Girls, why do you think some guys get all the girls?

[Guymandude]

I'm curious. I've known men less physically attractive than me to simply sleep with lots of women, date lots of women, etc.
I'm wondering... is it experience? Is it the fact that they do it a lot so it's easy? Is it their social connections? Or is it something else?

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Just being charming, chivalrous and gentlemen. Not being a womanizing jerk off. I don't know why guys thinking being creepy jerk off asshole gets them women. It doesn't and that's why they're still generally unhappy miserable in the perpetual state of constantly being a dick that gets no pussy.

[Guymandude]

I agree, I do. But then I'm very confused. Despite being all of the above I've had mostly flaked dates and no text backs. I have no idea what I'm doing wrong.

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Probably nothing. I also forgot to mention that if jerks do pull a date it's usually the girls with lack thereof to really low non-existent self-esteem. Everyone goes through a dating rough patch.

[katgirl07]

It may be that those guys confidence are attracting the women. If they are more willing to approach the women first, they will most likely get them first.

[WhitneySnow]

They have good game. They’re charming and good at talking to girls. Also probably good at empathy too (or at least good at faking it).

[Anonymous]

Confidence. People always think that the reason really attractive but mean guys get the girls is because they're hot but it's really because of their confidence. If the nice guys had more confidence they would have girls falling all over them, too

[iamanaries]

Because generally she encounters men that juggle more than one woman at the time.

[SensualScribe]

Confidence and charisma will get me every time.

[Guymandude]

Charisma is like charm right?

[SensualScribe]

Yes. Pretty much the same thing.

[Nikki1989]

Personality and charm.

[Anonymous]

I think it's just them getting there first.