Is being a virgin just so boring that no one would be interested in such a person?

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So I never thought about it this way until very recently. I'm a 25 year old woman and I'm "STILL" a virgin. It's not that I was never asked out by anyone. It's just that I've stayed a virgin due to my choice. I always thought that my husband should be the one whom I sleep with. But as of now, I feel weird about it because most people I know aren't virgins and they make it so weird when I say I'm a virgin. They say like "you're still a virgin", as if it's some kind of an undesirable thing. I'm actually feeling anxious whether staying virgin is gonna create a problem for me in the future. One of my friends said I should find a virgin male and shouldn't waste my virginity on random guys. But I feel finding a virgin male is incredibly difficult. Most people are very experienced and most probably prefer experienced people. If I wanna find someone like me, is there any suggestion where I should look into like some groups or like anything? I feel at least by 30 I need to settle down and start having children and I'm like 5 years away from that.

I've been to nightclubs infact I have been very active in the nightclub scene for about 2 to 3 years but I never got into a hookup or one night stand. There were many opportunies for me if I actually wanted to lose my virginity but I'm quite strong about my decision so I never did that. But these days I've been thinking if my decision was wrong.

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

I made the same decision and have been in a similar situation but in my culture virgins are heavily preferred for marriage. I didn’t want to lose my virginity to a random guy or a “lover” in college and then be dumped. I realised I was too emotional for that. I made the right choice. Maybe in your culture it seems futile because most guys passionately hate older virgins and make us feel like no one wanted us so we’re virgins. Maybe they haven’t lived the life of an attractive young woman. They don’t know that we reject guys EVERY DAY. I am on several dating apps and very selective about the guys I swipe right. Why shouldn’t I be? So these bitter men need to know that it’s an achievement if a woman has stayed a virgin. I certainly value myself enough to never lose my virginity to a guy who wouldn’t marry me. I like to say “No diamond, no hymen” to those men who dream of young virgins after sleeping around because they’re often heard saying the opposite. So even though I’m physically attracted to Western guys, I prefer Indian men from India as they’re willing to marry me without using me for sex. I’m not saying all Indian men are like that but if you find through matrimonial websites or are suggested matches by your friends and family, they wouldn’t dare to ask for premarital sex. You can try religious guys in your culture as perhaps they’re the only ones who are serious about marriage and don’t sleep around.
I think it’s much better to be in a position to REJECT promiscuous players who think they can just sleep around and then marry a virgin than be the “slut” they reject. So these men may pretend to be weirded out by older virgins because they want to use someone for sex but when they’re older they suddenly want a young virgin wife.
I recently rejected a guy who was so proud of his physical appearance and wanted to meet me because he wasn’t serious. When my dad talked to him he said he didn’t want to marry soon. So I have avoided many such toxic guys who just wanted to use me. I am so glad I did it and you should be too. I’d suggest you to avoid looking for guys in nightclubs because they’re not looking for anything serious. Don’t sacrifice your dreams and body for any player’s pleasure. It may be harder in the West to find a guy to marry without premarital sex but it’s not impossible. Never change your decision to wait for your husband. I have been virgin-shamed too but now I understand that it was because the guys just wanted to have sex. They can’t have their cake and eat it too. Don’t let them.
Remember the same guys who insult a virgin want a virgin wife and slut-shame others. I am surprised when I see promiscuous western men wanting virgin wives. What do they bring to the table? A body count they can’t remember? Please don’t make the mistake of choosing such a guy. Find someone with a lower body count and who has at least had long-term relationships. REJECT all those who have had casual sex. They want us to believe that men don’t lose the ability to bond when they sleep around and only women do. This is a lie! Look at the divorce rate in India. It’s just 1% and compare that to the 50% rate in the USA and the UK or even higher in other developed countries.
Most Indians marry as virgins or marry their first love. This plays a big role in saving the marriages. A man who thinks he’s not emotionally attached to every woman he sleeps with is likely to cheat. People say a virgin “might get curious” but they haven’t lived the lives of older virgins. If we were that IMPULSIVE about sex we wouldn’t be virgins. So we might get curious but we have mastered self-control and don’t give in to our urges. Find a handsome virgin guy who is willing to marry you without sex. All the best!

