Coming from a girl who smokes pretty regularly I can understand the frustration, I try not to smoke around people who don't smoke or don't like it, it's just respect. honestly you can't make her stop. That decision has to come from her. If you feel like you're philosophically so different from her why don't you leave? My advice is next time she lights one up just walk away from her, actually do this every time you can and she'll get the message.
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My husband is exactly like you and i used to smoke when i first met him. He cant stand the smell and wouldnt kiss me after i smoked. I havnt smoked for ages. I have it up cos he told me i had too. He hated it plus it was bad for me . I guess you have to tell her that you find it disgusting and its you or the smokes. But help her and buy the gum and patch when she says shes ready to commit and give up
I feel like this is just going to end up with the relationship ending, since you cannot control whether she smokes or not
Next time just be so bold as to put out the cigarette as soon as she lights it and put it out every time.
In the end, I'm sure it will be, " hey... girl friend..., it's either me or your cigarettes, you can't have us both!"
My advice is that you're probably gonna need to break up with her. You guys just seem way too incompatible.
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If this isn't something you can accept then vreak up. She's not going to change
Tell her to switch to e cigs then
Why the fuck are u datin her when she cant even accomedate for ur lungs?
Break up if she's unwilling to comply.
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