Would you want a sadistic boyfriend/girlfriend?

[youknowitt]

you know what the characteristic of sadistic are... :p

i like to succumb to my bf's pleasures. . .

Yes, that's a turn on.

No, i find that a bit frightening...

I wouldn't care.

[Anonymous]

i hope you mean dominant instead, a sadist likes to inflict pain because seeing someone suffer gives them pleasure whereas a dominant person just likes to be the control and lead power within a relationship whilst still caring about their partner and not wanting them to suffer

[youknowitt]

no sadistic.

[Opinion Owner]

so you want someone who enjoys genuine torture, real pain and doesn't give a shit about you as a human?

[youknowitt]

you can say that.
& judge me for wanting what i want :)

[Opinion Owner]

im not judging you i just think you have the two terms confused

[Randomuserjoel]

But isn't being submissive/masochistic very similar. Enjoying giving full control to your partner and enjoying the pain you receive from them. If anything it is the next step on from Dom/Sub. And also, if the sadist didn't give a shit about you as person why would they be doing what they see as intimate and erotic behaviour with you. But it is very hard to imagine someone caring for someone they find pleasure in hurting. Tbh I'm with the asker cause I'm a masochist myself

[youknowitt]

14 yr old masochist wow humanity is getting somewhere

[harakiri]

sadistic... how?
i feel like... i'm more likely to be sadistic than any dude. but not sexually sadistic.

[EvilPimp]

not me I bet.

[Anonymous]

No, I wouldn't date a sadistic person. That's kind of a turn off.

[Sinister]

There's a term to be said in the military when getting deployed " Going half native but never go full native" I think that would be the rule I'd like to imply here. A little is good but full blown sadistic carnal fun hmmm to me seems like one sided pleasure.

[Sinister]

@Asker thanks

[capncool]

Is your boyfriend by any chance named King Joffrey?

[youknowitt]

lololol

[musicbrain5]

It's okay if he's dominant and lets me have a turn to be dominant, but sadistic? Nooooo way.

[GoldenSunshine]

No I wouldn't want a sadistic boyfriend :P

[michel1082]

yes !!! i love sadistig girls :)