VIVANT · Accepted Answer

I don’t personally think there’s anything wrong with having sex just because you feel like having it l, whether it’s inside or outside of a relationship, but I think it’s definitely wrong to have sex when you don’t want to and to have sex for any other reason then that you want to.

You have obviously made it very clear to yourself, your reasons for not having had sex yet and those reasons shouldn’t change because of your age. Those reasons are important to you and do NOT become LESS important to you just bc other people say stupid things.

In fact, it’s a testament to a really strong character to be able to withstand other peoples idiocy, in the face of your own personal convictions.

PLEASE DO NOT have sex with some random guy because you wanna make sure you get it over with for when the relationship is really important with someone else… The damage done to you, psychologically, knowing that you just wasted something important to you because of what someone else might think, is going to be much worse than anything that would happen because you did what you believe in and waited.

And of course the RIGHT guy will appreciate that you cared.

You wanted to wait, so wait. 25 is very young in the big grand scheme of things. If at some point, you decide sex or something you actually want, that’s fine too, but don’t do it just because someone else heard someone else say something that someone else said that you think is how everybody thinks and that means that you should do something you don’t wanna do…please don’t do that. Don’t ever do that.

It’s so Depressing just thinking about you doing that.

you’re a whole entire person with 100,000 other things to offer besides sex and since sex is something that you want to share with a special person, you should leave it to share it with a special person. Go be the whole entire person that you are with all the people that you meet up until THAT person…and then you can have sex.

BEST OF LUCK. 🍀

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Okay so first of all there's all these billions of people in this world and each one of these people went and had sex when they wanted to or are they waited until they got married

You know why because it's their choice and it's a beautiful choice it makes you who you are

You are 10 times 100 times better person than I am because I was 16 and a half and I needed to find out what it was all about when I lost my virginity look how long you have lasted how strong you've been that's how much willpower that's who you are on the inside and that is beautiful there's something so beautiful about that you have other girls on here that look up to you because you have held off this long there's nothing wrong with being a virgin at all I think it's a beautiful thing I think it's takes a very strong independent woman to remain a virgin for as long as you have so don't look at it as a negative this is who you are this is what you want so stick with it be strong

Now I can tell you the other side of it but I'm not going to because I like your side of it better because I like people that have willpower have the wisdom and the strength within
And they're not afraid to be themselves because in the long run just because everybody's says something to you or somebody says something to you who even cares because guess what who knows if they're going to be around tomorrow or month from now or even a half a year from now so it doesn't matter what anybody says to you it only matters what you think and what you say

And when you're thinking as a future and what people might say well guess what you don't know what they're going to say because the future is not here so don't worry about that wait till the future gets here and deal with it then and the best way to deal with it then it's none of their business

It's funny in our lives we always think this or we always think that but the time isn't arrived yet for even to be thinking about something like that so wait until that moment gets here it will all be different completely different than what you think

But when I'm totally amazed of is why nobody has asked you out that's just downright crazy
If you were my friend or I live by you I would have asked you out. Just by the way you use your words but anyway

You be who you want to be

because when we were born we were all given a gift

that gift is choice

We get to choose who we want to be in life by the things that we say and do

And I personally like your choice because I personally can look up to you and say you are strong you are good you have your s*** together and I like a person like that

I am a very very strong independent person but I will tell you what you are 100 times better than me and I have to look at that and say wow because I'm good but you are great

RingOfFire · Accepted Answer

I wish you had the perspective of an older person.

I think you would feel comforted if you knew how common the feelings you have are.

You're at an age that is particularly difficult for women since their fertility is limited at a much earlier age than men. So you have to make lots of decisions about sex, about having children, about whether or not to remain a virgin, etc.

I think most or all women go through this phase particularly in their twenties and thirties.

The only thing I have to offer is that I think it's a mistake to allow yourself to be pressured into losing your virginity by other people. This is a personal choice and it sounds like your decision to wait until you are in a meaningful relationship is a noble one that you can be proud of. It doesn't matter what other people do, what matters is what will make you feel good about yourself.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the choice you are making. And I think you should be wary about going out and meeting some random person just for the purpose of "losing your virginity" so you won't have to explain it to anybody when they put pressure on you.

I don't think that's a good way to handle it.

