So my boyfriend really wants to take me to the beach. I keep puttin it off because I'm ashamed of how I look. He's very talk and thin and I short and slightly chubby ( I have big muscular thighs, thin arms, but my stomach isn't completely flat and I think it's my worst feature). He says he likes the way I look, but at the same time he's never seen me in my underwear or anything. But I have slim arm and I'm afraid he now thinks all of me is slim. He says he really likes my legs, but once I get in bikini bottoms they look huge and I don't think I'm ready for him to see me like that. I'm trying to loose weight, but he really wants to go to the beach. How can I either avoid going or building up the confidence to go.
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the answer is in the question
"he says he likes the way I look"
the way i see it, you are the only one that doesn't like the way you look... so put on those bottoms girl and strut that beach like you own it and see if you don't have the proudest boyfriend on that beach. Men are simple... dont complicate it.1
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