A Guy's Guide to Digital Communication: How to Talk to Girls Online (Page 2)
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Haaa, I have my experience with that. Good, My Take. I would add that it worth more when you communicate with people you have known in person.
Seems very sound advice. I found some of the content illuminating. Thanks.
God forbid a woman put some effort into a conversation. I wasn't aware that talking to women requires an instruction manual.
I know. This is in no way a 'guys, it's all your fault, you're doing it wrong' thing. I have heard many times that girls are unresponsive and that's a large part of why I wrote this. But there's still a bunch of guys out there who haven't completely checked out of the game yet, are in the dark with very little information to go on, and are trying to figure out how to get a response, a reaction, any interest back in return. I can't just say to the girls, 'hey, write them back.' I also can't inspire them to do much. The girls are not off the hook, but they're not interested in reading things like this. So I wrote this to deal with that situation, that men are faced with. I don't think it's right, and I think both sides need to take accountability, but the reasons that girls don't respond are many and varied. (Some of them I wrote in this take.) But if you look at gag in general, it's not just isolated to sex, dating or men. I've also asked the question, with a poll, why they don't answer more questions on this site in general (the non--sex ones) and contribute in lower numbers in general than the men do, which is notable and very noticeable, considering that they are 56% of the user base. It's very complicated.
We are all different, dont go off of one person's opinion
You sure picked the wrong time to post this since all anybody can do these days is sext or video cam lol
I totally support people doing that if they're already in a relationship, but for the people who are strangers talking has to come first.
Talking first and then sexting?
Uh yeah.
Does it really matter though? Lol I mean I guess to a female it does.
Yes, words matter to girls.
Here. Here's a little gift I dug up for you. Remember, sexting is different than unsolicited dick pics (don't do the latter), but as of right now ~ 29% of the girls who answered this are open to sexting. And keep in mind, that's answered, and doesn't include all the ones who have zero interest or are put off by it.
Ladies, do you want the guys of GAG to sext with you? ↗
Like I said, my mytake is not about how to do that, that's easy with some girls, but really offensive to others (the majority.) And you can't find out which until you talk to them and get to know them for a while first. And in the meantime, with guys initiating this all over the place, it chases away a bunch of girls and leaves the ones left on the site with their backs up, feeling like all guys want is sex.
I get what you mean.
Good.
I will never do online dating. I prefer meeting women the old fashioned way...
Good for you. Much better.
Some women deserve to be disrespected because i know some bitches my age that has gone too far
In what sense?
Yes, women like you shouod be disrespected, you female simp
Truth hurts
Not every woman deserve respect
You do not say the context, which makes you pathetic. Respect is deserved, and women should not be respected only because of their gender
@hi_it_is_me123 simpette?
Hahahah i did not know that this term exist. Thank you
Guys if you're like me and you DO all of this and you still have no luck give up and focus on your personal skills because online dating is not for us
I thought you had a girlfriend recently? Did I get you mixed up with someone else, or did it end?
Yeah a mix up, I've been single for over 2 years
I usually start a conversation with a woman by complimenting her ass. It works fine
it bothers me a lot when people call it a learnable skill
I get what you're saying man. But she also said " it's me, not you". Saying that you may have learned, even mastered that skill. But if you're messaging someone who's mind just isn't open to you you're not going to have success. And you can't put thar on you. And a lot of the times we do.
@ChiTown33 its long and difficult to explain
Never ask the fish how to catch a fish, ask the fisherman.
Nope. Many fishermen are coming up empty. And then you guys say, "We're goona need a bigger boat."
No. You just don't know how to fish.
Because fisherman don't like fishes that feels like it is entitled to everything...
He doesn't need a damaged goods... it's a bad business
Well that's true. Who wants that.
But that doesn't encompass ALL fish, just a portion of them.
I've seen you write this exact comment before. You like it. But it's ridiculous to say that advice or information cannot come from the sex itself, and is only valid when it's coming from the opposing side, the chaser. Come on. You do not know more about how women think than women do. Your comment implies strategizing, manipulation, even.
Back in the days... society is designed to catch a fish... but nowadays it's the opposite... if you do go to catch a fish you will be charged with several cases let alone fish's nagging, attention seeking, gold digging, emotional black mail, testing etc etc shitty behaviors...
I think the best way for the fisherman man these days is focus on himself maybe down the line like-minded fish comes to his net... or else MGTOW
I think we need to move away from fish analogies here...
@Levin lmao levin.
@ChiTown33 Fucking hell, yeah, it was funny. And not even an acknowledgement! I'm wasted on this site!
Damn, well now I know.
can't I just ask for nudes and call it a day?
This is probably rhetorical but Ima answer it anyway, just for fun...
Sure you can ask for nudes (at least that's better than serving them up automatically, unannounced.) How often does that work, btw?
The unfortunate part, though, is that by the sheer volume and frequency of this, it's turning off many women online, who would otherwise like to be here, and want to engage, and trust men. Which has a ripple effect, causing their skepticism and the idea that "all men want is just one thing." Which is too bad, because there's a bunch of people out there who are lonely and really do want relationships. They just get fed up and can't find each other amidst all the others.
That’s bad logic.
No it's not. It's logical. And apt.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3MpRt41tPoc
That’s called bad pathos
@ChefPapiChulo
It's not a bad logic. Imagine you are a very beautiful woman who is always asked to have a casual sex by strangers, acquaintances, co-workers, even people you think they are your Friends. What would you feel? Every where you go people just stare at your body, drooling over you all the time and can't really have an intellectual conversation with. When you are online, esp. with whom you're interested in, yet they only want to see your pics. They asked to see your tits but never ask a question about you. Would you feel you are a person?
So, if you're serious to have a meaningful relationship with a good woman, never ask for nudes. Good women wouldn't like to be a free fap material. Please keep that in mind.
@el_Te_de_la_Rosa nope. That’s a bad argument.
@ChefPapiChulo It's okay. I understand it takes time to be empathetic. At least, you read this. It's hard for a man to feel as women feel. I've been trying to be in men' s shoes too. 😉 Maybe you can ask female around you. Ones you're close to and love.
@el_Te_de_la_Rosa whoa weirdo
No she's a sweetheart. You should be thanking your lucky stars there's women out there like her, supporting men and being empathetic.
Excuse you?
Nice take.