Do guys not cuddle in the morning?

[Anonymous]

Maybe I'm reading too much into this but I find it odd that he was all about cuddling all night last night and since we woke up he is not about it at all. I don't get it.

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I'm wondering if he still likes me

[nicolecopeland11]

I do agree it depends on the guy. Some guys won't cuddle at all because its a sign of affection, and attachment. Most guys who do cuddle all night, could possibly feel like they or you need your space in the morning. Not to many people are up for intimate relations when they first wake up, most would like a shower, brush their teeth, and than the intimate part.

As for me, I lack affection from my current significant other, so I try to squeeze it out from him as much as possible, even if he isn't willing to give in. I have a feeling this will be the cause of a fight possibly one day, and lead to even as far as a break up.

[Kalinda]

I think guts get morning erections. Probably makes cuddling awkward. You could just ask him about it:)

[bunnahies]

Maybe he's not a morning person or doesn't want to blow stinky breathe on you.

[Peter0]

Some guys are like that :p

I like cuddling all the time; my gf needs her internet time in the morning. She's compromised with a little bit of cuddling as long as her laptop is in front of her.

So. Depends on the guy!

[JackKerouac77]

I'm always down for a cuddle unless the cops are comin'

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[findingdreamland]

You are thinking too much. He was tired maybe, he wasn't feeling the mood? Who knows. You can't know from just one single behavior.

[AleDeEurope]

I like that, I like to stay a little bit more in bed after I wake up, and if I'm cuddling it's even better.
Maybe your boyfriend didn't sleep well, so he wasn't in the mood to cuddle.

[warumnicht]

Well last time I did cuddle with a friend we were spooning and I ended up with a hard on nearing her knee after she decided to wiggle up close against me... Again and again...

[DamanMannn]

If it's just one night,
he was probably having a rough night or a soon to be tough morning.

#InHisHead

[PiuBelloAmante]

haha sometimes we need a break from cuddles also in the morning our bodies are full of test!

[edumazonni]

That sounds like so much fun. But people only go if it were with purely platonic friends. Otherwise it'd get sexual and turn into an orgy.

[meatballs21]

That might just be him... I will spend the entire weekend in bed holding my special lady close.

[SachikoKurisu]

I don't know about yours but mine wants to cuddle 24/7 XD

[Anonymous]

You're probably overthinking mine loves a morning cuddle but men are different but are you just cuddling or is it more than that?

[Kountry_King]

He prolly had morning wood and is uncomfortable lol

[Anonymous]

I'm usually the most cuddly in the morning, it's very difficult to get out of bed!

[Anonymous]

Did you have sex either the night before or in the morning?

[Asker]

Another interesting thing: no sex, but in the moment he decided we were gonna go drink, so we got dressed and went upstairs and then he turned on the tv and fell asleep in front of it. We cuddled through tv and I finally went to bed and then when he came to bed we cuddled more.

[Opinion Owner]

Hmmmm. . . could be that he was pretty keyed up then. Especially by the morning after a whole night of cuddling with you without any sexual release. So he probably had a major league boner in the morning and if it didn't seem likely you'd take care of it, he may have felt awkward about cuddling.

What were you both wearing when you cuddled and what did you wear when you were sleeping?

[Asker]

When he decided to go upstairs he gave me shorts and a shirt of his to put on, been wearing that since

[Asker]

And he was wearing shorts and a shirt when we went upstairs but when he came to bed just boxers

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, so he was in just boxers and you were in just shorts and a shirt? No bra? I'd imagine cuddling like that would definitely have gotten him stiff! XD Heck, I'm surprised you didn't feel it poking at you! But that's probably why he'd have felt awkward in the morning--he probably really needed relief!

[Asker]

So you think he likes me?

[Opinion Owner]

Good chance he does! How long have you known him? Was this the first time you spend the night cuddling? Have you kissed?

[Asker]

I knew him in high school and had a huge crush on him. We recently reconnected and he had a crush on me too. I came here for a visit for the weekend. Yesterday night was the first time we had ever kissed or anything. when we first reconnected he was really flirty: morning texts, kissing emojis, calling me Hun, etc. since then he slowly tapered off though.

[Opinion Owner]

Hmmm. . . if you both were crushing on each other then you really SHOULD try it out! And if you've kissed and cuddled, why not up the ante? Next time you get him alone, start kissing and don't stop till you're both fully satiated!

[Asker]

I was thinking it would send a better message about myself if I didn't have sex with him

[Asker]

Although I haven't told him no yet

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, so if you don't want sex with him what do you want?

[Asker]

To be his girlfriend

[Opinion Owner]

Hmmmm. . . last time I checked, one of the things that defines a girlfriend from others is you have sex with her!

[Asker]

But I want to make sure that he having sex with me only. Just having sex won't make me his girlfriend.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, then you need to have a chat about dating and exclusivity! There's no other way to be exclusive. But it may be easier to do that once your physical relationship has advanced further.

[Asker]

I'm afraid to bring it up in case he doesn't want that.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, I'm not seeing how this progresses unless you either advance the physical relationship or you have a conversation.

[Asker]

So how do I start either of those options?

[Opinion Owner]

The physical one is easy enough. Next time, just keep making out and start paying attention to his erection. You don't need to have sex, but just take care of it! You might find that the conversation flows even easier when you're both cuddling after having released some tension!

[Asker]

Yesterday he didn't touch me at all. When it was time to go to bed he watched Netflix literally all night and didn't touch me at all. i don't get it.

[Opinion Owner]

Wait, are you living with this guy? What do you mean "when it was time to go to bed?" Do you normally sleep with him? I think I'm missing something.

[Asker]

I spent a weekend visiting him. I stayed at his house with him

[Asker]

This morning I called him on his weird behavior and he told me that he was waiting for me to be the aggressor and it needs to be a two way street. So I tried to initiate and he still didn't seem to into it. But we did have sex.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, how was the sex?

[Asker]

Extremely fast because it was almost time for me to leave for the airport

[Opinion Owner]

Oh that's a shame! First time sex is best if it's not a quickie or at least if you have time to do multiple rounds! When will you see him next?

[Asker]

Not sure. Also not sure how to bring this up with him. Definitely want to see him again, but don't want to invite myself back if he doesn't want me, and don't want to come off as desperate if I bring it up too soon. What is too soon?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know what too soon would be. Really depends on how often you tend to see this guy and how much of a hassle it is to get together. If you're close, why not try to figure out what you could do together next weekend or the weekend after?

[Asker]

we're really far away. its a flight for a weekend trip, that is if there are flights that will work with both of our schedules since there is not an airport close to either of us. also the cost is a factor so I can't see it being more than a once a month thing. i bought this weekend's plane ticket in the beginning of January when he first invited me out to see him.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh wow--that's tough! So maybe the best option is to invite him to visit you next month?

[Asker]

how soon until i do that? the problem is my schedule is more flexible than his because i at least have every weekend off. and the cool thing about visiting him is it is a new area which we both like

[Anonymous]

I love cuddling at any time. Maybe he was just tired

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes guys still like to cuddle girl :)))

[Klaatu51]

Onlymy teddy bear hahah

[Anonymous]

I love cuddles any time of the day.