Basically, the assumption is that we are supposed to stay together and get old together, but I having a lot of trouble committing because she is slowly killing herself now. They just found pre-cancerous lensions in her uterus (not saying that's related to smoking) but it doesn't even give her a pause to stop smoking. Am I an asshole for thinking I should dump her for someone who will actually be around when I'm older?
Dump my girlfriend over smoking?
Basically, the assumption is that we are supposed to stay together and get old together, but I having a lot of trouble committing because she is slowly killing herself now. They just found pre-cancerous lensions in her uterus (not saying that's related to smoking) but it doesn't even give her a pause to stop smoking. Am I an asshole for thinking I should dump her for someone who will actually be around when I'm older?
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