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Sexual assault and consent (Page 4)
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This is the first time I have seen this sort of analogy, but it is an interesting one, it certainly does help carry the point across.
Next you'll say all men are rapists. So much tripe. We're all sick of hearing it. And no, it isn't 'rape culture' either.
Nope, never said that and never feel the need to say that. Can you please quote anywhere on this site where I have said anything bad against men or simply by all my replies on the opinions left on the question -- did I ever suggest ALL MEN are rapist? And why men?
All HUMAN should know what consent is.
This is the new latest fad - #metoo spinoff.
Yeah yeah, you're one of those 'should' people. Shoulding everybody to death.
Well, you're not adding anything valuable to the discussion.
Go leave opinion elsewhere.
Brownie, gotta say Tea and Consent and Tea, it's a bad idea, happened to my 24 year old son with a woman he'd been seeing for more than a year. It was the end of their relationship and I was wondering if she was going to charge him with something. He was in my house sobbing, fearful and bewildered. He's no sissy boy, either. A strong, confident guy. But her accusation broke him. Guidelines are sane. But some people make specious accusations, spread rumors after the fact because they're angry, misinformed, etc. I've advised my son to never engage with any woman he hasn't asked in triplicate for "yes, make me tea right now." Tea is like condoms. There's only one use and you have to remake the tea and consent every time. Even in longterm relationships. It's gotten stupid. But you have to protect yourself.
@Screenwriter - Agreed. Asker is a lunatic. It's gotten stupid alright.
She agreed with the whole mytake by advising her son to ask consent everytime to protect himself -- and you agree with her.
Agree Completely, if they are drunk or something. Wait until the next day. Then ask them again. But, I would' my force nothing on nobody. Myself, I want them to enjoy it with me. Prefer sober and on no drugs or alcohol period. This is my opinion.
Everyone understands the concept of consent. That video is old and is from a time where feminists thought men were too stupid to know what consent is... idiot
Clearly, calling someone an idiot makes you a genius isn't it?
No. But it makes me less of an idiot than someone who lectures about consent on a site used mostly by adults
You know, if you don't find it useful and if you don't have anything good to contribute without the need to name calling in an attempt to make yourself feel superior, my best suggestion is to move along. I thought manners shouldn't be taught.
It's not an attempt at superiority. But everyone except little children understand what consent is
It makes you feel less of an idiot isn't it?
No it makes me feel like I'm being condescended to.
I really don't understand the point of this mytake given that most people on this site are adults and even those who aren't know what consent is
Again, if you don't see the point, move along. Ignore it, simple.
lmao this fool got a superiority complex. you think you can talk for everyone and lash out. calm down many of the people on this app are dumb af and dont understand these things and also this consent shit is complicated cos every situation is different.
Yes. The concept of consent is universal.
And yes I assume every one understands a yes or no situation.
I don't do name calling or insult people on this "adult site" (as you put it) because that is a childish behaviour.
It doesn't matter that the video is old. This is a current matter. This happened a few months ago to my son. He was in a longterm relationship. The vid is a nice compilation and simplistic explanation. It should be shown in all high schools and upper level middle schools. It could happen to a 60 year old as well as a 16 year old. Things change. Everybody is up on them. Does no harm to repeat information all people don't have.
Sorry, everybody ISN'T up on the information...
Why didn't their parents teach them about such things?
BCS I remember my father making it crystal clear that he'd beat the living shit out of me if I ever harm a woman in any way. Maybe it's different in your country and parents just don't bother informing their children of what is acceptable behavior
Everything is rape in PC culture which is why so many guys are trying to find wives in Asia or other countries that haven't been infected yet.
yes, and some Asians are trying to avoid old perverted western men
@HoratioCaine you must have been dumped by your boyfriend for a hot Asian chick.
I'm Asian. I get hit on by a bunch of losers like you.
@HoratioCaine you're Asian? Sure. That's why your profile says your white and you have a picture of a white person in your profile and you live in the United States.
I'm Asian American :p ever watch the show csi? Horatio Caine is a white dude I respect
@HoratioCaine you're not Asian. Nobody has the hots for Asian Americans. Too fat.
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Not true mate. You can tell yourself whatever to convince yourself you're not wrong, won't change reality.
@HoratioCaine the reality is that you're an old white dude who wants to have a sex change to become an Asian chick.
LMFAO, where did you come up with that? your delusions are only proving my point that nobody wants you. you're so unattractive you can't even get anyone to hang around you.
@HoratioCaine you don't even know what I look like. But I know that you're an old white guy in the US.
You don't know what i look like too, and you don't have any logical proof to back up your claim. I know how men like you generally behave just based on your reaction.
@HoratioCaine this is how I generally react to a man pretending to be an Asian woman.
I'm not pretending. you're only trying to make yourself feel better because it's a blow to your ego that we're not all white worshippers.
You're white and pretending to be Asian. It's sad.
I'm not pretending. Your lack of logic to back this up is amusing.
My logic is that you're a man.
you can't even give a legit reason why you think that. try again.
@HoratioCaine Asians aren't fat. You are fat.
@HoratioCaine Ah, Horatio, my darling. Can't win this argument. JD is angry.
@Screenwriter i noticed. I have no idea where the Asians aren't fat you're at came from.
Thank you for typing out the words, @shimmeryns. That was very considerate of you.
And this is a good illustration. Very well-written. Solid points all around. I agree with everything in here.
I've seen the video over a year ago (iirc).
Most of the times, they just splashed you with the tea.
I'm having a little difficulty understanding this... can you explain it again, except in more simple terms?
Like, what the hell is "sexual consent"?
I love how they forget to mention that if you regret drinking tea the next day don't claim it was forced down your throat.
This is one of my favorite videos
This is why I always say "It's up to her."
Obviously, I like Tea. If I let her ask, then I always know if she wants tea.
You forgot to mention that it's best to avoid tea with crazy people, as they may throw scalding tea in your face or ruin the china.
If it doesn't feel right, avoid them at all cost.
I agree. When men and women have sex, both should have agreed to it first.
The issue is when someone drinks the tea, waits 6 days and then says "i didn't want tea". This idea that men dont understand concent is moronic, women often are not assertive enough in refusing
People need to open their damn mouths and say what they want or not.
Don't be afraid to drink tea on your own! It's not as good, but it's still tea!
All fine, but what happens when she said she had tea but didn't have any tea, and was forced on her?
I've been having tea a couple times a day. Unfortunately, in this case it is not a euphemism.
What the fuck does tea have to do with consent. This was the biggest shit of writing I’ve ever seen.
How about you re read it and listen to the concept rather than focusing on the metaphor. It's called using your brain. Keeps you from sounding like a judgmental idiot like you just sounded like.
@I_Am_Sazerac, couldn't have said it any better... Although I would've called @ChefSwol a DUMBASS or Asswipe... But you're a bit kinder than I am... LOL
Believe me I can be unkind but there usually isn't any need for it.
@I_Am_Sazerac, you are right... 👍👍
ChefSwol is a dumbass. plain and simple. Has no brain if he can't see or understand the tea example.
Right @JohnAlaska43...
Reading this shit made me want to cut off my own dick
Good. Now try explaining this to a middle Eastern man.
Are you one?