A guy’s guide for girls on dating to find love

[Coolflow9]

As a guy who has been through the 20’s phase of dating, and know what I want out of a relationship I feel the need to put something out there for younger women in the strenuous dating world.

Recently I’ve found true love with a girl who happens to be 6 years younger than myself and after finding out about her dating/sexual history I am truly and honesty crushed at what she has been through in the dating world. For a young girl that made the same mistake over and over again due to nothing more than being herself......a helpless romantic and wanting to be loved so badly the dating world and the male population chewed her up and spit her out time and time again. That mistake......falling too fast and giving up her vulnerability (sex) too quickly leading her to being strung along by asshole after asshole that played the game and took advantage of her best traits in a committed relationship, which are a big heart, loyalty and trust. Now that she’s found true love and someone who showed her true love (me) she’s filled full of regret by most of her past experiences and wishing she could have seen the light back then.

So I’m here to tell any hard loving young girl with values in the dating world to keep your guard up for as long as you have to in order to make sure a guy wants to be committed to you. Use your head and don’t let your heart get you hurt over and over again! Don’t let your loneliness get to you and do t be hopeful that things will work out if it doesn’t feel perfect. “Most” guys are animals and will use you like a piece of meat all the while pretending to care about you. If they are not matching your devotion, and commitment when sex is not on the table then move on right away!. The ones who really want your heart won’t run and will be there in the end for you!!!

[Catsdaddy]

One cannot find love, if you are not in love right now then you have never been in love before. Even though you called it love doesn't mean thats what it was, it was a possession with conditions and if they weren't met then you stop loving. True love comes into your life when its deserved, like being the best you could be in past relationships even though it wasn't both ways and then not putting the blame on others but being grateful for them cuz they were just there to test you and show you the things that you wouldn't want in a partner so when your true love appears in your life your eyes will be wide open to everything that you should appreciate. True love is free, its letting go of control, possibly not being with them but the love is unconditional. Like all you want is there happiness and even though you know you are the one who completes them and vice versa you can't tell them. Sometimes they might not be clear minded due to destructive relationships there coming out of and if they have grudges on exes then there faults will be projected on to you in the very little things so that's when you gotta let then go and let then live life going through more mistakes till they learn the lesson you did. Hopefully all that doesn't apply to you and your true love passed there life tests at the same time you did cuz if not then you will experience how painful and long suffering true love is cause you never fall out of love with them cuz its unconditional cause they are literally your other half that is in another body but with a different life obstacles from yours. The term is called your twin flame., majority of the world never gets the chance at connecting with there's or takes many life times but when you do it's an experience that can seem like a fantasy, horror, dream, nightmare all at once. But after all that and you are able to merge each other's lives at the same time then you can possibly say you have won this crazy game we call life although it's possible to do it alone without your other half to win in this life but the road is a little more of a one in a million chance and you can put your name on the high scores along side others such as jesus christ for example, and although the most enlightening path it's the one where unconditional love is mandatory... mandatory even for the ones who hate you. Kinds like living the life of christ with in you but the world only sees the devil... sorry kinda hot lost in my opinion and went off subject, so I'll leave it there and hopefully you got the basic idea of the true love opinion I was intending.

[Coolflow9]

Your opinion is a little hard to follow, but I think what what you’re trying to explain is that life’s experiences (even if bad) allow you to see what
true love is. Is that right?

My Take is not about what true love is because that’s a highly debatable subject, but rather to give helpful advice to navigating the dating world for women. Due to the nature in which men are wired (to have sex and pass genes) it makes it incredibly hard for women to find love in their 20’s. They need to be extremely patient and make 100% sure that a guy wants a future with her before she gives up sex to him.

If she gives up sex too early she is going to rack up a lot of sexual partners before finding true love , which could lead to regret later on. Or maybe not? It depends on the type of girl, but I’m referring to a girl with self respect and values in this take.

[Anonymous]

Couldn't of said it any better

[Coolflow9]

Thank you!

[moon08]

This is so good to know. Thank you for share this!

[Coolflow9]

You’re very welcome!

[ProfessionalMusician]

This is very true and important for everyone

[Coolflow9]

Thank you.