Guys do you automatically categorize girls?

[dazedandconfused22]

I hear it all the time. So do you? What makes you decide a girl is booty call material... or girlfriend material or whatever.

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+1 y

Cause let's be honest girls do too ( at least I know I do)

[koibito]

Yea I do. It's a bit mean, but I group them into "nerdy girls", "party girls", "rebel girls" and "plain girls".

Nerdy girls are my favourite kind of girls. Usually identified by glasses, being shy, dressed conservatively in jeans, and knows a lot of geek culture. Lovely to listen to once you get them talking about what they love.
Party girls are for drinks and flings, not my type. Usually identified by what they wear or the places they like to go to. Not sure what kind of conversation I can have with them.
Rebel girls are feministic or independent and don't want a man. You get a feeling that they don't give a crap about anyone's opinion, are often globe-trotting and just want to enjoy life. Interesting people.
Plain girls I got nothing.

[MarkyyG123]

Yes. Before I even talk to you (in person) I watch how you act, respond, do and the like or when I talk to you I'll do it. Over time though it may change, sometimes for the better or for the worse. Guys do have some kind of system, what they use to make the "classifications" will vary as you can imagine. But I know it's no way as complicated as the ones you ladies have haha

[dazedandconfused22]

Haha yup I think we over think it much more than you guys do

[MarkyyG123]

For sure haha, I'm scared to ask, not sure I'm prepared for what the answer will be haha

[dazedandconfused22]

Haha umm for me it's usually either friend, boyfriend, creep, guy who is too out of my league, guy who seems like a player, and guy who i am indifferent about lool

[MarkyyG123]

So, basically you have 6 groups. Fair enough, sounds good. It's the sub groups I'm worried about haha, the divisions within the divisions, that's what scares me hahaha

[dazedandconfused22]

Hahah oh god okay I think you're overthinking it I don't know what the sub groups would be...

[MarkyyG123]

Hahahaha thank god for that, if you said there were I'd be a little sacred

[MarkyyG123]

Thanks for the MHO :)

[demonology]

guys and girls both almost automatically categorize guys and girls.

[cheesesteak7]

Those are the only 2 categories?

Anyway, if it's just booty call vs relationship material, I'm not sure any guy AUTOMATICALLY categorizes a girl into either category. But he can categorize them fairly quickly. And that categorizing could change as well.

[dazedandconfused22]

No there's more I just didn't want to list them all

[vjreejr]

Yes. Every single female whose image hits a man's retina is instantly translated by the brain to a "yes" or "no" for "fuckability" (but only fuckability).

However, whatever that instant verdict is, it can change. As to GF material and beyond, we do more reconnaissance before rendering a verdict.

[thetundrawolf]

God gave you women a scary sixth sense, a gut feeling about us men.

Well, we aren't totally blind. Usually we can pick see exactly what you're about from the offset. There's not hiding much from some guys.

[PiuBelloAmante]

The way she carries herself,
for example if she is wearing revealing clothing and talks like she is trashy, she will be a booty call
but if women dresses with elegance and demonstrates etiquette and class i would want to enter a relationship with her

[Mesonfielde]

Basically it depends on compatibility, and the traits or behavior of the person by which you can tell whether you would rip each other apart if you had to live in the same house for an extended period of time.

[Red_Dragon]

I'm not going to lie I do. I do have "boxes" in my mind where I'm like "Yeeah I'll hang with her the most." Or "I'll just hang with her sometimes."

[dazedandconfused22]

Interesting how do you decide this?

[Red_Dragon]

Really just all three of these things in combination:

• How well we get along: If we are really got a good vibe going then that helps move her closer.

• Appearance: Not necessarily in terms of "more attraction" equals her being closer. It's very variable. She may just look like a nice girl to hang with even if she's not hotter than another girl

• Personality: If she's not the type of girl who's really into just chilling or what not then that has a effect too. Also some girls can be very open and some may not. The very open ones I might not get as close with or vice versa.

All in all it's variable.

[dazedandconfused22]

Hmm alright thank you

[Red_Dragon]

You'll welcome. :)

How do you categorize guys?

[Red_Dragon]

*You're

[chrisbigman]

I don't believe I do. How would I categorize them? By ethnicity? By geographical location? By shoe size?

[dazedandconfused22]

I told you already by girlfriend material booty call material friend material etc.

[chrisbigman]

Every woman is considered a female stranger until I date her. Then she's my girlfriend. If she's a bitch. Then, she's a female stranger-bitch.

[dazedandconfused22]

Lol female stranger bitch. Okay.

[chrisbigman]

I'm guessing you only have two categories - female stranger and female stranger-bitch.

[Psyborfox]

than the keeping guys interested question shouldn't matter.

[dazedandconfused22]

Why not?

[Psyborfox]

We'll if you can't keep them interested after giving it up there is your problem.

[dazedandconfused22]

Who said I was giving it up?

[Psyborfox]

You did in the category of the booty call you say at least you do, which states you do.

[dazedandconfused22]

Okay you really need to reread my question cause you're really not getting it but I'll leave it at that.

[Psyborfox]

Well what makes you decide a guy falls in the category you decide?

[Anonymous]

I've never done that in my life... am i weird or are you wierd? blah

[dazedandconfused22]

Haha well look at all the other answers

[EkWilJouLek]

I check the way they are dressed and immediately stereotype

Girlfriend - wears clothes a respectable woman would wear and not a prostitute.

[Anonymous]

maybe after you talk to her enough to get a feel for her personality but that takes more that 5 minutes of conversation.

[Imtheone88]

i only have one category...

[dazedandconfused22]

Which is?

[Imtheone88]

relationship material... the rest are out...

[Error_204]

I don't have the time to play such empty games.

[Ihav2fart]

Her personality makes me categorize her.