Does a guy stay up until 2-3am talking to his boys?

[Anonymous]

What it says above, my bf is always online on whatsapp talking to "his boys" all night to the morning.

What do you think is the truth..

He's talking to other girls

Sounds legit

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy. I know my guy stayed up till 3 sometimes playing videogames with a headset and everything. He was talking to people and had his eyes glued to the screen.

[Asker]

Whatsapp and video games are not the same. Video games you spend most times talking to strangers with a set interest which is the same game you're playing. Whatsapp is idle chat so the possibilities are endless so again- not the same

[Opinion Owner]

Ok chill I didn't know what you were talking about

[Asker]

Why comment then?

[Opinion Owner]

Cuz maybe just maybe he could be playing videogames. I don't know anything about him so I wouldn't know. Just trying to help. No need to freak out.

[kain7th]

yeah we really don't know him or what he does at that hour so we are forced to speculate. he COULD be playing video games for all we (strangers) know.

She was just trying to help you with the info you provided

[Asker]

I clearly said he uses WHATSAPP not video networks lol whatsapp is purely for chat it's like viber or kik. If you don't know something you ask, not make assumptions

[kain7th]

@Asker umm no thats not how this works. you provide us the info you think we need, then we can give you adequate answers based on that info. its your responsibility to tell us what he does.

He may be using whatapp but its also possible he's playing video games too.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you and I agree, @kain7th
And @Asker seriously just chill. I make assumptions because I don't know specifics and maybe I don't know what to ask. STRANGERS, huh. I know nothing about him or you so how am I supposed to know? And maybe I don't want to ask tons of questions about a question? So if I'm no help, just ignore me and we'll both be happy.

[Asker]

I don't know how you would even associate video games with whatsapp. You said your bf plays video games until late at night and he's eyes are stuck to the TV etc, how could you do that and use a text service constantly for hours at the same time. It's not about me not providing substantive information it's about making assumptions. If you didn't know what whatsapp was you should have asked. I thought people commented on things they had some knowledge of so I provided enough info for someone to understand if they know what whatsapp is. So don't blame this on me lol

[kain7th]

@asker you didn't provide nearly enough info so we are forced to assume. do you not get that? your bf could literally be doing ANYTHING for all we know. he could be doing whatsapp and other things as well.

You need to provide us way more info lol. c'mon this isn't rocket science

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not blaming it on you, I'm just saying he COULD be playing videogames. Not impossible, ya know. I agree with @kain7th that he could be doing both. If you're so worried about it, ASK HIM. I'm also not saying "my guy does so every guy does" I'm saying that it's a possibility. So just ask him if it's got you so worried.

[Asker]

Lol whatever dude

[Opinion Owner]

I don't associate the two things, just sayin, he could be doing both!

[Opinion Owner]

@kain7th I totally agree and @Asker if you don't like what we're saying, ignore us! There are plenty of other people to talk to on here, just know that they'll make assumptions, too.

[Asker]

I provided enough information so that it wasn't open to interpretation. Pretty much was saying "if a dude is on whatsapp until the early hours if the morning, is he taking to his boys like he says he is" how is that possible to not understand? The information provided was all that was necessary to provide a response. if you didn't have experience of this to make a valid response then don't bother

[Asker]

They might make assumptions but most of the time it's related to what the person is asking not just completely random

[kain7th]

got it, so you just didn't like the answer she gave. ok cool. im done here lol

[Asker]

It isn't about preference, it just wasn't relevant to anything I was asking at all. It was just plucked out the sky and thrown out there but then again I don't take relationship advice from people who are under 18

[Opinion Owner]

Don't bother creating drama! Jeez just starting my opinion. That was a tiny question with not much information. I still say he could be doing both. You won't know unless you freakin ask him. My opinion wasn't totally random, it has to do with him being busy all night and talking to people. So there's no point in arguing about this.

[kain7th]

"It was just plucked out the sky and thrown out there"

Because you didn't provide enough info. we don't know your boyfriend. you do.

[Opinion Owner]

Just ask the man if you're so freakin worried about it! No point in asking us when we know nothing about him except he is DEFINITELY on whatsapp and NOT playing videogames, apparently.

[Asker]

Lol clearly this is a misunderstanding. All the people above sort of stuck to the main issue or question I was asking so thanks for your efforts. Happy new year lol

[Opinion Owner]

I'm agreeing with @kain7th in all of this. And what's with that line? Whoa! Philosopher alert! Psshh. And why does it matter how old I am? If you don't like teenagers answering questions then get off this site cuz you can't avoid us.
Like I've been saying, JUST ASK HIM

[Asker]

Consensus doesn't make your right stop being silly

[Opinion Owner]

Clearly.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[Opinion Owner]

You're the one being silly, thank you. And you're thanking me for annoying you? Haha anytime, anytime

[Asker]

Thats immature, I'm thanking you for taking time out for answering my question. Even though we didn't agree and didn't understand each other shouldn't make any difference should it. It's not saying sorry for annoying me so again stop being childish

[Opinion Owner]

In case you haven't noticed, I'm not an adult. I may act like one sometimes but I still have the mind of a kid at times. So there's no use in telling me I'm childish and immature.

[Asker]

Lol well I don't think that should make a difference in how you exercise common sense, to me that's just an excuse. But, good luck to you 👍

[Opinion Owner]

Common sense? Common sense is asking someone a simple question when you're worried about the answer. Not asking random people online who don't know you or your guy and acting like they should know everything even though you said barely anything. Good luck to you and your disrespect

[Asker]

Thanks

[Klaatu51]

to 'his boys"?

hmmmm you should question abou his sexuality

[Klaatu51]

thanks!

[Asker]

No problem

[GoldCobra]

lol no unless they're talking about something really interesting

[Asker]

Lol well considering it's everyday I doubt it's his boys. Reason I'm asking, it's a pretty new relationship (6months) so I'm thinking or throwing in the towel

[JackKerouac77]

I stayed up till 5 a. m. last night talking to random people, most weren't boys.

My "boys" all have careers/better stuff to do than be awake

[Anonymous]

if you don't trust him, you may need to re-evaluate this relationship

[evenlift]

I sometimes do.

[Asker]

Every night?

[evenlift]

Not every night. But, a very social guy with lots and lots of friends might.

It could be other girls. But, you shouldn't just assume it.

[Asker]

I'm concerned because most of his friends are players

[evenlift]

If you're concerned, ask him.

[Asker]

I have, he just says "I'm talking to my boys on there" I was online at 4am once taking to my friend in LA (8hr time difference to where I am) he was getting pissed at me wondering who I was talking to so sort of added to my suspicious feeling

[LukasTheLovely]

No no no no no no no no no lol!!!

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he prefers guys