We have been "friends" for 5 years now but nothing has ever physically happened between us. We went to graduate school together and now live in different cities. When either of us passes through the other's city, we meet up for drink.
A few months ago, he moved to a new city and invited me to come out for an event going on his city. We are friends but not really good friends... I don't know THAT much about him
I bought my ticket for the weekend to see him. He also invited me to stay at his place on his couch.
Guys: does he want more than friendship? Why invite me to his city? I don't know what to expect/think! Please help
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This could go any number of ways. Maybe he is only interested in you as a friend. Maybe you'll only get the couch, maybe when the time actually comes he'll say actually, you take the bed, I'll take the couch.
If you're interested in something more, you could very very carefully see about getting an invitation to the bed. Play this really carefully when you see how he responds as to weather you sleep on top of the covers with a separate blanket or whatever. Once the lights are off and you're both resting and not talking (or if the talking becomes more subdued or personal) you could try rolling over and putting an arm across him, and see how he reacts. If I was the guy and a girl I liked did that, I'd probably pull her in closer, and turn my head towards her to check if she wanted to start kissing. If you don't get a good response to that, just back off for a while and see if you have an opportunity again. (I like snuggling in bed so it was fun writing that)0