Sooner or later the right person will come along and although I understand your stress that comes from the time frame of needing to start a family, I think it is better to wait than to rush into something that will fail.

Clubs are often not a good place to meet people. Consider expanding your social circle by joining organizations, maybe even volunteering at some or going to events with like-minded people.

I understand your stress but you have to have some faith in your own judgment and not be pressured into making a decision you will later regret.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Hey there! I'm here to help unravel those relationship mysteries, so let's dive in. Choosing to stay a virgin is entirely your decision, and there's nothing boring or undesirable about it. Not everyone looks for an experienced partner—some people truly value the unique connection that comes with shared first experiences. If you're sticking to your values, that's admirable!

Finding someone on the same page might be a challenge, but not impossible. Consider looking into interest groups, forums, or communities that align with your values. Love's timeline isn't set in stone, so don't rush yourself based on age alone. Just remember, that confidence is your best asset! Stay true to yourself and the right person will appreciate you for who you really are. 💫

Finchie40 · Answer

A lot of guys’ would be interested in you considering you’are a virgin , but to wait until marriage to have sex is kind of pushing it especially these days , so just find yourself a guy that values you and respects you the same way you do for him , a guy that wants to get married and have kids eventually, a guy that makes you his top priority that chooses you the same way you choose him , Just be upfront an honest about what you are looking for and what you want out of a relationship, you don’t have to have sex with him right away , just find a guy that wants you the way you want him , for any relationship to work it takes 2 choosing each other

MrOracle · Answer

Most men don't see a woman's virginity as a negative (a few do, but such men are mostly just looking for casual sex and see a virgin as less likely or more difficult to get casual sex from). They might be surprised that an attractive woman is still a virgin in her 20s, but that's just because they know you'll have had lots of opportunities and they're surprised that you haven't given in already. That's not the same thing as being unattractive or boring - that's just not how men think.

However, if you think you're going to find a serious boyfriend, much less a husband, in the club scene, you are delusional. The kind of men who enjoy the club scene are the kind who are out to bang as many women as they can - they aren't "relationship men." Trying to find a relationship man in that environment is like shopping for fashionable clothes for yourself in the men's "big and tall" section - you have zero hope of success because you're in the completely wrong place. You won't find them on dating apps either, because "dating apps" aren't dating apps, they're "casual sex" apps.

To find a "relationship man", you're either going to chance upon them out in the world (the grocery store, the movie theater, a restaurant, a gas station, etc.) or you're going to meet them through your friends. In fact, going to parties/events put on by your friends, and meeting their other friends, is the best way to grow your own friends circles and meet potential partners. Those people will already be partially vetted by your friends, and they can warn you away from anyone who is a known problem.

You'll also have to be more active about showing interest. I don't mean you need to plop down in guys' laps and kiss them, but you have to take SOME initiative, because so many women have been screaming at men to "leave them alone" for so long that most men are doing just that: leaving women alone. As such, they're not going to take any initiative until you show some signs of interest first. You'll need to metaphorically "drop your hanky" so that the guy has an excuse to talk to you.

If you are serious about a relationship, you must avoid "casual sex men" - the guys who have zero intention of committing to a relationship. That's going to include nearly all of the most attractive men - those guys are used to having as many women as they want and they aren't going to change for you. You need to stick to men who are ALREADY looking for a serious relationship and not just a casual encounter.

Mwolf · Answer

A lot of guys act like they got tons of XP, but actually are trying to fit in and are virgins still. I was a bit nervous too as society labels being a virgin past a certain age is "bad" or something to be ashamed of. Don't be, it's a personal choice and no one else's business, but yours. If they harass you, they are probably doing so because they are insecure about their virginity, so feel free to give them a knuckle sandwich🥪 to the balls or tell them to fuck 🖕🏻off. I found out my boyfriend is also a virgin, turns out I was fretting over nothing. (Though due to medical conditions we haven't been successful yet with PIV.) Please don't rush it though as once it is done, it is done and you might regret it if you're doing so just to rip the bandaid off and "get it over with" to lose your v-card. Go out with your friends who might bring their boyfriend to places and parties, friend of friend is often how people meet!😉 I am introverted so would rather be @ home watching a slasher movie or true crime documentaries so I don't go out partying, but I was lucky enough I had other ordeals in my life that "the Lord works in mysterious ways"😉 and work transferred and then was pursued by another worker... (well actually a manager), & he then wanted a relationship. Best of luck. Stay true to yourself, don't change for no one, confidence is key🗝️!

