Why do some guys assume that women want to see their genitals?

[Anonymous]

I'm just a bit sick of getting unsolicited dick pics. Or videos. Or answering a call just to be greeted by some creep jerking off.

I'm in college. People exchange contact information all the time. Whatever.

I don't give my contact info to strangers. But people that I know from college, or from back in high school. Maybe not well, but we talked once or twice in class, or parties and such.

But it seems like lately most of the texts that I receive from guys that I'm not already good friends with are guys awkwardly trying to ask me out, guys looking for a hookup, or dick pics. Or videos occasionally. That happens too.

I don't mind the date or hookup requests. They at least ask. Consent is important.

What I don't understand however, is why some people think that the best greeting is a picture of their genitalia. I don't know what reaction they're trying to get.

Especially the people that just started talking to me over the summer. They seem to be the worst offenders.

Are people just bored? Is this all they can think to do over the summer? Do they not have jobs? Or friends?

I just don't get it. In person guys tend to be gentlemen toward me, at least at first. Even the ones that just want hookups. They at least try to talk first. About something that isn't blatantly sex related.

My friends say I come across as a total good girl. So guys tend to be a bit subtler in their approach. Less groping.

So why doesn't that also apply over the phone?

I'm just a bit annoyed at the moment. Some guy went through the effort of finding my Facebook, so that he could ask for my other contact info, which I didn't even give until he had been talking to me for a while. And then snapping and messaging me every day for a month, just so that the first time I actually pick up a call, he can shove his balls into the camera.

That's so much work just to show someone your dick.

Why bother? Can someone please explain this to me before I lose all faith in humanity?

Thank you.

[teamvic]

It's simple, it's not that they think its the most affective way to have sex with them its more of the most efficient way

If you send a girl a dick pic and they block you, welp onto the next girl, no time wasted and an answer was given on the possibility of having sex

On the rare occasion the girl is impressed by it or something well then cool now they're gonna fuck and then if it worked once, maybe it'll work again and its a constant loop

Its the quickest way to know whether or not the girl is interested in fucking and not having to waste the time to try to get to know them only to find out they dont wanna fuck

And even if they did wanna fuck, it's way too time consuming when there's a faster route to get your dick wet

See what I'm saying

Now dont think im over here doing this , i just know because well, I'm smart

[Asker]

No one responds positively to unsolicited dick pics.

[teamvic]

You never knowww

You have to take into consideration, if the girl is horny, and if she finds the dude attractive

It's rare but it's happened

[Asker]

I’m not talking about ones where he asked first. I’m talking about unsolicited ones. Because they always come at the worst possible time. Like work. Or dinner with family.

I’d have trouble believing that even 1% of these guys have ever gotten a positive reaction from even one of the girls that they sent them to.

[teamvic]

Well ifthe dude asks and you say yes then he automatically had a chance at fucking you so im aware of that

But how are they supposed to know where you're gonna be when you open the message

And I'd believe it but like I said it's the fastest way to find out if they wanna fuck or not,

Answer this for me which would be faster, if I sent a dick pic to 20 different girls or try to get to know, talk to, and try to have sex with 20 different girls

[Asker]

The first would be faster but would yield no results. You’d just get blocked and reported. And maybe laughed at.

[teamvic]

Mann I remember one time I was bored and didn't really care so I messaged this chick asking if I could see her titties in the very first message.. and that shit worked

I'm not one of those dudes remember I was just bored so don't put me in that category of dudes I'm just giving you an example of things that shouldn't work but ended up working

[Asker]

But that’s asking. I’m talking about when there is no previous conversation, at least not about anything relating to the subject, and then suddenly someone’s junk is on your screen.

[teamvic]

So let me ask you this, let's say a random dude who you thought was hella hot sent you a dick pic and you just so happen to this his dick is nice, you would still block him, Report him, and laugh at him?

[teamvic]

You also have to understand that when a dude is horny, his awareness of probability and standards drop like a mug

It's why some dudes fuck ugly chicks. Cause they don't care

[teamvic]

Well when he's reallllly horny, for the most part we good but it's when you haven't fucked in monthes

[Asker]

I block and report. I have friends who laugh.

It doesn’t matter how attractive he is. And no ones genitalia is attractive. There’s a reason guys ask for boob pics instead of vagina pics.

In order for genitalia to be attractive it needs to be in a very specific context. Which unsolicited dick pics aren’t. If a guy wants to send a picture of his abs, that’s his decision. I don’t want to see his dick though.

So even if he were attractive, as plenty of the guys that I’ve gotten them from are, I’d still block and report him, as he just prove that he’s an arrogant egghead.

[teamvic]

I mean I'd see some pussy pics

They ask for titty pics first because there's levels to it you can't just go directly to the vag pics

Look you asked why they send dick pics I gave you the reason they send them. Whether you think its dumb and ineffective is up for you to decide

I'm on your side here but good luck tryna convince all the dick pics senders to stop doing it

there's nothing more for me to say

[Asker]

Okay. And thanks for responding. I’m just a bit annoyed with them at the moment.

[teamvic]

Yeah I understand. If i were a girl I'd hate that too

[Haelaeix123]

Cus some guys are just stupid, that's it. Not all guys but a good proportion are dumb enough to think that unsolicited dick pics and videos are desirable.

[iFarted]

Cause those guys think girls think the same as guys.
A lot of us like nudes, so we assume y'all like nudes.