Can I make my girlfriend stop smoking ciggeretes or let it be?

[Anonymous]

I really love my girlfriend but recently she got laid off and I probably said something I shouldn't have yesterday and she was smoking almost a pack and a half and I got mad at this and we had a bad argument. Everytime I tell her go stop she gets upset. Should I just let it be?

[pethouse]

Don’t raise your voice in a situation like that, though there are times to raise your voice when it comes to trying to help someone shouting is not the best option because it makes that person feel attacked. Instead sit down with her and calmly tell her why she matters to you and explain to her that you wish the best for her and that you don’t want to see her hurt. Tell her that you’ll help her every step of the way. Nicotine is a real bitch get off of, they say it’s harder to kick them cocaine.

[exitseven]

She is addicted and does not want to quit. You should accept the fact that she will be a smoker. It used to be a lot more popular when I was young so I never made an issue out of it

[Asker]

I notice it's not that bad but if she's stressed out, then I don't like it. She has toned or down and we spoke about it. I'm just doing it for her health

[Anonymous]

Sing "Honey don't you love me and you know it makes you sad" 🎵🎵

[Asker]

Hahaha