Is there any good guys out there? (Page 2)

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i know that question seems a little extreme but honestly I'm losing faith in the male gender, I need someone to convince me that not all guys are cheaters or just looking for sex. all the guys I seem to find that all they are about...even my best guy friends all they do is find girls to have sleep with, even the ones with girlfriends. I have had countless boyfriends cheat on me and I have had countless guys with girlfriends hit on me...even my best girlfriends boyfriends have tried sweet talking me...all this has lead me to have a lot of trust issues with guys...sorry guys if this is offensive, but try to change that opinion and give me some input as to why guys ask like this.

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of guys here responded saying they're nice, nerdy, respectful and all. I've fallen for them, but they leave me and then go for the ugly slut. So in a sense, while girls go for the jerk, nice guys go for the bitch. Nobody wins. Lol

Anonymous · Answer

Right now, I'm just looking at girls for sex. The last girl I was friendly with for years and we just started getting intimate and then she left me for some guy she hardly knew. Could he be right for her? I don't know but I do know that it made me feel pretty sh*tty and now I have no intention of starting any real relationships with anyone anytime soon. Of course if someone I really clicked with came along, maybe it would be a different story.

pezzonovante88 · Answer

It looks like there are a lot of comments already so I will answer your question. briefly.  Yes, but they are hard to find.  Try shy guys, seriously.  I actually consider myself one, and almost all of my friends are the immature guys who constantly womanize and try to 'get laid'.  But, good guys are definitely out there.  Good luck!

here4you · Answer

wow it seems like the guys you know are pretty unfaithful why don't you try meeting some other guys? or meet some new people?

Avgjoe123 · Answer

LOLOLOLOL. "Is there any good guys out there" Yea obviously, the ones that you and half the woman on the planet tend to reject.

sullair10 · Answer

Good news ...YES there are.  They are either  A. Married B. Gay C. Both (In Massachusetts)

big-tony · Answer

in 65% of the situation is the girls problem and not the guys yet us guys get the blame for being "assholes" when it's really the girls sh*tity personality and character.

makevali · Answer

simple

your looking in all the wrong places

or

your method of presenting yourself give guys the impression that your nothing but a play thing if you get my meaning

there are good guys and bad guys

there are good girls and bad girls ;p

Rangersno01 · Answer

HI, Well I'm going out with the perfect guy, He's sweet, kind, thoughful and loving, There is a perfect guy out there for you defenetly I've found mine so go find yours. :D BY L

Make-it-Bacon · Answer

So many stereotypes in this thread, it sickens me.  Keep on truck'in and stop looking for that one answer because they are all just uneducated opinions. Too many Dr.Phil's in here.

Joli-Anna · Answer

My case is quite the opposite I had the guy who doted with anything with boobs and legs ha ha or rather I should say have. I hink that if you put up a front of being too open some Guys  will want to take  advantage of your over friendliness. Sometimes being picky and saying what you want up front won't decieve a guy into thinking you're someone who'll just give it up with no regrets or hesitation

ArizonaRX · Answer

Well, I consider myself a good guy. But, I guess you'd have to get verification from a bunch of people I know. I'm sure if you did you'd find out that good guys do exist.

cutencoolguy · Answer

To be honest, there are good guys, but there a difference between good guys and guys who're angels(not having any sexual intentions). Even the best guys have sexual intentions at the back of their mind. Let us just say it's the biological factor of wanting most offsprings with their own genes that makes guys that way

chealsey_kisses · Answer

I have to say that many guys are searching for something to make then feel fullfilled and I have learned many times never ever put all your eggs into one basket. Maybe one of the reasons guys go to you is because they think you may be easy.. The harder you are to get the more interested guys get. Most guys like the hard one cas its a challenge and that's not all guys but good luck finding one that isn't this way.

Bubbles · Answer

It took my 8 years to find a good guy, but I lost him... But there are good guy's out there. Not many, but there is. It just might take awhile to get him. But trust me they are out there.

sage-of-caring · Answer

I was just thinking the same thing, well not exactly the same thing, I haven't lost faith in the female gender, just in finding a good one. I hate to say it but most "good" are in a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Men are corrupt. But it's not their fault. It's been ingrained into them that the amount of beautiful girls that they've slept with has a direct correlation to their worth. Even though this is not so and many of them know it, social pressures and desire for acceptance get the better of them. It's really unfortunate that this is the experience you've had with men. Not all men are bad. Most of them are just conformists.

