In terms of whether or not to tell him, Id say thats totally up to you. I didn't lose my virginity until i was 19, and while id hooked up with guys and done pretty much everything els, I was apprehensive about having sex i think mostly because i saw how most of my friends were treated like such dog shit by so many guys. And at the same time, being a virgin still made me feel kind of left out and like there was this disconnect between me and the rest of the non-virgin world, that there was something basic about the people around me that i just didn't relate to. Sure I was overdramatizing that in my head, but at the same time, in a way I was. Anyway my point it, there are good and bad points to the whole virgin thing, certainly even more than I covered here. And I totally understand if you dont want to tell him, and also if you do. To some guys the virgin thing would make you special, in a way itd sort of make you less disposable to him i think. however to other guys the virigin association seems to make them feel a lot of pressure because they assume that means you'll expect a lot from them in the relationship and/or be clingy, which can scare some guys away. Id say just do whatever makes you feel most comfortable given your particular situation. For me, I didn't tell the guy i lost my virginity to that i was a virgin and im glad i didnt. The reason that was best in my case was that i lost my virginity because i was in a place in my life when i was more secure in myself and i felt ready to just do it and quit making such a big deal out of it. I think if id told him, that wouldve made the whole thing a big deal, which is exactly what i didn't want. I think by not telling him, I could actually enjoy myself a little because i wasn't so anxious or building the situation up in my mind. But if you're losing it b/c you r in love & not for strictly personal reasons maybe its best to share w/ him :)
I'm not gonna lie, it kind of makes me sad that you say you're 17 and "still" a virgin. Your so young and you have so much life to live. Being 17 and a virgin isn't a bad thing. I say when you're ready then do it and be safe. However, if you are this insecure about being a virgin, then I don't know that you are...
It's totally fine to be a virgin at 17. I don't think you really need to tell the guy until before you sleep with each other. And don't worry about being inexperienced, that's not anything unusual for a 17 year old :)
i dont get one thing.. why is it so much important for you guys to lose virginity? do you hate it or its a trend that you will look cool when you lose it or something like that.. Its completely normal to be a virgin.. im not talking that be an ortho but still im really curious to know why is it the priority & need for people to lose virginity.
coming to your case be completely honest to that person.. its ok if you're a virgin.. that ain't a crime.. and think twice before losing it that whether that person is worth losing to..
i personally think finding a female virgin your age would be like finding a gem. it means you have respect and are emotive. someone i could settle down with. in my case i am still awaiting my first kiss and im a year older, so maybe im a poor representation of guys. but thats my opinion. i would prefer girls like you.
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What's wrong with being a virgin? I don't really see how it's such a bad thing or why people make such a huge deal out of it. I'm a virgin and I'm just fine with that. I mean would you rather be pregnant at 14 or a virgin at 17?
Yes, it's such a terrible thing that a 17 year girl is a virgin. Wow, I think this is the worst thing I've ever read on here. It's appalling to know that a 17 year girl has some self-respect and she doesn't give it away to just anyone.
You dont need to pretend anything, be honest that would make your relationship more stronger. The more you are honest and emotionally close to each other, trust me you will love the sex with him. Being a virgin i dont think would be an issue for him and it doesn't matter if you are a virgin or not. Only thing that matters is the bond between both of you.
u Nothing wrong with that. I was a virgin until 21. If he likes you and wants to be with you, he is not going to have a problem. If he does, then he's not right for you.
I almost 22 and im virgin.. its not nasty cmon.. means u respect ur body by not givin it to any random guys
Why would you EVER be ashamed of being a virgin? I think its more important to stay a virgin than to lose your virginity to someone you can't guarentee a future with.
I'm also 17 and virgin and I find this question offensive
Half the people your age haven't had sex yet, he probably realises that you might not have. Most guys wouldn't mind a girl being inexperienced, it wouldn't bother me anyway.
It's normal dear... at some age u have to loowe ur vvirginity... n it's right time solo u can go ahead if the guy is right for u
virgins are less this mean you are limited edition limited edition is costliest dear ;) tell him i know he would be surprised but happy.. and lucky :D
don't worry.. it isn;t weird at all that you still virgin
I would love to fuck a virgin, ever time.
I prefer a virgin female to marry as a guy.
no... why would it be wierd?
You're a slut lol
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