Why do guys get butt hurt about women's height standards?

[ImJustCurious13]

This is a cliche meme, but it happens all the time. A woman says she wants to date tall guys and men lose their shit. Look, some women like tall guys, whether it makes them feel safe or they think it's sexy it's what she personally likes, just like how a lot of guys like women with big butts and big boobs, some women like tall guys and they have every right to think that way, except for the women who insult guys who don't reach their standard, I mean I originally made my GAG account to respond to a woman who said "guys who are under 6ft tall aren't real men". If a woman wants to date a tall guy, that's her personal choice and she can date who ever the fuck she wants GET OVER IT!!!


Also I know some guys are going to say "you can't change your height", well I have to say that if all 3.8 billion women in the world doesn't want to date you, then it's something besides your height. Besides, I said some women because most women say than a man doesn't have to be 6ft tall.
Girls, Ladies, does a guy have to be at least 6ft tall?

[WhiteNoise]

Because a lot of them are not even giving short guys a chance. That's not very fair, considering genetics aren't exactly something they can control, and it makes them feel inadequate, not up to standards, not good enough, etc.

I understand, everyone has their preferences, and that's fine. You're totally allowed to like certain things more than others. However, that being said, I don't think you should allow those preferences to rule people out completely over something that can't be controlled.

Take race, for example. Yes, you're allowed to have preferences because attraction is attraction. However, if someone openly proclaimed, "I only date Asian women." then you can see the problem here. There's a line between preferences and discrimination.

[ImJustCurious13]

Sure that would be the more considerable thing, but in the end of the day she can date whoever she wants as long as it's legal. I don't think it's discriminatory because she's not denying a guy a job she's denying him of being in her very personal life which she has every right to do.

[spunkygiraffe]

Yeah, I'm pretty tired of hearing people complain and complain. I personally don't really care how tall the guy is, unless he's like super tall or short, which would make the relationship a little awkward, but whatever.

[LogicBomber]

Likely because we can't change our height. But we don't create campaigns or social shaming tactics to silence you from doing it, we simply call you out on it for being a c*nt.

But women on the other hand get so beyond butt hurt over male weight standards, that they get in large groups and push bullshit fat acceptance standards and use shaming attacks to try and stop men from finding it disgusting. But unlike height, women CAN lose weight.

So who's really the butt hurt group?
Yeah, but like most other things, women get bent out of shape when it's about them and then mock and shame men for having issue with even the most minuscule female bullshit.

[ImJustCurious13]

Yes, and I think everyone who try to pressure people into dating people they don't want to date should get shit on even if it's about something stupid like height or weight, this goes for men and women.

[ShadowofRegret]

I have no problem with women who simply wish to be with tall men, as that is as you have said, a preference.

However what I do not approve of is such childish and immature behavior such as mocking and ridiculing short men for something they have no control over, (of course, I feel the same regarding those who mock tall women.)

[ImJustCurious13]

Exactly, you can have all the dating standards you want, but when you ridicule people who don't reach your standards your a bully, and bullies suck.

[Logorithim]

Well, it's because they're missing out on a potential date or girlfriend because of it.

[ImJustCurious13]

But what's keeping him from moving on? The woman who rejected him because of his height isn't the last woman on Earth.

[Logorithim]

That is cold comfort when he has gotten his hopes up.

[TonyBologna25]

That bitch looks like a 4/10 lol. It obviously makes guys feel inferior who don’t match that criteria to some degree, but I think it’s the entitlement that unnerves guys a lot more. I can’t tell you how many girls on tinder had “don’t talk to me unless you’re 6’2 + and your dick is above 7 inches.” Lmao you look at their profile and they’re ugly as fuck. I was a former Marine/bodybuilder standing 6’1 at 230 lbs with double digit body fat earning an engineering degree when I was single on tinder. Some average looking 24 year old going to community college living at home studying lesbian dance theory is really going to tell me I’m not even worth a conversation because I’m not an inch taller? So it’s not so much that guys are just insecure because they don’t match the criteria, it’s the fact that so many women within our generation are absolutely delusional and think they’re goddesses because they have a hole in between their legs that guys want. It literally takes no effort, talent, or skill to get laid as an average looking girl. These girls are not special and guys need to stop feeding into their egocentric delusion lol. That’s the only way to stop this cancer. Besides, being shalllow and self absorbed isn’t a good look anyone.

