So embarassed, accidentally called crush on viber at 3am! What to do?

[Anonymous]

Few days ago, I accidentally dialed the number of my crush, who I know in reality, however we never message. I got a notification that my contact has activated viber on windows and accidentally called him :/ it was late and I hung up, after the tone though. Then I blocked his number so that he doesn't see it's me... but he may have been online then, I don't know. Anyway I unblocked his number 3 days later, and just 2 hours ago I see a missed call from him on Viber and Whatsapp. Why did he call me? I mean I just accidentally dialed him and did not message sorry for that. He is unblocked now so my name and photo are there, therefore he knew he was calling me...
He is also my family friend and my girl friend's brother... I was planning to tell her that I like him soon. I feel so embarassed about the call and the fact that I like him, what if he doesn't feel the same, I will just be more embarassed, what if my friend says why I didn't tell her sooner, what should I do about this issue? Please help me, I never had a boyfriend too :(

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+1 y

Hey, just to update on the situation. A week after I called him accidentally, I had a missed call from him! But I didn't call back. Then few days later, I just sent him a message on fb saying - I saw you called me, I accidentally called you that night, sorry. And he replied - Ah I accidentally called you as well, all good. Strange... what do you think? I am seeing my friend and will tell her soon

[Anonymous]

He probably just called you back because he saw that you called first.. and he wanted to return the call to see why you called him.

You should just tell your friend how you feel about her brother. She may be able to tell you if he's talked about you to her or not. There's nothing you could do about if he doesn't feel the same.

[Asker]

Thanks for your reply :) Yeah I will tell my friend this weekend. But I am just curious now why he called me? I mean it was a accident and I didn't message, plus he didn't call day after, but 6 days later... Do you think he may like me too, and wants to start a convo or something? :/ As we NEVER message, I just talk to him a bit when I visit my friend...

[Opinion Owner]

I wrote earlier that he probably just called you back because he saw that you called him. Basically, he was probably just trying to return your call. Don't read too much into it. It doesn't seem like anything. Sure, it was 6 days later, but three of those days he was blocked, and then the other three days, he probably wasn't on and just saw it that day. Some people are not always on, and some people don't see those notifications all the time. Maybe he just saw it and decided to return the call.

Plus, since you said you never message, then he is probably curious as to why you called him them (even if it was just an accident on your part). He might have thought it was important.

Anyway, don't read too much into it. It doesn't sound like anything romantic yet.

[Asker]

Ok I understand, thanks for your explanation. So what should I do now? I mean I will tell my friend as soon as I see her, and then I will her of accident call (as I don't think he told my friend). But in the meantime, should I message him? I really don't want to, as I just want to tell my friend first... :/

[Opinion Owner]

Do what you're comfortable doing. If you don't want to message him, don't message him. Just tell your friend first, and hear what your friend has to say. Then, go from there.

[Asker]

Hey, just to update on the situation. A week after I called him accidentally, I had a missed call from him! But I didn't call back. Then few days later, I just sent him a message on fb saying - I saw you called me, I accidentally called you that night, sorry. And he replied - Ah I accidentally called you as well, all good. Strange... what do you think? I am seeing my friend and will tell her soon

[Dhi99]

Well you had him initially blocked, so he didn't know that it was not a stranger.

Wgy did you not text him on viber but on fb? You gave the call via viber. Do you consider viber more personal that fb?

by the way

Do you think she knew who I was when she texted me (via her private number) or do you think she just texted without checking who it was ( without realising that it was my number) ?

Context: I came across her at the bus stop and I asked her for her number. I am not her client but she gave me her work mobile number not her private number. I didn't realise this until yesterday. I have sent her happy new year text etc to this work number. I even called this number and spoke to her. All this time it seemed to me that it was her number.

However, yesterday when I gave a call, she no longer had that phone. Someone else now was carrying that work number. Yesterday, I gave a call to her work mobile, her colleague picked it up. I asked for her, the colleague said she was not in the office. I asked for her number but the colleague hesitated to give her number. The colleague told me that she d text her. The colleague did not ask for my name ( therefore this means perhaps that previously the girl has saved my number in this work phone)

The girl in question texted me after 10 minutes (not from work mobile) but her private number. This is the first time I realised that she had another number. Her text was saying “ you gave a call to XYZ company hotline (mobile number which she previously gave me) and my colleague said you were looking for me. How could I help you “ . She did not write my name. But I have a feeling she knew that it was me. Because will a girl call from her private number to some unknown person who called the work mobile?

[apple24]

no big deal! No need to panic! Just talk to ur friend and talk to the guy.

[Asker]

Thanks a lot for replying! I will talk to my friend and tell her when I see her next. I am just ignoring this call back from him, is that rude that I didn't apologize when I called by accident? And why did he wait 6 days to call back? I mean I did not expect anything. I am so lost :/

[apple24]

Don't worry just be honest and clear thing up. You got nothing to lose.

[Asker]

Hey, just to update on the situation. A week after I called him accidentally, I had a missed call from him! But I didn't call back. Then few days later, I just sent him a message on fb saying - I saw you called me, I accidentally called you that night, sorry. And he replied - Ah I accidentally called you as well, all good. Strange... what do you think? I am seeing my friend and will tell her soon

[apple24]

nothing just random call... no big deal!

[Dhi99]

Well he doesn't know that you are embrassed about the situation.

Therefore, maybe tell him that you accidentally called him and you took a long time to clear out the air because you were embrassed about the situation.

[Anonymous]

Go to the loo and take a shit.

[Asker]

That's rude :(

[Opinion Owner]

Do as you're told, woman