BCRanger10 · Answer

For what my opinion is worth, as someone who waited until marriage for sex, and did so freely and consciously (my wife did as well; we are both faithful and observant Catholics), the answer is NO.

For one thing, it's a matter of framing. If you're looking at yourself or allow said "experienced people" to see you as "still" or "just" a virgin, then you're playing their game by their rules. If you have chosen to wait until you're married, then whatever cultural deadlines to have sex - which are the brainchildren of those who themselves have the brains of children - are irrelevant to the conversation. Another question worth asking is whether sex is a race, a competition, or a prize of some sort or whether it truly is a deep and intimate offering and exchange of love. There are still many today who try to look at sex both ways. You just can't. Those ideas are mutually exclusive.

As for what you should do? I'd say take a good hard look at why you want your husband to be your first and only sexual partner (yes, I understand that, despite what I said above, that such doesn't necessarily imply or mean that it will be after you get married; if not, I will recommend however that you do). I also can't stress enough that you should more happily embrace this choice. I understand the frustration and anxiety that comes with it, but you have to be at peace. Otherwise, you risk making compromises or building up the idea of sex to be something greater than what it is. Worse even, it won't change how you feel about yourself (for the better, at least).

Regarding virgin men? I think there are more of them in your generation than you might think (though there are many reasons for it). They are out there though. Or those who've wished that they'd made different choices.

That's a lot, I know. Sorry for the novel there.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

You know what's more difficult than a virgin man, a woman that cares about a man's virginity, you have to stop comparing yourself to other people and other people's lives, you've got your own life and as society gets worse and normalizes perversion, your virginity will become more rare, you can give up your virginity to a random person like most people have and chase the same people others do or you can make your own choices and make decisions on your own, I can guarantee that if you are a great catch to a man, your virginity might be more valuable to him than your experience, experience isn't a requirement for relationships and even less marriage, those are self made preferences and changing your whole lifestyle cause some have these preferences is a dumb move, I made a post on here asking how many people think of their first time taken or not and half of the people (mostly men) still think of their first time even in their current relationship which I believe really shows how important your first time is, nothing healthier than two married people giving each other their virginity, what's important really all depends on what path you choose to follow, if having 20 bodies at age 30 is important to them then that's them, what's important to you, only you know, don't let other people's opinions get kn the way of that cause this world only loves to corrupt.

Kelley1 · Answer

Virginity is valuable for ages 21 and under. Virginity is still good at age 25. However, after age 25, virgins would be suspected (what is her problem?) and there is nothing attractive about a 30-year-old virgin.

Because many young men prefer virgins and since very few young men would reject a virgin, Young virgins have a higher sexual market value than non-virgins. At your age, if you want to develop a relationship, most likely, you will need to give up your virginity to convince the guy that you don't have some sexual hangup.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

If you think waiting for the person you love is best for you, then I would never say it's the wrong choice. I'm the same age as you & still a virgin & practice abstinence. I would rather lose my virginity to someone I love & feel is special rather than only get to have it once and have someone just leave me. Plus, the best sex is with someone who you've been with for a long time and know their body (and they know yours). If people think you're boring for being a virgin, then just move on. They're not worth your time.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

You don't have to wait for marriage just wait for a guy who proves his worth, loyalty and willingness to marry you. Make sure he is willing to answer your call at 4am even if he has work in the morning, would pick you up if you were stuck from anywhere, would transfer you money if you ever needed even after a fight.. if a guy is willing to do those things for you pretty easily he most likely loves you a lot. Or go look at church or religious dating sites because now days people aren't waiting for marriage unless it is ingrained in their soul that it is a sin not to.

RavVid · Answer

I don't think you will find it rewarding to just have sex with any guy so you can say you are not a virgin.

What I would more question is being 25 and not yet having a relationship where it was appropriate to have sex. It could be that you simply have not met a guy you have felt for or maybe you are to choosy and brush men off.

