Does physical appearance really matter to girls?

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What do girls see first hand when they see a guy what they want to date or are going on first blind date (appearance wise) i heard from my fellow mates that girls like chiseled body. so i grew an interest in physical fitness. bt later as i grew i could see there are other factors too. so with hard luck i am still unable to be with any girl. so as a man wanting to figure out what a girl wants can any girl tell me what you guys want.

kolaeola · Accepted Answer

Yes but when I fall in love it doesn't matter that much. I don't like everything in my man but it's not a turn-down. After all there are some things that I love in his appearance and I love HIM not his body which will be changing in 10, 20, 50 years... It's a bit a matter of maturity, of course within borders of normality. But when someone is repellent, stinks, is sick or deformed in some way, I guess it can be harder. I wouldn't want to be with a man who is shorter than me, but I guess that if I found my soulmate under 1,7 I would love him as much.

natured · Accepted Answer

Every girl wants different things, because luckily, we're all different, we all have different taste in men, my test in men is manly hairy and just having a charm that won't make me resist...
So, in this case you just have to wait until the right woman crosses your way in the right moment, and you will be the RIGHT one for her and vice versa...
Just trust natures flow in this, be patient, and don't expect too much, enjoy time and don't put this as your priority, let things happen without planing them.
:)

RJGraveyTrain · Answer

Yes. The same way it matters to guys. Girls can be lenient when it comes to looks but most won't date a guy we aren't at least somewhat attracted to. For me I won't date a guy that I'm not completely attracted to period.

Account · Answer

I need the name of the guy's picture you posted in this question... Not for me, but for a friend ! I

HitGirl_4680 · Answer

What one girl wants another may not. You can't please everyone.

My last ex had an amazing body but it's not what made me like him. The next guy I liked didn't have a great body at all but I was still very attracted to him for other reasons.

If you lined up the guys I've dated they all look completely different to each other

I also think it's true that people have ideas of what they find physically attractive but what they end up dating is so far from it.

It's honestly not all about looks!!

Yogani · Answer

In my opinion it only makes me feel interested in getting to know someone. But most of the time I end up disappointed when I get to know them. There are also other guys (not so attractive) whom I really liked after getting to know them. When you like someone you can't see them ugly. They're attractive to you.

Mermaid36 · Answer

It matters a bit, at least at first, but everyone finds different things attractive. Also, for me at least, someone's personality can make them considerably more (or less) attractive to me! Answer mine please :)

Stevie_I_Wonder · Answer

Every girl is different some like chiseled bodies others like myself prefer the slim dad body it just her preference which goes for every other factor like personality and his moral

rgb008 · Answer

Just like how looks matter to guys, we also care.  Just because you all claim to be the "more visual" of the sexes doesn't make us blind lmao

Ellie_Darling · Answer

Yes it does but not as much as guys like to base their attraction on girls based on their looks. To me if a guy a too handsome, don't get me wrong I really want him, but it also worries me because he could get any girl he wants, most girls would agree with me on this. Thus I prefer guys with average looks tbh, your personality will have to win me over, make me laugh and smile, make me feel safe, teach me things, have deep convos with me, etc... if a guy can do that I'm all his

Chanel1981 · Answer

Everyone has their own preference but I don't think it's a deal breaker

dogsdogsdogsdogs · Answer

of course appearance matters a bit, it's the first thing you notice about a person. Personally, however, I'm much more likely to go for someone average looking but funny and kind than someone who looks like a greek god but acts like a dick

midorfeed · Answer

yes. i have to be physically attracted to you first to be emotionally attraced to you

samhradh_leannan · Answer

I have to feel sexually attracted to someone in order to date them, but physical appearance is not the only thing that contributes to sexual attraction for me.

Nyx_85 · Answer

It all depends. We don't like the same thing. I've found guys attractive that many might not find that appealing and I've also not seen the fuss over certain guys.

Whynottryit · Answer

It depends. I know good looking guys I would never date because the don't have a personality I like.

econometrics · Answer

its not matter for me, the important thing is he can make me comfort

fueledbythc · Answer

I think looks gets them somewhat interested and personality seals the deal.

Anonymous · Answer

We have no idea what we want! We're all individuals with different tastes.

Anonymous · Answer

I like tall guys with nice smiles and a good laugh and nice big hands, I ALWAYS notice the hands.

wisdom_sharer · Answer

Demeanor is the very first thing. For me.

Anonymous · Answer

This is a ridiculous question, it's probably the most important factor

LaFemmeFatale · Answer

Sure.

catelyntje · Answer

Of course it does

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