren't virginal enough for them. y'all got your gender specific standards and we have ours. Just how it is. From a mans perspective the most important thing a woman can ever have going for her is not to cheat. She could be the perfect woman in every way but if she seems easy or slutty she is worthless for commitment. Its that simple.
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I’m not saying that a woman should give it up to just anyone or encouraging that in anyway, all I’m saying is that just because a woman has slept with a few men does not mean that she is not “relationship material”. As for your height and income example - the majority of men in this country are under six feet so I guess they aren’t living up to the “standards” either then. And in this day and age you better believe that women are not only expected to be making money but for most it’s a necessity. I started working when I was 15 and have been with the same company for over 12 years, now in a director position making over six figures so what does that say?
@maya89 agree to disagree. As successful man i could care less about a girls income. Like i said sure money is great. But a more virginal woman is always superior no matter what else is factored in because at the end of the day a womans income is not important at all. Sexual history is super important.
Many men and women get hung up on figuring out how to deal with shitty members of the opposite sex instead of great ones. Ie. Women say well ill earn money so i can date broke men, instead of just being the kind of girl a successful man wants. Or men who instead of attracting traditional women, they learn how to play mind game pick up artist shit so they can be successful with sluts.
The point is the men i know, physically fit, highly successful, intelligent. Someone i know he just married a girl from asia who is a virgin. My friend he just says he's staying single forever because nobody is worth his time. Me im part of many conservative and religious groups so i get to meet traditional women. We all have the same desires but are dealing with them in our own way. I meet most girls standards so therefore i expect women to meet my standards. If i was fat and broke id probably not be so picky. And in fact when i was younger i was fat and broke and i did consider dating more variety of women. You get what you got to give essentially. Men value women who aren't slutty and the best men, many are seeking the least slutty women possible.
@maya89 I have the same attitude, but I do not take part in the same thing I disagree with.
@bamesjond0069 "well she shouldn't have slept with him". Ok, I'll remember that the next time a guy wants to have sex with me. ;) :D
@dianagirl yes you should remember that and say no.
I agree overall. I had a girl that knew I was with a girlfriend but she still wanted to meet for sex so it worked.
This was probably true in the beginning of hookup culture, but now there are quite a few women who are only in it for the quicky.
What about the women that only want NSA sex and the guy has all the feelings
Sex is not always meaningful or meningless to either Men or women
I agree with I cannot find true love at all this change is not good for anyone
Not true guys get screwed with the friends with benefits all the time
Thank YOU. This is all true and these girls ruin it for the rest looking for love.
there's these thing , people reefer to , as being responsible for your own action...
Your premise is incorrect. Women AREN'T worth more. Women serve one purpose... as a place to blow one's load.
I agree. Sex is no good for me any way. I just kid myself. Foreplay is better. Not sure if it's the same for all women.
No it's not. Some girls actually don't like "direct stimulation" foreplay at all.
Maybe you haven't had good lovers yet (or your heart wasn't in it). A lot of guys think they're Don Juan in the sack when they're really not. :D
What about friends on benefits, is that okay?
You are so closeminded and stupid
What if the girl wanted the relationship?
Couldn’t agree more!!
All the hoes will get mad at this
Or maybe they just wants some dick
Agreed plus they can play we can’t.
Women are starting to call men whores, now, too, when men "play" - the way women have been called whores by men, throughout history (even when a woman didn't sleep around!)
Good take
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