My crush finally approached me to talk and I panicked out of nervousness and ruined it!

[Anonymous]

how can I fix it? should I message him and ask him out? or be like I'm glad I saw you today! it made my day...please help.

i basically started walking off in a direction and said bye when I should've stayed to talk I just choked!

[thats-her]

been there and reacted WAY worse.. trust me this one is easy to bounce back from, at least you said bye, I looked this guy in the eyes and turned my back to him LOL ... so to recover... think of something that you know he's into, if he competes in something or does sports just bring it up, my starter was basically "hey, I see you're dropping weight, you getting closer to the mark?" why did I use this? because I knew he was having to make weight for an upcoming fight and it worked perfectly, he opened up big time and has helped me with some moves since then... just do something like that

[Anonymous]

haha I did the same exact thing to my crush, my freshman year and we ended up dating. its been five and a half years together now:)

just go up to him and start talking then say something like " don't worry I won't walk off, this time" (when you say it, look him in the eyes and genuinely smile)

*trust me, it works like a charm ;)

[Roald]

I don't think so. If he's a good guy, he may consider things went badly from his behaviour or yours and he might have to try a new attempt. He can be frightened to attempt once more, assuring himself he went wrong but being unable to determine where he got wrong. It can be a huge maze for him. Maybe it's your time now to go and meet him. Don't put the whole blame on one person (you or him), show him, tell him what most stroke you positively in his behaviour, he needs your support now !

[Asker]

So you're saying I shouldnt ask him out? can I just message him and be flirty? so he doesn't get afraid to approach me in the future?

[noricat]

How do you girls manage to find any relationships if your instinctual response to someone you like coming up to you is to blank them. No wonder a ton of guys simply move on before you can do anything.

I don't know how but practice on not resorting to such self destructive reactions in future. Take it cool and easy, he's talking to you, not proposing marriage, sheesh!