Dude, I was like King of the Nerds at my HS, and I didn't have sex until 23!! It's YOUR BUSINESS!! Don't let anyone tell you that you are doing something wrong, OK?
Be patient, and find a girl that you really care about. The 'Third Date is Sex' rule is BS!! Just find someone you like, get a coffee, or Coke; be yourself; be 'quirky', if she likes that!!
It will work itself out. If you try to 'FORCE' it, you will seem desperate, and women can smell Male Desperation like dogs smell fear!!!
One thing that you can do, in the meantime, is get used to your feelings, sexually, so you don't just pop off when she takes off her dress!! That's a REAL DOWNER for women.
Yeah, I'm saying you should play with it, and learn how you feel, and when you are close, so you can give her what she wants, and not just pop the cork!!
Get some stuff you really like, and 'practice' taking your time!! She will adore you for not being an 8 second Cowboy!!
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Nope; my bf lost his virginity with me - he was 23. I wondered why he was a virgin at that age but he just said he never had a gf and didn't want to lose it to a one night stand or something like that. He had only kissed two girls in his life as well and that was when drunk. I didn't find it boring; it was actually really fun teaching him things and seeing how much better he's done 8 months later.
No. Dude, I met this guy who was like 21 and he was probably the most excited (not in a sexual way) and happy person ever. He wanted to do everything and go everywhere. I never would've thought he was a virgin or never been kissed or had a date. It caught me off guard big time. So no. It's just a thing. It'll happen one day :)
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Noo not at all. As far as I know, women don't like manwhores as much as men don't like sluts. A girl isn't impressed about how many girls you've had, they're more impressed when you wait for the right person and don't rush into things.
nope it's actually quite very sexy
Nope. It's exciting.
To most non-virgin women it is sadly
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