How much do looks matter to women?

[Anonymous]

How much do looks as in body and face matter to you?

[justaswimmergirl]

so I don't know what other people think but personally...looks develop over time for me so they don't matter as much. if the guy is really hot and every girl is drooling over him chances are I won't like him all that much. but when I get to know someone is when I start to realize they are cute. everyones definition of cute is different. for the longest time my best friends though I was only into guys that had dark hair but really I like blondies more. it just happens with out really any control. hope this helped!

[saphirasilverwings]

Looks do matter up to a point because when you first meet someone, their appearance is the only means you have of initially judging how attracted you feel to them. Looks have to do with how physically attracted you feel to someone which is part of being attracted to them in general.

But in the long run, once you get to know the person well, their looks don`t matter so much and their personality becomes much more important.

[ambermarie]

well, looks truly do matter.. iv gone out with a dude that wasn't that great lookin but his personality was f***in kick ass and I couldn't see myself kissin him are ever getting intamite with him because of his looks so I just broke it off

i know that sounds really shallow but its the truth!

[Asker]

What was so bad about him?

[armyant]

The difference between male and female expectations of the opposite gender when it comes to appearance is that men want their girlfriends to look hot while women want their boyfriends to look hot without using make-up.

[Camilus]

Probably not much ...unless you look like the pie-f***er from American Pie with a saggy midsection and so much hair under your arms it looks like you got Don King in a choke hold

[Italo_DiscoFever]

Lmao +1

[alexis4you]

i think that looks can help. If you don't fancy someone then that's fair enough.. BUT I believe that you can find someone physically attractive after you've become attracted to their personality :)

personality is what matters most to me

[Asker]

I think my personality is like the self-actualizing personality I just read about in psychology class and I was like this sounds like me.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self_actualization

Or do women want something else?

[ixi10]

Not that much to be honest. I don't care if he's the hottest guy on earth, I wouldn't date him unless I'm able to hold an intelligent conversation with him. Looks are what is going to attract me at first, but unless you have a personality to match, looks do not matter

[Anonymous]

I'm going to be honest, they do. There are some people you just can't see yourself being with, no matter how great they are. It's not something you can control, god know's I've tried. I'm going to out out on a limb here and suggest that it's a way for the human race to survive. Natural selection and all that jazz.

[chynnadevin]

well looks deffinately matter but they aren't what girls should choose a guy for.

looks are usually what attract girls to a certain guy whether it be their smile, eyes or if theyr just plain hott lol. but guys,in my opinion, have t o have a good personality. they would have to be able to make me smile and laugh. but theyd also jhave to show that they care for myfeelings.

[Asker]

Do you think guys go for looks only?

[chynnadevin]

Some guys deffinately do but there are guys that actualyy get to know a girl and well hit things hoff. I don't really see why guys go for looks only because they could end up with a dud.

[SweetestSinxxx]

When it comes to dating, they're the most important thing for me. If I'm not attracted to a guy then I won't even have a reason to get to know him to see what he's like.

[FutureSoldier726]

Not much to me, because I rather go the smartness and humor and personalitiy. I know most girls in my school will go for the looks because so they don't get made fun of because how ugly he is.

[boi818]

Well I'm sure you've seen some very attractive girls with some "not-so-goodlooking" guys. So that goes to show it's not all about looks.

[Anonymous]

looks are pretty important. if I'm not attracted to you I won't want to date you. so initially they are important but I also like other qualities too. but if you don't have the looks you could have everything else and I'm not gonna care

[Anonymous]

Very little if he has a lot of money.