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Why do men go for uglier average women? pretty women are discarded? (Page 2)
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well, obviously good looking is not the only thing that matters! And i'd always find it was easier to find a intelligent girl not necessarily so pretty than one that are both
(please forgive my English)
Well I'm gorgeous and smart. But. Oh well
ok for me, im really smart and really hot.. i have the mind of a genius and the beauty of well.. someone really hot... playboy model.. im a geek at heart, really down to earth.. horny, willing but doesn't matter.. guys reject and hate me
Every "hot" girl I've ever dated has acted like she deserved to be treated like a princess. I do that, because that's how I am, but "hot" girls don't fucking appreciate it. They don't treat me how *I* deserve to be treated, and they take me for granted. They're fucking shitty girlfriends.
You think being "hot" entitles you to shit. News flash, it doesn't, and there are plenty of women out there who are willing to treat good men like the rarities that we are.
not every hot girl does that.. just b/c the ones u dated did.. so again ur stereotyping and generalizing geez.. I've met tons of guys who've treated me like crap but i dont judge future guys but the future guys just end up being jackasses
lol, go back and read through what you posted. You've got no place to complain about other people generalizing, miss.
Dude... thank you gor saying this. You hit her with the truth and she couldn't take it so she does what most women usually do... lie and twist a story to fit their narrative of being a victim.
It's bullshit.
This bitch is actually serious. Calling herself nice and then proceeds to knock others down cause their not as hot as her. Also, the amount of cunts on her just agreeing and supporter her toxic ass behavior really does support the male opinion that women can be just as shitty as men. They're just better at putting a face of false compassion on their bullshit rants.
I go after what I like. What I see as beautiful may not be what others see. I'm thankful for that or the dating world would be much tougher
I didn't read the article because I'm running low on time now, but I'll just add this: McDonalds doesn't hire people with good scholarship.
There are a few reasons... if they're smoking hot it's likely they'll be high maintenance, they'll be demanding, also they have more options so the relationship doesn't seem as secure.
well lets say the hot girl is low maintenance I've seen ugly women who are really high maintenance and men will do anything for them... but with the hot girl they treat her as if she's high maintenance when she's low.. it makes no esnse
It's true there are some ugly girls who are high maintenance, they're just kidding themselves and the dude that she's worth it, it's an attitude thing. In my experience hot girls can pick and choose so they might go for a dude based on a genuine connection but if he can't provide what she's after she'll upgrade. She can choose a guy who she finds attractive, who she gets on with, but can also afford to make her his princess and single handedly provide whatever material stuff she wants. So if you're not a good looking, witty and rich dude and you're just average.. you look at the hot girls and think, why bother.
u probably do but the hot girl doesn't have her choice.. lots of guys r scared and intimidated, so again the hot girl is stuck single..
I'm not intimidated, just skeptical. If a hot girl wants to get together and doesn't expect me to be living in an expensive apartment, driving a flash car and having an unlimited credit card then I'm willing. lol. But usually that's what they're after, I guess it's just common sense so I don't blame them.
"my experience hot girls can pick and choose so they might go for a dude based on a genuine connection but if he can't provide what she's after she'll upgrade."
This doesn't just apply to hot women. It just depends on why she 'upgrades'
@Aud_Queen better looking with deeper pockets usually. Or if she's already got that but the dude works to pay for her and she doesn't feel like she's getting enough attention- she'll chuck it all in and go live in a squat with a bit of rough. People always want what they can't have. lol
You've probably heard of guys who think women are 'out of their league'? That's part of it. There's also the simple fact that looks are only a small part of the package, and you might not be able to see in these other 'uglier' women what the guy does.
That could be true but what would they see in them. Women who are repulsive and I mean they're repulsive overall. Not just in looks. I see lots of hot women who r repulsive people too but I'm talking more about people who are beautiful inside and outside and ugly inside and out
That's what I mean though - you aren't able to see her in the same light the guy does. It could be that you're so frustrated that this keeps happening that you're negatively predisposed towards them anyway, which won't help with your perceptions.
No the guys r negative to me because I'm pretty sheesh. I'm nice to all guys. thetes a reason pretty women r bltches it's cuz everyone treats them like shlt
You're right, it couldn't possibly be your fault.