I think focus your mind on this first. It does take time to build a suitable relationship for marriage and children. Your virginity is less of a problem but you do need to expect a man to want to verify the sex side is good before he signs a wedding licence.

In other words focus on a relationship and your virginity will resolve itself.

lightbulb27 · Answer

I was a virgin much older than you and I know other guys your age same. If you hang around a crowd of such, what do you expect? I recall going dancing with girls whom were virgins, and others not.

Stop talking about it, go to some new crowds better align to your values. If someone asks, tell them how wonderful sex sounds, after you are married.

If you go to a cake shop and you are looking at a cake and the owner says... "NO!!!, you can't have that until...". It's so negative. He should say "YES... cake is sooo good! And is reserved for best customer!".

Sounds better right?

It's putting lots of energy into the wrong thing... put energy into learning dating skills, communication, relational, understanding guys and how to manage them and how to manage yourself and build relationship.

then you can work on parenting skills...

BadApple69 · Answer

Keeping your virginity isn’t a bad thing if that’s what you want. We all make our own decisions, don’t let anyone push you in to doing something you don’t want to do.
Now for my advise:
If you chose to have sex DON’T go find a virgin guy to do it with. Their eagerness and excitement will probably just cause you unnecessary pain, plus he will probably cum in 10 seconds.
I believe you want someone who is experienced and tell him you are a virgin so he takes it slow and easy.
Many many years ago I took a young ladies virginity, when done her comment to me was “I can’t believe I waited to do that” after experiencing sex she regretted not enjoying it sooner in her life.
Just be smart with whom you pick…. And good luck!

Miristheiss · Answer

When it comes to long term relationships or marriage, I'd prefer a virgin. The sexual revolution preaching that everyone should just F around and that instead of marrying at 18-20 and only be with their spouses everyone should marry at 27-30, screw around all their lives and then their spouse is 10th or 20th lover is a lie and a way to fuck up long term relationships and having kids.

Plus feminists spout this shit that it is empowering to get ran through and you need to F around to figure out "what you like" is madness.

Men and women are different too. Most women don't get this. They usually don't care about a guys body count. Women screen by different means, how tall, how much income, how confident, how competent. Him having experience makes him more attractive to her. Men care more about other things... at least for a wife.

Grond21 · Answer

You are becoming a hot commodity, and people who have not saved themselves will attack you. But but as more and more people get washed up through the Hook-Up culture the virgins will be the rare treasure only a few men are lucky enough to find. I am also a virgin, and I would not marry someone who wasn't a virgin as well. The numbers of people who think like us are growing rapidly. Don't give in to fear and feeling like perhaps you are not worthy of love. It is a lie meant to tear you down, not build you up. Trust in the process, and keep going

Med_guy1978 · Answer

Don't worry about what other people think, this is your choice and it should be respected and I personally respect that. You seem like you've probably idolised life, love and marriage but it doesn't always go to plan. You're definitely looking in the wrong place (nightclubs) not to say you possibly wouldn't meet this special man there but the odds are against you.
I wouldn't solely look for a male who is a virgin so don't cancel out a good opportunity with let's say a man who has had a girlfriend. Be cautious of pillow talkers too. Good luck 🍀

Anonymous · Answer

Being a virgin is a desirable thing for an unmarried girl. Why else would men dream about such women, and them be even offered as top rated rewards?

There is literately thousands of years of human literally to the effect of the desirability of such women for marriage.

The people telling you otherwise are either just trying to make themselfs feel better or they are just trying to talk their way into your pants. Their position tells you a lot about them given how self-serving and absurd it is.

DextroShade · Answer

You are going to have to pick a lane.

Women who are traditional are virgins on their wedding day and get married young after a short courtship period.

Or you could be a modern woman and not wait until your wedding day and either have sex with your boyfriend or random Chads.

You are trying to have it both ways: you want to go out to the club but still be a virgin for your husband so really just wasting your time because you won't find marriage-minded men at the club. Not only are wasting your time, you are wasting the men's. At 25, your time to choose the traditional route is almost up as men will increasingly start to think that you are lying about being virgin or that there is something seriously wrong with you. You had best make your choice before life makes it for you.

chilldude33 · Answer

Honestly the fact of being a virgin or not is a non factor here. All that matters is how enticing you are as a person.