-Austin

Anchorage, AK

jester7979 · Answer

I'm a good guy... LMAO... uh, you gotta admit that was my funniest jest yet.  Uuuhhh, I kill me... LOL

twreck99 · Answer

Best thing is get confidence. I hate to be in your face but its mainly your fault. your the one with the guy so do some more investigating.

girloncue · Answer

I have had both a fake good guy, and an actual good guy. You know it when you meet him. it was just too bad his heart was still bruised.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh...I only read the title, and my answer is yes, but they're SUCH chickens!

It's INCREDIBLE!

But I guess you can't expect everything, so you get a bad guy, or you just never get the good one. It's sad really...

[this is just my experience]

MrZoork · Answer

If the guys your finding aren't what your looking for try a different venue. Bars and malls don't always have the best pickings.

dray2007 · Answer

not every dude is like that for me its the other y around but know its some good girl ou there for me it I eay t lose faith but when you finally meet that one it will be well worth the wait

kevlar · Answer

You need to tell me if there are any good girls out there?

eunouchizo · Answer

If your dealing with younger men the younger man concept is all about having  conquests and  really is not about love.The dating game  will get better.

Anonymous · Answer

I am 22 and virgin just because I am simple and quite AND not a bad guy. Girls themselves...look first for the bad guys.

BlackSuperman · Answer

it happens to everyone... the only person who can help you besides God is Father Time (experience)

Anonymous · Answer

read...

Oddjob · Answer

Awesome! I hope the new guy continues to sustain your faith in guys.

INUYAHA · Answer

There are good guys. Trust me, I'm one of them. I am so nice that I never even ask out girls because I don't think I'm good enough. I'm a sweet guy and I would love anygirl that would go out with me. additional info available if you wan't.

Anonymous · Answer

Read

wikiinit · Answer

Haha you blame it on the guys. You obviously are attracted to alpha males. So try to get a beta male. But you'll get bored.

bloodbathhell · Answer

v are lik dis cos v are MADE lik dis a guy's objective is to giv his sperm to as many females as posible to spread d genes but gals are completly opposit so it ain't any1's fault itz evolution

Anonymous · Answer

No, I'm just looking for sex. I gave up trying to find a woman worth any more.

baby562 · Answer

well I think if you give life patince it will all come to you and maybe that guy will come even sooner than you expect... you just have to be pactint

grogle27 · Answer

Haha well I agree with you 99.9% of guys are jerks (or worse) towards girls. Try to find the quiet and sensitive ones, and I'v found that strong christians are part of the .1% Hope it helps =D

jazzplayer · Answer

Yes. 1000's of them. Women label them 'nice' and treat them as 'friends' You said you have had COUNTLESS guys cheat on you and use you for sex...er...is there a pattern emerging here?

sawswill20 · Answer

I Think They're Good Guys Out There It Just Urks Me To See Girls Treated Like Crap I Would Never Treat A Girl Like That And Never Cheat On Her Why Do Nice Guys Get Looked Over?.

smity13 · Answer

personally I hate cheaters most of my friends cheat and I'm the only one who doesn't when your in a relationship with a girl who have to be faitfull hit me up if you wanna talk biagio420@hotmail.com

soconfused1991 · Answer

i agree with what you say what guys out there are like in the fairy tales?

loveshawn24 · Answer

I seem that no guy is the same some think with their d***s and some think with their heart

Anonymous · Answer

Oh baby your pretty hot. Want to have some sexy time with me I will pound you good.

martyfellow · Answer

Well, there's me, but I'm married

cacapisu · Answer

wow, last update was great :O

here4you · Answer

congrats! I'm happy for you =)

tyrantfuryre · Answer

Hello, I'm right here! Hey! ME!  =(

bunny420 · Answer

I don't think there are. :)

Anonymous · Answer

there are no good women, just selfish women

Anonymous · Answer

*are

Dorby · Answer

Hello, I am here!

The-Dude-Next-Door · Answer

I am a good guy.

dreamishobby · Answer

here's a good guy!

netscraper21 · Answer

U CAN TRY ME!

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