Oh yes of course it's the fault of the hot woman who's nice toa mean guy. Give it a rest
I'm trying not to generalize all "Hot" chicks but so many of them are making it hard by having this salty attitude just be more friendly DAMMMIT
Because men would rather prefer someone who they think would actually want them because no matter what they say most of em are insecured lol
Unless you tall jacked athletic like me, I LOVE HOT CHICKS
Nobody is entitled to anything or to deserves to be treated a certain way because of how they look.
I married someone very pretty I think. But I never went for a girl that I thought would be "high maintenance".
After reading this post... maybe guys don't like you because you have a fucking hideous personality, I can't believe the level of hatred & just patheticness thats in this post...
Idiots who find my post hateful are bad people projecting. Ur trash
Haha okay.
You sound so bitter.
Maybe you aren't as great as you think you are.
There are plenty of beautiful girls that are taken.
Some are single by choice.
Oh, sorry. Maybe your looks** aren't as great as you think they are.
Yeah, yeah I'm a bitch. Okay.
Uh-huh.
Have fun trolling.
Some very pretty girls have such horrible personality
I don't know about that. I see guys flocking towards hot girls where I'm from.
where are u from
California.
guys go for what they like, simple as that.
Mhm. What he said.
It is true, actually
Heh, simple and to the point. But I don't think it's always true. There's always the ones going for the low hanging fruit.
Oh also i would like to add men go for the women that accept them which is usually the average women. Most "pretty" women are stuck up and turn down every guy just because they can then cry about it when no one wants them.
yeah im such a loser :)
the reason we go for average girls are because popular people are a holes and cheat a lot and crap. its not fun because with an average girl you can have trust.
i know tons of average girls who cheat. problem is men will trust the average girls and distrust the honest hot women give them no chance, then go for the psycho women who are cheaters and liars
yea its actually the other way around. pretty girls are hard to approach, high maintenance, etc. that guys dont want to have to deal with.
but theyre not.. its a lie and false assumption... men will do anything fora fat ugly girl and give her what she wants and wrongly say the pretty girl who is low maintenance is high..
doubt it. plus I always see the fat girls single and the skinny ones dating. just not the popular ones cause "they are too good for you"
that proves that all men are actually gay.
Lol. That's what it seems
when men get together talking about that bitch..
now-here-this.timeout.com/.../drag5.jpg
The bitches us guys talk about are the one like you 😁😁😁😁
white guys should stop making money out of advertising how women are being a whore. when it think of it, white men are douchebag. who is worse or better? douchebag or whore? stop being an asshole. i had enough of this bull shits that they put it up with. they are evil who wants to make money by judging women. I suspect they are gay in the first place. if they really really love women, why wouldn't they ask her out nicely and take good care of her and get something in return. They are gay in the first place and can't find any men around so they become douchebag to find the second best thing, women. I don't know when they are going to accept this but then if they do, they will live forever. Truth will set you freeeeeee.
1no one said I was white, 2 not all guys are gay, 3 u speak from experience, 4 how can you say your tired of people judging women when u sit around saying all men are gay, douchebag and faggots, that just means u don't what your talking about. Many men do care about their girl or wife. U probable just haven't found that yet.
although the reason might just be the shape, size and skin condition of the penis. A lot of guys show nicely but then they have problem down there.
That's not the reason at all I really want to know we're are u getting this info from.
i go for hot girls! i am not gay!!!
Is this true. It makes sense. Wow
Pretty women tend to have worse personality. Maybe it is because of that. "im as hot as any 'hot' female celebrity" hmm. Yeah that's the reason. You overestimate yourself. I can't stand arrogance. I wouldn't approach you too.
Butthurt girl here
Guys are just f'd I mean they don't know what they want and even if they do they push them away.. and they do that to the pretty girls. Yet they seem to always find the fat ugly hoes with shit personalities that think there all that.
Most attractive women only want attractive guys. Fact. So why should average and below average guys bother?
You're single because you're superficial, judgmental, and arrogant. Guys can't stand that shit.
This isn't true.
At all.
