How do I deal with my boyfriend and sports illustrated swimsuit edition?

[CassieKnight]

Should I be bothered about the fact that my boyfriend reads Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition? He also follows the magazine on Twitter. We have discussed it and he said that he finds nothing wrong with guys looking at it. I of course believe the magazine is degrading to women and that my boyfriend should be more respectful and have the decency not to have the magazines laying around when I go to his place and follow the Twitter page publicly. I play three sports and enjoy exercising at the gym. I have no problem with my appearence, but it does make me feel self conscious because I am a petite girl. I don't have huge boobs or a big butt and most of the models in the magazine do. Is he wishing I looked like these models instead? He doesn't understand my reason. Any advice would be much appreciated

[Exterminatore]

I’m going to give you some advice all right, but when you don’t like my advice, remember you asked for it.

First of all STOP attempting to control your boyfriend. Let’s say you were dating me. I like cigars and whiskey once a month or so. Let’s say you disapprove. Guess what? Your disapproval isn’t going to change the fact I like whiskey and cigars. It will however do one of 4 things. 1. Cause me to dump you, cause this is what I like and if you don’t so we’re not compatible, Or if I was your average pussy whipped guy 2. Continue to enjoy my whisky and cigars despite the fact you outlawed them and simply lie to you and hide it from you. 3. Tell you to live with it or find a new man (what I would do if I liked you otherwise) 4. Lastly if I was a slime bag I’d do number 2 so I can keep having steady sex with you, while looking for your replacement.

To be continued below.

[Exterminatore]

Your boyfriend likes looking at hot chicks, or he’s gay and like looking at really expensive designer swimsuits. He is who he is. You’re not going to change him. Either live with it or find a new boyfriend. You should be thankful it’s not Hustler which at his age and before the invention of the internet is what I’d be reading... ummmm rather masturbating to.

[Exterminatore]

Now let’s talk about it being disrespectful women. Really? Obviously the women posing for the photo shoots don’t find it disrespectful, or are at least willing to be disrespected for large sums of money. Disrespectful to women. That’s pathetic and sounds like a line right out of the feminist manifesto. He’s a guy. He likes stroking it to perfect 10’s who there’s no chance in hell he will ever fuck and is going even classier than Playboy, all he’s seeing is camel toe and nipples through a swimsuit, or he’s gay and is really into expensive women’s fashion, particularly swimsuits. And is it really disrespectful to all women? Is a picture of a male model wearing Calvin Kilne underwater disrespectful to all men then? How bout that’s your bullshit argument for feeling insecure.

[Exterminatore]

You said “We have discussed it”. No you didn’t. You discussed it. In that conversation you told him you don’t like this, want him not looking at that stuff, and want him to quit and whatever other feminist garbage about women being disrespected or objectified you spewed at him. Pah LEASE! There was no conversation. You told him what to do, not discussed it with him and failed and now are looking for a way to make him comply or rather obey.

[Exterminatore]

Makes you feel self conscious. Get over yourself then. What this is about is you don’t like him jerking off to girls who are hotter than you. You want to be the center of attention, and believe me he’s jerking off to it. What? Like he’s comparing the materials the swimsuits are made of and writing and essay on them? Nope, not unless he’s gay. So what you need to do is understand this is not a big fucking deal and he’s not your property. You can’t make him do what you want or change him into what you want him to be.

[Exterminatore]

Lastly if you really want him not to do this and him not to lie and do it anyway or dump you there’s 2 options. Live with it or bribe him. I’d give up the swimsuit edition and Hustler for a guaranteed minimum of 5 blow jobs per week. That’s a deal, but coming at me like my mom and giving me shit about scoping out scantly clad hotties is going to get you nowhere.

[Exterminatore]

Ladies, take note. Lectures, nagging, bitching, demanding, or whatever won’t get you your way. Your man is who he is. He’s not a house. He’s not a fixer upper. If you want to change him, don’t manipulate him with nagging, threats and feminist horse shit, manipulate him with food, domestic chores, sex and booze. Give him what he wants and you get what you want, provided he’s not gay or a total pussy. Break his balls about such trivial matters and you end up dumped, lied to, or frustrated as you attempt to “change him” and get nowhere.

[Hangman33]

Your a real piece of shit you arrogant fag you don't deserve any women at all eat shit and doe

[Hangman33]

Shut the fuck up you arrogant prick o hope someone cuts you 2inch dick off

[Hangman33]

Yeah the hot chick should be who he is with not some cunt he doesn't know

[Exterminatore]

Awww. You said mean things to me and hurt my feelings 😢

[Punkbuster107]

Only an idiot would prefer fake images to a real live woman.

Sounds like you m'lady are dating an idiot. Find a guy who's eye can be satisfied by a sole woman.

[Exterminatore]

And it sounds like you’re whipped.

Why does this need to be a choice? Why can’t he have her and his magazines.

If she demanded this of me I’d stick with the magazines. I still get to jerk off and cum, and the magazines are t trying to change my lifestyle as if they own me. Then I can work on getting a hotter girlfriend who sucks dick way better and won’t give me shit about my mags.

Why does it need to be one or the other?

[Hangman33]

If your husband or boyfriend has any kind of respect he would only have eyes for you don't listen to these idiots saying it's harmless it's not a respectful man doesn't make the woman feel uncomfortable

[meeegggg]

You need not to stress about it. It's really not a big deal.. I mean I've looked at that magazine.

[Exterminatore]

What if they were all naked and pictures of them sucking dick and taking it up the ass? Would it be a big deal then?

I think not and hope for sanities sake you wouldn’t either.

[HorrorFan]

You should learn to get over it. Life isn't a romance novel. Expecting your significant other to only be attracted to you and act like no other female exists is not reality.

Men are going to look at attractive women regardless of age or status for the rest of their lives. You should plan your life in regards to the opposite sex accordingly.

[Hangman33]

Then we will do the same you pieces of shit have absolutely no respect eat shit and die

[Roycaryn]

Did you actually come out and tell him how you feel about it or did you just tell him not to leave them lying around so obviously every time you come home?

[Scarecrow13]

It really is no big deal but it could create a false expectation as all of the women are photo-shopped. As long as he realizes it is all fantasy and not real.

[JennieF]

I was in it one year. My husband liked it. I have no problem with it.

[Exterminatore]

You were in one? Listen I gotta know... how does it feel to know thousands, maybe even 10s of thousands of teenage boys and married men who haven’t had sex since she said “I do” have rubbed one out to you? I’m not trying to be an A hole (that only happens once a day and this is it) I’m serious. Also how does your husband feel knowing that? Like a stud I bet. He got the one everyone else wishes they could get.

Anyway, it’s awesome you got to be in one.

[JennieF]

@Exterminatore Yeah it was fun.

I don't want to be known just for being attractive, but I don't mind people thinking I am. I can't control what people do with the pictures. (And yes, they're on SI's website.)

Yeah my husband is pretty happy about it.

[Exterminatore]

I bet he is. Don’t wanna just be another pretty face in the crowd huh?

[JennieF]

@Exterminatore

[JennieF]

@Exterminatore

[Exterminatore]

Hey! Not bad! How the hell do you get your teeth that white? Seriously, I noticed your teeth before anything else and my eyes are well trained to look for other assets first.

[QuietRunner]

Well the only good Sports Illustrated magazine is the Body Edition.

[NYCQuestions1976]

You're being overly concerned.

[Hangman33]

No actually she's not your just being a self centered dick it's disrespectful if you have someone and your still looking

[Asdfg123fghjkl]

Draw a penis on one of the woman in the maggizen