Maybe they are busy or you aren't that important. I've been there trust me. If you have a flake there are a number of ways to deal with her.. My choice is Not too.. but there is the cold shoulder and the confronting methods.. Good luck..
With texting, I usually only text guys if they ask a question or if I want a convo. If the last text was sent by the girl, chances are, she won't text again until you text her. Nobody wants to be the one to end, and start convos over and over again.
I notice that most of the woman here have long response to the question above.This is because the majority of them here take a long time to reply to a text, when in reality most woman can't keep off the phone. So when they see a question like this, they automatically feel guilty because they DO take a long time to text and try and give a legitimate answer as to why they take a long time.It's basically to play hard to get and not seem desperate.She will take long if he does also. Juvenile
Because we have a life and I hate when guys are like that its such a turn off and and even if I'm online doesn't mean that I'm not busy and honestly I get tired of staring at a screen all day.
they just don't know how to initiate things. and honestly I get bored sometimes of that. I feel like I am the only one that want this relationship to work and then I decide to hell with it. if she wants she knows my number.
when it takes a girl a while to text back, usually its because she doesn't know what to say, especially if you guys are flirting...other than that I have no idea?
Either our nails are wet or we are driving and of course the phone could shut off and charging, misplaced, dead or buried at the bottom of our bags and purses forgotten in the car console etc. etc...
Maybe fake profiles? Or you're not catching her interest or being overtly sexual. I know guys who only compliment my looks and body or immediately talk about sex are guys I'm not responding to again
Have you tried asking follow up questions about their interests? I find it easiest to talk to guys that have real conversations rather than ' hi how are you' all the time. Or maybe she met someone else already. How long did you wait for her to respond? It sometimes takes me days to get back to people because I'm busy. Maybe you should ask what happened
I have and I do most of the time but that's just the first thing that popped into my head, I'm just tired of it. It make me just not want to even try anymore
Well you'll never get anywhere without trying maybe you should think of it as a blessing. I mean do you really want to be with someone who could so easily ignore you?
I hate the fucking waiting thing. Whoever invented that is an idiot. Texting and IMing was invented to be FAST AND IMMEDIATE. If I wanted a delay, I'd email.
I wonder the same about guys! My boyfriend takes FOREVER to text and he says because he's always busy doing something or driving places, which I know he is. But grr lol
Same problem with some guys. I respond quickly and he does not. When I don't respond quickly to him he gets upset. I think its not cool communication is the foundation of friendship.
I usually respond to people right away, it's because my phone is always in my hand. I've only had this late response problem with guys, it's really annoying, I just don't bother with texting them back if they take long to respond.
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1. she might be busy
2. she doesn't want to seem obsessive or clingy.
3.shes making you wait, so you keep thing about it, and her.
4. your phone didn't send the message.
And if they reply right away you complain "she has no life! She is so clingy!"
But seriously, I at least have things to do. Sometimes I'm at work or doing something I love. It is not like I would wait for a text every minute.
Maybe they are busy or you aren't that important. I've been there trust me. If you have a flake there are a number of ways to deal with her.. My choice is Not too.. but there is the cold shoulder and the confronting methods.. Good luck..
With texting, I usually only text guys if they ask a question or if I want a convo. If the last text was sent by the girl, chances are, she won't text again until you text her. Nobody wants to be the one to end, and start convos over and over again.
its called BEING BUSY. and its the only reason to text rather than pick up a phone and make a call.
I notice that most of the woman here have long response to the question above.This is because the majority of them here take a long time to reply to a text, when in reality most woman can't keep off the phone. So when they see a question like this, they automatically feel guilty because they DO take a long time to text and try and give a legitimate answer as to why they take a long time.It's basically to play hard to get and not seem desperate.She will take long if he does also. Juvenile
Because we have a life and I hate when guys are like that its such a turn off and and even if I'm online doesn't mean that I'm not busy and honestly I get tired of staring at a screen all day.
they just don't know how to initiate things. and honestly I get bored sometimes of that. I feel like I am the only one that want this relationship to work and then I decide to hell with it. if she wants she knows my number.
when it takes a girl a while to text back, usually its because she doesn't know what to say, especially if you guys are flirting...other than that I have no idea?
I do that bc I want to play hard to get 💀 and actually get the guy to think about me 💅
or sometimes im really busy but that would be like 3 hrs max (for me personally) or if im on a road trip or smthg
Either our nails are wet or we are driving and of course the phone could shut off and charging, misplaced, dead or buried at the bottom of our bags and purses forgotten in the car console etc. etc...
okay... in my experience the guys are always texting back late
Maybe fake profiles? Or you're not catching her interest or being overtly sexual. I know guys who only compliment my looks and body or immediately talk about sex are guys I'm not responding to again
I'm not being sexual at all for instance one reply I sent was hi how are you doing and still nothing
They sent the first messege
Have you tried asking follow up questions about their interests? I find it easiest to talk to guys that have real conversations rather than ' hi how are you' all the time. Or maybe she met someone else already. How long did you wait for her to respond? It sometimes takes me days to get back to people because I'm busy. Maybe you should ask what happened
I have and I do most of the time but that's just the first thing that popped into my head, I'm just tired of it. It make me just not want to even try anymore
Well you'll never get anywhere without trying maybe you should think of it as a blessing. I mean do you really want to be with someone who could so easily ignore you?
I hate the fucking waiting thing. Whoever invented that is an idiot. Texting and IMing was invented to be FAST AND IMMEDIATE. If I wanted a delay, I'd email.
I wonder the same about guys! My boyfriend takes FOREVER to text and he says because he's always busy doing something or driving places, which I know he is. But grr lol
Same problem with some guys. I respond quickly and he does not. When I don't respond quickly to him he gets upset. I think its not cool communication is the foundation of friendship.
for me it really depends on who I'm talking to.
but generally I just don't like texting all that much
and you can't generalize all girls into that category
because guy'll do that too
Because texting isn't always more important than living one's life in the moment. Women are no better or worse then men at returning texts.
I usually respond to people right away, it's because my phone is always in my hand. I've only had this late response problem with guys, it's really annoying, I just don't bother with texting them back if they take long to respond.
That's funny cause its usually the other way around lol Prehaps she is busy maybe..
I mostly text back straight away. It's rare it would take me 5 hrs to text back, unless I was really busy at work or asleep