I agree with your answer i like it :)))
Are these good looking men or average looking and below? So many men get rejected by these gorgeous women all the time so it's no surprise they decide to go for more average women. And they're probably better off for it.
its all men.. sometimes the more good looking men are worse.. in jealousy
you only talked about the guys who have rejected you. how many guys YOU have rejected?
correct... i bet the guys she rejected are ten times the amount of guys rejected her
That's not true, I would never go for uglier or even average women... that's why I'm still single.
Wow well ur rare for sure
What your saying makes no sense really. We always want what's sexier but not at the expensive of a shitty personality
Pretty women always get attention. Maybe your not so hot as you think, possible?
really.. its you guys with that kind of attitude who have the sh*tty personality... what a stupid generalization.. about hot women.. and oh yes all average to fat women have good personalities.. that is such a load of crap...
men kiss a** of b*tchy women and abuse nice women..
Well no, I know hot women that are sweethearts. Just you don't sound so confident. Are you the hot one or the average one. Just wondering
uhm i don't think so:X pretty girls are always taken and they all get married
Its a nasty question. who are. you to decide pretty?
maybe guys just think your *uglier average women* are the pretty ones :)
I don't go for the prettiest girls because honestly, they just seem like they'd reject me.
Reach out, gain your confidence, you can have anything you so desire and you must believe in yourself. But I will say, beware and ensure that she is not only pretty, but also a good person.
I don't see no ugly women sorry
Because we know we are more likely to get rejected by the pretty girl rather than the average or uglier girl.
Pretty women are mean, average looking women aren't. That is why.
Maybe because "uglier" girls have better attitudes like yourself.
*Unlikr yourself
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Maybe because "hot girls" used to reject them. So they realize that they'd rather pursue somebody they like who likes them back.
well its weird, 99% of men reject me b/c im hot.. so that makes no sense.. and i accept those guys.
99% of men reject you because you're hot? Come on!!!
maybe you are too much for guys to handle
I think men go for pretty women. But they'd do better in life to stay away from someone with a shit perception at life, like you.
"ooh mom look grapes!" "no jimmy don't touch that, those grapes are sour"
i am a man and if you are hot girl i would date you as fuck!
Gross... exactly what I've been saying. And why do you think we have our head up our asses. Hiding from guys like you, abuse, verbally, sexually, daily!!! It gets a girl into shut down mode, I can promise you that.
i will get a hot girlfriend!
Just "looking hot" →"she's probably taken" and the guy moves on.
Men tend to discard prettier women because of the automatic assumption that they are self-absorbed, or narcissistic- which most of them are.
nope most MEN are self absorbed and narcissistic.. not pretty women.. most men and ugly men are..
That's not true, you shouldn't make assumptions like that, because some of us are actually insecure.
Pretty women get approached every two seconds so there's no point approaching them, you have better odds winning the lottery
Average women are more down to earth and realistic, less bitchy too
BULLSHIT, get your head out of your butt and get real. Why don't you accept a challenge, get out of a comfort zone and LIVE for once. You might just be surprised if you guys would only just TRY... not every pretty girl out there is a gold digging bitch, snotty Kardashian, shallow idiot from tits-ville. Some of us are very smart, make very good money, independent but want a real loving man.. not a man thats goo goo, gah gah and at your knees in shock to be with you... OWN IT, confidence, share the dominance and that is #1 sexy regardless of looks.
lol no it's 90% looks.
And a pretty girl will get approached so much that if you don't have any outstanding qualities (aka money looks or fame) there's no point in trying
tl;dr
The most cliché answer ever - they probably have a better personality?
Yes ugly fat women have better personalities than hot women. So not true. It's the other way around.
There's more to a relationship than looks
Attractive women often have extremely high standards, and/or a superiority complex.
does it matter? lolol... quit your entitlement complex...
Hahah an over the hill woman. I won't be surprised if the next question will be "I can't find a man, where are they?"
