To be honest, you have to show confidence. You dont base yourself off of what girls like, you just go for it and be yourself! Whoever has standards like that about guys, they aren't even worth you. I am serious, not just saying this so I can get a most helpful, I just want to be helpful. Girls like that disgust me, trust me. Saying they want a guy a certain hieght, you can't have standards if its meant to be. You just have to live life and let the girls come to you, that is where you find happiness :)
Maybe the girls you're interested in are superficial, or maybe there's another problem that's not height related? I mean my dad is 6'2" but I've never once wanted to be with someone extremely tall. In fact tall guys kind of scare me.
My boyfriend is hardly 5'7", so I don't think your height is the major issue.
Date short girls. You're really not that short at ALL! You're not tall but not short. I dated two guys your height and one guy was 5'8" so as long as you don't like super tall girls you're fine. Another thing is if you carry yourself slumped over and insecure it will make you seem smaller so embrace yourself as is!
Do you live amongst giraffes? I don't see how your height is an issue for the majority of girls. The problem I see is that you may be prone to making excuses as to why girls don't just fall on your lap at the snap of a finger.
Girls don't only want guys 6'0''+. Maybe tall ones do. If you insist on using tall girls as the case study for your dating futility, you must be a glutton for misery and that mindset trickles down into everything you do.
I'm the same height and I agree women only want good looking, tall guys. Some say that being 5'10 is tall really? My friend who's 6'2 is always bragging about women coming up to him. Wanna know how many women have come up to me? Zero. Just get some shoe lifts or I don't know act like a douche bag lol.
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Height isn't your problem. Unless you're in eastern Europe (where everyone is super tall). Reading some of your responses...i bet it's your attitude. You come off as a dick in half of your responses when you don't hear what you want. You realize, They're genuinely trying to help you.
Truth is plenty of 6ft+ guys can't get women and plenty of 5-8 and under have hot GF's. I seriously doubt you're pleasant to any women. Be honest, how often have you had drink tossed in your face or been slapped for being too much of a sarcastic ass?
are you kidding me with this? you really think it's your height (something you can't control btw...) Next you'll complain because your too much of a "nice guy".
I'm 5'5", though my boyfriend is just about at 5'9". I'm sure it doesn't have to do with height. Put your personality on display, don't be afraid because if you aren't afraid, a girl may just step up and love you for who you are.
Not very tall...at 5'10" lol
You know what you do? Either stop whining or do what I'd prefer: keep whining so a fellow 5'10"-er has more options. If you act like a beta who is worried about being *gasp* a normal height, then your issue isn't your height.
Now, bring on the downvotes :D
Maybe you should talk to girls who are 5'5" and under. Usually fairly short girls don't like really tall guys because it makes general tasks such as kissing difficult. Of course everyone has their personal preference though.
Um 5'10 IS tall! I'd date you. I consider 5'10 and up to be tall. If I have to stand on my toes just to kiss you, I consider you tall and I'm 5'7 lol. I date guys who are 5'6 and up. But seriously, you have to be confident and just ask them out. We like it when guys approach us and are cute. YOU ARE TALL! Whoever told you you were short is an idiot.
Most people can't tell two inches so height isn't your problem.
You can get girls you are average height. Maybe its not your height
If you're going after tall girls like 5'9-5'10 or taller they want a taller guy (usually). I'm 6 feet tall and I usually only get attention from shorter girls 5'10 girls want taller.
I wouldn't date a girl who prioritizes height. That is weird. It is also weird for guys to be uber-self-conscious about these kinds of things. Actually I don't like uber-self-conscious girls either.
Hmm out of the 10 boyfriends I have had only 2 were over 5'10". The rest were shorter. Had I only known that they were unacceptable...
Lmao. All you need to do is be a decent person and find someone who likes your appearance and your personality and admires you. Typically it is easier if with your height, you look at 5'7" and below.
Just like you would otherwise.
I'm 5'7", my boyfriend is 5'6" and it's no big deal.
I just think as long as the girl isn't "bigger" it's not hard to get used to.
u cant...manlets when will they learn. 6'2" master race reporting in.
Buy a mallet and hit them on the head and they will shrink to your size.
Either that or they'll call the cops I don't know but lemme know how it works out. Good luck
oh, shut up. plenty of guys under 6 ft have gfs. you probably aren't that desirable in many other ways if you find it that difficult.
Try being 5'6"! I was once on a dating site that was loaded with local girls. I n my profile I stated that I had a good job, house with a pool, a very nice car, and zero debt (i am good looking with a muscular/athletic body). I sent 20 to 30 messages to girls and maybe 3 answered back.
I guess after they run out of 5'10"+ guys my phone will ring off the hook.
Look up "short guy picks up chicks" he is SHORT but he uses it to his advantage with jokes and he still talks, gets their numbers and all
Lol 5'10 is tall tho.. I am 4'11 I would date you because your way taller then me. .
but it's not about height tho.. just get a girl that's 4'9 4'10 or 4'11..
Whoever said girls don't like guys who are 5'10 ? Or less than 6' ? Talk guys are nice, but it doesn't have to be over 6' for me to like a guy, or to find him attractive.. LoL :)
Maybe iys just the type of girls u r trying to approach
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