[desidoll]

People who are unattractive tend to have higher standard. That is just what I have noticed. I guess it is a form of defense mechanism. They set unrealistic standard just to feel good knowing that people feel rejected like how they used to feel.

[TonyBologna25]

@desidoll I agree.

[ChiTown33]

Well that's easy. Post a question that states that you refuse to date a woman over 160 lbs. ( i used 160 because weight isn't a thing with me and i have no idea what most guys consider fat), that is less than a D cup, and has short hair and watch the downvotes you get.
This is not a problem that even affects me. I'm 6'5" but anytime i hear a woman say she won't even consider a guy under 6 feet it annoys me as well. And in defense of my shorter bretheren out there I reject any woman that has that over 6 feet rule. Not out of spite, but simply because i don't want to have anything to do with a woman that foolish.

[z3lda]

I can understand why men wouldn't like it though. I hate it when guys say they only date girls with big breasts or only date girls who have big butts. I totally understand it's a preference and you're allowed to want that! But I think if your main requirement for a partner is a body feature rather than a personality trait, then you're not in love with a person you're in love with a body.

[ImpressiveUsername]

Well, probably because they're being brushed aside for something they have no control over.

Does that mean women shouldn't have standards? No, but don't act like these guys don't have a right to be hurt by it.

[cassandraa]

If girls can have standards of a guys height then a guy can have standards of a girls height. Don't give me that bullshit that guys don't care about height because they do.

[MrNameless]

guys generally want girls as tall or shorter than them.. But guys don't really ever make it an issue, generally because men are taller then women on average by a few inches.. You'd think men would care more about looking dominant, but its really women who don't like that roll on them. Women can be insecure and count something superficial like heels.

[cassandraa]

A good majority of guys do care about height but the same could be say about people too

[CheerfulButterfly]

If I were to put myself in a guy's shoes, I would think that I have so much to offer and I didn't get a chance to show those qualities because of one thing I don't have and can't control.

[SketchForger]

I never really cared, because if a woman is going to make a Judgement based on my height, then she's not the one for me.

[ChiPaPa]

I for one don't care really. If she's that stuck up on a few inches of height which is inconsequential, then she isn't worth my time.

[dev765]

I don't get upset over women's height standards and there are girls who said they prefer guys shorter than me so.

[CT_CD]

Because some of their dumb height standards are just absurd. Like a woman being average looking and only 5'2" but saying she won't date a guy under 6 ft

[0112358]

I don’t. All my success in dating has been based on women with height bias.

[DDpsy]

Mostly because a 6' eliminates more than 80% of the male population even in a relatively tall place like the US.

[DeviloftheValleys]

Why do women get butthurt about men's weight standard?

I don't date anyone over 65 kg.

[Lman3000]

Cause standards women set are so shallow and fucking ridiculous

[niallycam]

What about all the fat woman who get butt hurt when a guy says he doesn't like fat chicks

[Liam_Hayden]

Why do women get butt hurt about men's weight standards?

[Anonymous]

Lol his reply was funny i am 5.7 and i don't care about height.

[name_is_eric]

I don't get it.
Height seems to be a big issue in America.

[MrNameless]

they don't want to look taller than guys in heels. That's murica for you

[cluelesgrace]

because they feel short and insecure

[jakern001]

Hmm how tall are you?

[jakern001]

@cluelesgrace

[cluelesgrace]

@jakern001 5'4

[Rangers]

Because it's shallow and unfixable.

[esotericstory]

A woman can't tell what 6 foot is.

[Anonymous]

I set my weight standards for women at 100

[Aphrodite8789]

Insecure males