30's is not over the hill.. thats a dumb statement coming from some teenager... it shows a lot of ignorance and arrogance
Hahah believe whatever you want. Hear that? The biological clock is ticking whether your in denial or not. The funny thing is that your asking this question now. Did you have this problem when you were younger? Trust me, YOUR the ignorant one. Just like how superman faced kryptonite, women face their kryptonite. Generally they become desperate like how you are sounding. Sooner or later menopause will be kicking in and your value will decrease even more. Men don't have this problem. Generally as we become more handsome and become successful in our career. The more power and wealth we have, the more girls we can get who are hotter and younger than YOU. That's reality. It may hurt, but it's called the ugly truth. But to answer your question, some guys are "intimidated" as they believe they will get rejected. Some of these girls are unapproachable, as shown in their body language, or just aren't interested.
I'm going to virtually slap you now
***slap***
Not because I agree with her but honestly... over the hill 😬
It's true and I already am seeing it in your face too. Your in denial if you think it's not there. Let me give you an analogy. Have you ever left out a bottle of milk in the open for days or weeks and then observe the content. Here's another one. When you buy a new car and drive it off if the lot, you lose 20% of it's value IMMEDIATELY. The car has that brand new smell and you see the odometer says 0. You drive it for a while, then you don't take it out for car washes as often as you first had the car, it's a little dirty, may have some issues with the engine, transmission, etc. No one is going to pay the full original price for a used car. So you trade up and get a newer model of that car.
You're just proof of how sick and stupid you are
Again dear, your in denial. What I said is true and you WILL face it one way or the other. Tbh you sound bitter. I read your updates and posts so far and that clearly shows. Your personality is a big issue. You think you are pretty so you feel entitled to get attention from men and now that your biological clock is ticking, your becoming bitter and angry. That's one issue right there that can solve your question. "All men are faggots". Oh yea, how nice. This clearly makes sense now. Proof of how "sick" I am? Humor me and explain.
Over the hill? No I don't think that's a problem. There are a lot of women who age gracefully and I'm sure men want the company of a mature, experienced, graceful woman. I think the problem lies with personality. Not that I agree with the asked's sentiments but I don't agree with you at all that a woman's value decreases over time.
Looks like for YOU they are ugly.
For the guys, they are not.
Yes they r ugly and the guys don't care. Ugly inside and out. Like many rude guys n girls here
I sense a troll. Oh hey over-the-hill anonymous!
Lol this story is too sad to be real. Poor girl is just too darn attractive :'(
Because someone has to love us basic bitches 💁
Girl you complex
Because off your big ego, hideous personality or just the arrogance in you speech.
Obviously I'm not the only one thinking that way, don't be blinded by your own stupidity.
You're an angry hateful psychopath. Get lost ur deranged
How nice are you when you call me a psychopath and bitch...
It's like you don't even know the meaning of the word. You just keep proving yourself wrong.
OMG your a lost call 😂
Maybe because they find it easier.
how do u know ur attractive and are u black
thinks she is a 9-10. in fact she is barely a six. seen that again. been there.
I'm a 12. Idiot
wow you are such a deluded narcissist. you are hopeless. right now you fell from 6 to 3. good luck with that.
You're psyxho. Evil ugly and jealous. Deluded narcissist that's u u pitiful freak. Thinking u can judge people's looks when you've never seen them. Just a jealous ugly lunatic
all the words you said are pure projections. i don't hate you, i pitty you. seeing you talk like that, brings in mind a person talking to a mirror.
LOL, guess it depends on the smarts, visual ability to assess yourself in that thing they call a mirror. Just like the girls that buy string bikinis in size 20... their mirrors are broken but while I say that, those girls are not broken in a different way. They just don't give a shit and are happier than us tortured attractive girls (even us smart, hard working attractive girls... not just gold diggers, hookers, etc.) Not sure which is the lesser of the two evils.
Guys are attracted to who they are attracted to.
Because pretty women reject them.
BC fugly women know how to f***
Why you mad OP
Maybe they are all sluts in bed.
Because pretty women suck.
We go for what we like, quit your complaining
You have the personality of a cunt.
That is all.
U sickos need to go. Get out of here it's scary how all the evil arrogant mean people come here insulting the asker. Just worthless evil attention seeking sickos with no souls. Shoo u demon
Not even worth it for just a nut
Shoo demon? Talking about evil?
Lady... fuck right off this site and get some therapy. You ARE a fucking cunt.