Last summer I asked my female friend, why don't I have a girlfriend? Is it my personality or is it my looks? She said I look fine, your personality probably sucks (jokingly). Work on your personality. I've been working on being social, and I'm good at it now, but last week I got rejected by this girl I was crazy for, and she started dating a guy who looks better than I do. How much do looks matter?
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Looks matter when it comes to getting our attention but you'd be amazed what confidence can do. Even if a guy isn't what I would necessarily consider physically attractive, his confidence and the way he carries himself can make me attracted to him. I find that guys who stand tall and aren't afraid to speak up do well in dating whether they're physically attractive or not. So I'd day personality definitely matters because even if your looks don't attract a woman, your whole persona definitely can. So when you approach a girl try to exhume as much confidence as possible without coming off as cocky (even though I know it can be terrifying when you really like her). I know that would work on me. Even if you don't consider yourself what girls would consider "hot", approach them with the confidence of someone who knows how hot he is.1