I'm 20 and still feel like that. Even when I look at things logically. I've achoeve a lot but it never feels like anything I should feel good about and never will
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Change the wording. You're 18 and still haven't developed the discipline to do what's necessary to reach your goals. Do you think these things are just gonna come to you? Or that they're going to take work to achieve?
I turned yesterday 25. I'm still the ideal me that I have in mind. But I'm working on it, I don't have a deadline and so do you. Take your time and do it your way.
Get yourself motivated to do what you want to do like getting your hair done the way you want. As well practice putting make up on. You could have your mom or a girlfriend to show you how
Still only care about the most shallow and superficial stuff, like a cookey cutter boring stereotype. Make a choice to grow the fuck up right now, for your 18 birthday, or you'll never stop.
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I can sympathize with all that... I feel the exact same way.
do you try to be thin through sports and exercises? or just via a diet? you have no friends, do you try socializing?
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I’ve tried both gym and diet. I had to stop gym after a while because of academic obligations, and dieting became very expensive for someone with my age and no job. I would restart my gym membership if only gyms were open but obviously I know they can’t be during these trialling times. Honestly I have acquaintances, people I talk to on a daily basis but I wouldn’t call them friends, we hardly talk about anything outside of school and I honestly don’t feel comfortable around them like how you’re supposed to feel around friends
you're supposed to feel yourself... if you behave differently around everyone you meet, then no one will know who you truly are and as a result never really trust you and therefore not want to hang out with you.
Work for it. Are you working out everyday and dieting?
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I’ve tried many diets but they’re all either too expensive or inconvenient. Also When I was dieting it was like I felt hungry everyday.
I loved going to the gym when I was motivated to do so. But I just can’t get into home workouts and jogging in the same way. This is why this pandemic is really getting to me because I can’t even go to the gym like I want.
Diets are usually garbage. If you want to drop weight you need to calculate your calory maintenance (tons of calculatores outthere) and eat at a deffice. tons of foods will fill you up and havr low calories on it. Veggies. Diet soda (unhealthy af but calories wise...) Stay consistent with it for 12 weeks while working out every or almost everyday. Weigh yourself regularly (weight shifts a lot during the week so dont worry if you gain a bit in some days)
No I'm from Ireland you can buy as much drink as you like when your 18, if your between 16 and 18 you can get an alcoholic drink with meal only if you get the food with it though
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I'm 20 and still feel like that. Even when I look at things logically. I've achoeve a lot but it never feels like anything I should feel good about and never will
Change the wording. You're 18 and still haven't developed the discipline to do what's necessary to reach your goals. Do you think these things are just gonna come to you? Or that they're going to take work to achieve?
I turned yesterday 25. I'm still the ideal me that I have in mind. But I'm working on it, I don't have a deadline and so do you. Take your time and do it your way.
I'm still not the ideal me*
Get yourself motivated to do what you want to do like getting your hair done the way you want. As well practice putting make up on. You could have your mom or a girlfriend to show you how
https://youtu.be/nl62hhiBMOM
Still only care about the most shallow and superficial stuff, like a cookey cutter boring stereotype. Make a choice to grow the fuck up right now, for your 18 birthday, or you'll never stop.
I can sympathize with all that... I feel the exact same way.
Oh. Happy to know that... It's more happier age... Be happy and make best friends
I understand that feeling. Honestly I'm still in it.
Cheer up things should be getting better before you are 20.
All those things will happen for you. Congratulations and happy 18th!
do you try to be thin through sports and exercises? or just via a diet?
you have no friends, do you try socializing?
I’ve tried both gym and diet. I had to stop gym after a while because of academic obligations, and dieting became very expensive for someone with my age and no job. I would restart my gym membership if only gyms were open but obviously I know they can’t be during these trialling times.
Honestly I have acquaintances, people I talk to on a daily basis but I wouldn’t call them friends, we hardly talk about anything outside of school and I honestly don’t feel comfortable around them like how you’re supposed to feel around friends
you're supposed to feel yourself... if you behave differently around everyone you meet, then no one will know who you truly are and as a result never really trust you and therefore not want to hang out with you.
I don’t behave differently
Things don't magically change just because you have a birthday. You need to go after the things you want.
Work for it. Are you working out everyday and dieting?
I’ve tried many diets but they’re all either too expensive or inconvenient.
Also When I was dieting it was like I felt hungry everyday.
I loved going to the gym when I was motivated to do so. But I just can’t get into home workouts and jogging in the same way. This is why this pandemic is really getting to me because I can’t even go to the gym like I want.
Diets are usually garbage. If you want to drop weight you need to calculate your calory maintenance (tons of calculatores outthere) and eat at a deffice. tons of foods will fill you up and havr low calories on it. Veggies. Diet soda (unhealthy af but calories wise...)
Stay consistent with it for 12 weeks while working out every or almost everyday.
Weigh yourself regularly (weight shifts a lot during the week so dont worry if you gain a bit in some days)
Happy birthday young lady be careful, and slow down and smell the flowers.
Chill out just go out and make efforts to be how u want to be.
at least you can buy alcohol, unless your in america which is pretty shit then
You can buy alcohol in the UK at 18? I thought you had to be 18 to drink but 21 to buy
No I'm from Ireland you can buy as much drink as you like when your 18, if your between 16 and 18 you can get an alcoholic drink with meal only if you get the food with it though
Awesome
So you really think numbers can decide what you are ?
Your age is not your real age at first.
So you go to moon.
What's your age?
@lamanintrovert Says the guy who’s supposedly 120 years old
@Jack9949 yeah.
You look pretty thin to me plus why are you green?
Or grape fruit juice sex for month excuse me fucken 2407 and you lose it all or a week on meth