Nobody is going to clap and pat you on the back for "saving yourself" just for the right moment, just for the right person, and for having upstanding morals.

Cause when the time comes, what is it going to look like? You will akwardly lay there not knowing what to do?

Cause if you were a fiery person, you wouldn't wait for the right time. The time is now. You are feeling the fire, the passion.

So, in conclusion, being a virgin doesn't make you boring. Being boring makes you a virgin.

Anonymous · Answer

Having read what you wrote, I'm not sure that even YOU are at all clear about what YOU actually want. For instance:

You seem to not want to have sex before marriage. That part seems pretty clear.

It's not at ALL clear that YOU have a deep need that your PARTNER/future husband is ALSO a virgin. You mention that your FRIEND said you should find a virgin guy. But what do YOU actually want?

You also seem to suggest that you want to get married and have kids. Very well, if that's what you're looking for then get on it. You're 25. PLENTY of girls are married by then--ESPECIALLY the ones who want to stay virgins until marriage. So what's the hold up? If your attractive you should have plenty of options. But if you have no idea what you're looking for THAT is going to be a problem for you.

RossyBoi · Answer

Well I'm a 25 year old virgin man. And I know lots of other adult virgins too, both men and women.

I understand and respect your decision to lose your virginity to a virgin male. It makes perfect sense to have that experience with someone who is also a virgin. The problem is that I and most virgins I know want to stay virgins forever and have no interest in losing it to anyone.

I am however interested in making new friends so pop me a message if you ever need someone to talk to about it 😊

NathanDavis · Answer

my ex was a virgin... and she was FAR FAR AWAY from boring, in fact she was all kinds of amazing, and interesting in few different ways

so not only I was interested in her, I was in love with her, and that was mutual, of course... or we wouldn't have ended up as a couple

boggboss · Answer

I dont see why it would be a issue as long as u are not making it your identity or the sticking point of it as for finding a guy thats a virgin it's not impossible but most guys that are are not what most women would call attractive so the issue becomes finding one u like thats also able to live upto what u expect from a guy

Account · Answer

No. You are focusing too much on something that is irrelevant to your character. Being a virgin doesn't make anyone boring. It solely means that you haven't been intimate with anyone because you didn't feel like it or for whatever other reason. It doesn't matter and I mean that, I am not saying it to be politically correct or some shit like that.
Don't put pressure on yourself to change that if you don't meet the person with whom you would be comfortable enough to be intimate with.

Rachey1986 · Answer

Just don't make a big thing out of it. Either you being a virgin or the man. Just focus on fiding the right person and when thie time comes the sex will come naturally. They will be willing to wait for you. You just be you and well done for sticking to your principals!!

Berethor · Answer

Woman's virginity tend to be valued, while man's don't, finding fellow virgin is not a bad idea.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I'm also still a virgin, and am only willing to be with another virgin who shares my hobbies, views, and interests.

Your friend is wise.
Sex has consequences. The reason its a good idea to save yourself for marriage is to avoid ending up an STD ridden single mom with attachment issues that no one but the equivalent wants.

Anonymous · Answer

caving into peer pressure rather than abiding by your principles will be your undoing

virgin men aren't rare. they tend to be hidden and people tend to lie about their body count. men overestimating theirs and women downplaying theirs.

being a virgin won't cause problems for you in the future, only allow you to weed out the fuckboys and horndogs

church would be a good place to start for those who don't believe in premarital sex0

jshm2 · Answer

No. It means you're honest and loyal. Hence only dishonest and disloyal people have a problem with it.  You just need to keep on doing your thing.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

there is no need to tell other people about your personal choices... if only the opinion of other people makes you uncomfortable about your choices then simply don't share with them...

Shamalien · Answer

Be proud that you have maintained your dignity. It’s true that virgin men are hard to find (at least desirable ones) in their late 20s and 30s, but men with similar values and low body counts do exist.

Whatever you do, don’t let other people convince you you’ve made a bad choice. They are simply at a lower level of consciousness in regards to the importance of sexual purity and saving sex for your true companion

Moonlight79 · Answer

Well girl it is great actually
You know, I think when a guy finds out he is the first person who slept with you, he fell like having you all to himself
Even in some countries (Islamic) it is the most important thing for a girl to be virgin and if they are not, it is a shame
However, you may want to look for some Asian guy or no, just find someone you love
Enjoy your life the way you wish

ABC29 · Answer

If you really want a virgin man, then go for it. Experiencing things together for the first time is nice. When I met my girlfriend I was a virgin and she already had a boyfriend before that. Being a virgin is not a bad thing and there are men who are virgins. But most people will never admit this because they have learned that it turns women off. Most of them anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

No. I'm confused why this would even come up. Like you said people make it weird when you say you're a virgin. Well why are you telling them? How is that their business unless you're about to sleep with them? This world is far too oversexed and people are far too nosy about what's happening in someone else's bed.

Actually I can't think of anything more boring then a person having so little interesting about them that they need to talk about sex.

SuchSightsToShowYou · Answer

Your future husband will probably LOVE that you're a virgin. Being a virgin doesn't make you less desirable. Quite the opposite. Stop worrying.

Billlewis · Answer

Being an adult male virgin gets you ridiculed, while being an adult female virgin gets the wrong people interested in you.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I don't find them (female virgins) boring. I'd LOVE to have a virgin just ONCE in my life! All three of my ex's either were pregnant at one point and/or had several boyfriend's before me.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Never trust anyone who gives you grief for being a virgin. If it's other girls saying that to you, it's because they're jealous. And if it's guys saying that to you, it's because they're trying to manipulate you.

Crankor · Answer

That really has nothing to do with how interesting or boring someone is. If you really want to be nitty gritty about it, there ups and downs to everything but the severity is nothing to have any major influence for most people

SolitarySolace · Answer

Let's hope so because I plan to remain a virgin until the day I meet God in heaven. All the women who come to realize this in my experience end up cheating. They can't go without being a sex doll

DrPepper12 · Answer

Only you can decide what's best to continue doing for yourself. It is unusual and if you are seeking a another virgin it's going to be very difficult to find. Tbh most people do prefer experience.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

DYou are on the right track, don't lose your virginity, save yourself for your wife, this is a very special thing.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

your virginity doesn't have an expiry date and shows your own insecurity. only morons would care about it

Squatting_Slav · Answer

No one has to know, it is your business and your morals. Find a good guy who genuinely respects and loves you it will make it even more special in the short and long term

morganherrel · Answer

For me personally, I don't care if you've ever had sex in your life or ever want to have sex in the future. Just be a good person who shares my values (:

LiamJHayden · Answer

Do what works for you. Just think how it will affect you if you decide "Why not?" and shortly thereafter meet the right guy and cannot share it with him.

MicahRaine · Answer

Being a virgin is whatever. Neither good nor bad. Doesn't matter how old you are.

Nikki1989 · Answer

There is no boring, just boring people.

WhitneySnow · Answer

You’re not wrong. Wait for the right person before losing your virginity.

ilovetofu · Answer

I am 22 and still a virgin it is okay one day you will find the person

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Being age 25 and still a virgin is not a problem.

Anonymous · Answer

You'd better be an interesting person in some way other than whether you're a virgin or not, or you're going to have a pretty sorry life.

MoonFace2 · Answer

I don’t think so. The guy should like you for you, not your experience level.

Christian_Cartier · Answer

I think you should do what you think will make you feel proud of yourself and ignore the advice of others, especially other women.

Anonymous · Answer

Most relationship guys dream about a girl who saved herself for only him 🥰  You are good, the rest of the world is messed up.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Not at all. You’re quite valuable to the right guy. My question is, do you actually date though?

Tomisworthless · Answer

Im a virgin at 30 because im too unattractive to women, they have no basic level of respect for me so even touching her hand seems impossible

In_Trance · Answer

I'm not exactly sure what you're asking here. Sure some people are interested in virgins just like others aren't

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I'd be interested in a virgin were she hot and interesting.

woahhh152 · Answer

I don't think it's boring. Personally I wouldn't mind dating a virgin

kaucky1 · Answer

Tease yourself if got bulge down there tap on it do this when nobody around ...

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

Lol virginity has nothing to do with how interesting someone is

Is being a virgin just so boring that no one would be interested in such a person?

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Being age 25 and still a virgin is not a problem.

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